The ADHD Kids Can Thrive Podcast

Step Away: Resilient Parenting Strategies for ADHD Families


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Host: Kate Brownfield, Certified Whole Person & ADHD Parent Coach

Guest: Dr. Kate Lund, clinical psychologist, peak performance coach, TEDx speaker, and author of Step Away: The Keys to Resilient Parenting

Episode Overview

In this empowering “Kate + Kate” episode, Kate talks with Dr. Kate Lund about what resilient parenting really looks like when you’re raising kids with ADHD, big emotions, or health challenges. Drawing from her own medical journey (hydrocephalus as a child), 20+ years as a psychologist, and parenting 18-year-old twins, Dr. Lund explains resilience not as “pushing through,” but as a lifestyle: managing your stress response daily so you can ride the waves of homework battles, morning chaos, and dysregulated kids. She teaches a simple, science-backed tool, the Relaxation Response, that parents can practice for 5 minutes in the morning and at night to lower reactivity, model calmness, and create a more regulated home.

Suppose your baseline feels higher than that of other parents because your child is more intense or more dysregulated. In that case, this episode will help you stop comparing, honor your unique context, and build steadiness that you can actually sustain.

What We Talk About (Highlights)

  • Resilience as a lifestyle

  • Managing your stress response

  • The Relaxation Response (Herbert Benson)

  • Modeling regulation

  • Avoiding the comparison trap

  • “Step away” moments

  • Ripple effect for ADHD families: Calm first, then coach skills

  • Resources & Links

    • Guest: Dr. Kate Lund https://www.katelundspeaks.com/

    • Book: Step Away: The Keys to Resilient Parenting https://www.katelundspeaks.com/book



    • About Your Host, Kate

      I’m Kate Brownfield, Certified Whole Person & ADHD Parent Coach, author of How We Roll: A Parent’s Journey Raising a Child with ADHD, and host of The ADHD Kids Can Thrive Podcast. I help parents understand ADHD through a whole-person lens—because every child is unique, and so is every family.

      🌐 Find me: ADHDKidsCanThrive.com

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