Blessed + Bossed Up

Start With Sobriety


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Episode summary:

Today we kick off a new how-to series answering a listener’s question: “I study what you teach, but I still feel stuck.” Tatum lays the foundation—sobriety of mind and spirit—so you can actually apply the Bible to your business. She shares her pruning season (fasting, laying down a growing business, guarding inputs), why entrepreneurship can be intoxicating, and how to detox the influences that dull your sensitivity to the Holy Spirit. You’ll get a free 30-day Clarity Cleanse to practice sober-minded focus before we ever talk funnels, launches, or plans.

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Scriptures referenced
  • 1 Peter 5:8 – Be sober-minded and watchful.
  • 1 Thessalonians 5:6–8 – Stay awake and sober; breastplate of faith and love.
  • Mark 14:38 – Watch and pray; spirit willing, flesh weak.
  • (Also mentioned across the episode: Romans 12:2; Philippians 4:8; 2 Corinthians 10:5; Psalm 119:37; Matthew 6:22; Psalm 139:23–24; Matthew 6:33; Proverbs 16:3)

Key takeaways
  • Clarity precedes strategy. If you’re not sober-minded, you’ll chase metrics and momentum instead of God’s voice.
  • “With” not “for.” You’re building with God as CEO—His timing, His blueprint, His outcomes.
  • Guard your inputs. Influence creep is subtle: self-help replaces Scripture, “quick wins” replace consecration.
  • Two paths. Mixed mentorship + hurry = wasted time and money; obedience in His timing = preserved energy, precise results, lasting fruit.
  • Kingdom metrics ≠ vanity metrics. Success = pleasing God. Revenue follows revelation in due season.

5 intoxicating influences to detox
  1. Success culture & performance pressure
  2. Digital noise & comparison
  3. Mixed mentorship (many voices before The Voice)
  4. Materialism & metrics-based validation
  5. Over-independence (DIY vs. dependence on God)

The Clarity Cleanse (30 days)

A free, simple month of daily Scripture, reflection, declarations, and prayer to detox the mind, mouth, media, and motives so you can hear clearly and obey promptly.

Download: blessed-bossed-up.kit.com/claritycleanse



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