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What if the thing that turns you on the most… is also the thing you’ve been too afraid to admit?

This episode pulls back the curtain on one of the fastest-growing—and most misunderstood—kinks: pregnancy and lactation play. And no, it’s not just a guy thing.

Some women say it’s the sexiest they’ve ever felt. Others say it helped them reclaim their bodies after birth. And for many, it’s about erotic power, healing shame, and exploring deeper levels of intimacy.

My guest, Chelsea Newton, is a queer sex therapist and founder of Phases of the Mind Therapy. With dual master’s degrees in Social Work and Human Sexuality, she’s a kink-affirming expert who helps people explore the desires they’ve been taught to hide—and find surprising healing along the way.
Together, we unpack:

•  What pregnancy and lactation kinks really mean
•  Why they’re more common than you think
•  The psychology—and nervous system magic—behind these turn-ons
•  How this kink ties into early attachment, power, and care
•  How to explore it consensually (even if no one’s actually pregnant)

This isn’t just a conversation about kink—it’s about freedom, pleasure, and the power of naming what turns you on.

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You don’t have to be “kinky” to completely blow her mind—you just need a little curiosity.

In this episode, I’m breaking down 5 beginner-friendly kinks that are: ✅ Easy to try
✅ Expert-approved
✅ And absolutely guaranteed to take your bedroom game from basic to bold

We’re talking praise kink, anal play (yes, for her and you), light restraint, power dynamics, and erotic punishment—all explained in a way that feels approachable, sexy, and real.

These are the kinks she secretly wants… but probably won’t ask for.
 And I’m giving you the step-by-step breakdown, the science behind why they work, AND the tools to make it happen. 👇

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 If you think dating over 40 is just ghosting, gym bros, and endless swiping with no spark—think again. In this episode, I’m joined by Andrea McGinty, the matchmaking powerhouse who’s set up over 33,000 dates and 4,200 marriages. She’s been on Oprah, CNN, and now she’s here to spill the secrets from her new book 2nd Acts: Winning Strategies for Dating Over 40. Whether you're divorced, widowed, or just sick of the apps, Andrea’s insights will flip everything you thought you knew about midlife dating—and show you how to make your next chapter the sexiest one yet. 

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 Most men have no idea just how kinky their partner might secretly be. We've all heard the tired myths—“women aren’t as into sex,” or “guys are the freaky ones.” But here’s the truth: women are just as kinky, just as curious, and often have wild desires they’re too afraid to say out loud. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m diving into 5 surprising, research-backed kinks that women love—yes, love—that will flip the script on what you think you know. These aren’t your standard fare; we’re talking primal urges, psychological turn-ons, and play that builds real emotional intensity. Whether you're a guy looking to understand what she’s craving or a woman ready to explore more of your own erotic edge, this episode is your permission slip to go deeper, get bolder, and finally have the hot, honest conversations that turn bedroom blah into 🔥 

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Think women don’t want sex as much as men? Think again. In this episode, I sit down with renowned somatic sex therapist Susan Morgan Taylor to bust one of the most damaging myths about women’s sexuality: that we have a “naturally low libido.” We unpack the real reasons so many women struggle with desire—and spoiler alert—it’s not about hormones or aging. You’ll learn the top causes of low sex drive, how to reignite your partner’s pleasure (or your own), and why rewriting this narrative benefits everyone in the bedroom. Whether you’re a woman looking to reclaim your desire or a partner who wants to better understand what’s really going on—this episode is your roadmap to deeper, hotter, more connected sex. 

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 Want to turn him into putty in your hands—without saying a word? In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m sharing 14+ playful power moves that will have your man gasping, grinding, and flat-out begging for more. This isn’t about leather whips and dungeon gear (unless you're into that). It’s about seductive control—grip strength, pu$$y pulses, whispered commands, and little things you can do with your voice, your eyes, even your silence—that flip the switch in his brain from “I’ve got this” to “Take me, I’m yours.” Inspired by a hot listener email from Kelly, this episode is packed with step-by-step instructions for subtle domination, starting with peni$ play (because that’s what Kelly asked for)—and ending with next-level power moves that will make you unforgettable. 

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 In this episode, we dive into the complex world of narcissistic relationships with therapist and trauma expert Sonnet Damon. We'll explore the subtle signs of narcissistic abuse, why it's so easy to get caught up in these toxic dynamics, and—most importantly—how to break free and rebuild. Sonnet shares practical tips for healing, from reparenting exercises to setting boundaries and finding your way back to healthy, fulfilling connections. Whether you're questioning your own relationship or supporting someone else, this conversation is a must-listen for reclaiming your power and moving forward. 

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 Want to know the secret to making her beg for more every time? Most guys rush straight to the finish line, but the truth is, women crave longer, more satisfying sessions. Today, I’m sharing four game-changing penetration hacks that are backed by science and designed to keep her moaning for more. Say goodbye to the quickie routine—these moves will have you turning minutes into a pleasure marathon. Let’s dive in!

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 In today’s dating world, women are redefining their personal timelines and taking control of their futures in powerful ways—and one of the most significant trends in this shift is egg freezing. This game-changing decision allows women to pause their biological clocks and approach relationships and family planning on their own terms. But what does it really mean for the dynamics of dating, relationships, and empowerment? Today, we’re diving into the evolving world of egg freezing with April Davis, a renowned relationship expert and luxury matchmaker, to explore how this choice is transforming modern love and the ways women are navigating their reproductive and emotional journeys. 

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 Ever wonder why the sex after a fight can feel so ridiculously hot? You’re not imagining it—there’s actual science behind that explosive, can’t-keep-your-hands-off-each-other energy that follows a heated argument. In this episode, we’re diving into the psychological and biological reasons why “fight sex” hits different—and how you can recreate that same intensity without the emotional chaos. Whether you're craving more passion, deeper connection, or just a few wild, headboard-banging orgasms, I’ll show you how to harness those same primal, pulse-racing dynamics—minus the drama. 

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