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I shared this with coaches recently, and the response was so strong I had to bring it to you moms too. Start here 👉 https://trainhergame.com/mom
She's got the skills. The drive. But the moment pressure hits, it all falls apart. And "just be more confident" hasn't helped once.
👋🏼 Hi, I'm Coach Bre, a mental performance coach for girl athletes, Co-Founder of The Elite Competitor, and a head volleyball coach and 4-time state champion.
Confidence isn't a pep talk. It's a skill. And in this episode, I'm sharing the three tools I've used with my own athletes for 7 years to actually build it.
You'll learn:
→ Why "shake it off" makes mistakes worse, not better
→ How body language directly affects how confident your daughter feels
→ The 5-minute daily routine that rewires her brain before practice
These are the same tools behind four consecutive state championships. They work. And you can start supporting her with them today.
⏱️ Key Moments
00:00 Introduction
00:15 Why "Be Confident" Doesn't Work
01:52 Tool #1: The Snapback Routine
03:49 Tool #2: Body Language
05:08 Tool #3: Daily Mindset Routine
05:22 The 3-2-1 Brave Method
07:17 Visualization & Neuroscience
07:30 Wrap Up & Next StepsÂ
đź“© Want to connect? Email us at [email protected]
📌 Resources & Tools
🙌 What's Your Competitor Style Quiz (to send your athlete!): https://www.videoask.com/fnbmhduxy
đź’ś Conversation Guide w/ Scripts to Bring Up Mental Training: https://s3.amazonaws.com/kajabi-storefronts-production/file-uploads/sites/144031/downloads/66e16c-6886-4a62-b8db-c43a1ae18fbd_The_Elite_Mental_Game_Conversation_Starter.pdf%20
🎯 FREE Training for Sports Moms: https://trainhergame.com/mom
📺 YouTube Playlist for Athletes: https://www.youtube.com/@AthleteMentalEdge
🎓 The Elite Mental Game (our self-paced mental training program): https://elitecompetitor.com/emg
đź”” Subscribe for more mental training tips for girl athletesÂ
P.S. A few stats worth knowing:
⚡️ Fewer than 10% of high school athletes receive any formal mental skills training, yet research shows it significantly improves confidence and resilience. (Association for Applied Sport Psychology)
⚡️ Mental imagery activates the same neural pathways as physical practice - meaning visualization is literally practice for the brain. (Driskell, Copper & Moran, Journal of Sport & Exercise Psychology)
⚡️ Athletes who regulate emotions quickly after errors consistently outperform those who ruminate, regardless of raw skill level. (Journal of Applied Sport Psychology, University of Chicago)Â
The Raising Elite Competitors YouTube channel is hosted by The Elite Competitor and is dedicated to helping sports moms strengthen their daughter's mental game and confidence in order to help her perform her best when it matters most.Â
 #mentalperformance #girlathlete #sportsparenting
By Coach Bre4.9
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I shared this with coaches recently, and the response was so strong I had to bring it to you moms too. Start here 👉 https://trainhergame.com/mom
She's got the skills. The drive. But the moment pressure hits, it all falls apart. And "just be more confident" hasn't helped once.
👋🏼 Hi, I'm Coach Bre, a mental performance coach for girl athletes, Co-Founder of The Elite Competitor, and a head volleyball coach and 4-time state champion.
Confidence isn't a pep talk. It's a skill. And in this episode, I'm sharing the three tools I've used with my own athletes for 7 years to actually build it.
You'll learn:
→ Why "shake it off" makes mistakes worse, not better
→ How body language directly affects how confident your daughter feels
→ The 5-minute daily routine that rewires her brain before practice
These are the same tools behind four consecutive state championships. They work. And you can start supporting her with them today.
⏱️ Key Moments
00:00 Introduction
00:15 Why "Be Confident" Doesn't Work
01:52 Tool #1: The Snapback Routine
03:49 Tool #2: Body Language
05:08 Tool #3: Daily Mindset Routine
05:22 The 3-2-1 Brave Method
07:17 Visualization & Neuroscience
07:30 Wrap Up & Next StepsÂ
đź“© Want to connect? Email us at [email protected]
📌 Resources & Tools
🙌 What's Your Competitor Style Quiz (to send your athlete!): https://www.videoask.com/fnbmhduxy
đź’ś Conversation Guide w/ Scripts to Bring Up Mental Training: https://s3.amazonaws.com/kajabi-storefronts-production/file-uploads/sites/144031/downloads/66e16c-6886-4a62-b8db-c43a1ae18fbd_The_Elite_Mental_Game_Conversation_Starter.pdf%20
🎯 FREE Training for Sports Moms: https://trainhergame.com/mom
📺 YouTube Playlist for Athletes: https://www.youtube.com/@AthleteMentalEdge
🎓 The Elite Mental Game (our self-paced mental training program): https://elitecompetitor.com/emg
đź”” Subscribe for more mental training tips for girl athletesÂ
P.S. A few stats worth knowing:
⚡️ Fewer than 10% of high school athletes receive any formal mental skills training, yet research shows it significantly improves confidence and resilience. (Association for Applied Sport Psychology)
⚡️ Mental imagery activates the same neural pathways as physical practice - meaning visualization is literally practice for the brain. (Driskell, Copper & Moran, Journal of Sport & Exercise Psychology)
⚡️ Athletes who regulate emotions quickly after errors consistently outperform those who ruminate, regardless of raw skill level. (Journal of Applied Sport Psychology, University of Chicago)Â
The Raising Elite Competitors YouTube channel is hosted by The Elite Competitor and is dedicated to helping sports moms strengthen their daughter's mental game and confidence in order to help her perform her best when it matters most.Â
 #mentalperformance #girlathlete #sportsparenting

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