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You’ve heard the whispers. Maybe even fantasized about it. But what actually happens behind closed doors at high-end sex parties?

In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we’re pulling back the velvet curtain with special guest Shannon Wong—a performer, kink educator, and fierce advocate for sex-positive, female-led spaces. From her roots as a SuicideGirl and burlesque dancer to curating experiences in the world of ethical non-monogamy, Shannon gives us the inside scoop on what really goes down at elite sex events—and how women are changing the game.

We dive into:
 🔸 What makes luxury sex parties so different from the rest
 🔸 How consent and communication are everything
🔸 Why women-owned, female-led spaces feel safer, hotter, and more empowering
🔸 What newcomers should actually know before attending a play party

✨ If you’ve ever been curious about the high-end side of sex, kink, and ethical group play, this episode is your invitation to explore with eyes wide open.

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You think she wants you because of how good you were during sex?

Think again.

What you do after sex is what sets you apart—and makes her crave you all over again.

In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we’re flipping the script and diving into what happens in the 5 minutes after you come. Because that window? It’s not downtime—it’s prime time.

You’ll learn:

• 🔥 How to use touch, talk, and energy to leave her shaking for more
• 🧠 The science behind afterglow oxytocin—and how to use it to deepen connection
• 💋 What “praise kink” actually looks like in vanilla and kinkier dynamics
• 🧖‍♀️ 5 unexpected aftercare moves that make you unforgettable in bed
• 🛏️ How to set up round two before she even asks for it

Whether you're looking to level up your intimacy, turn casual sex into something magnetic, or become the lover she can't stop thinking about—this episode is your new playbook.

Touch her body, her mind, and her heart. Not just during sex—but after.

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You’ve heard the jokes. Seen it in porn. Maybe even whispered about it with a friend.
 But fisting—when done right—isn’t about shock. It’s about trust, surrender, and full-body pleasure that goes way deeper than you think.

In this episode, I’m joined by sex therapist Chelsea Newton, and we’re diving into the truth about vaginal fisting:
What it really feels like, why it’s healing for so many women and queer folks, and how to explore it safely—with confidence, consent, and a whole lot of lube.

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🔥 Why it’s not “too much”
 🧠 The emotional + healing side of deep penetration
 🌶️ Cervical and full-body orgasms
 💬 How to start—slowly, safely, and with trust

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This is your step-by-step guide to vaginal fisting done right—for real connection, full-body pleasure, and the kind of deep, slow sex that leaves her saying “holy fck.”*

In this episode, I walk you through:
 💦 What fisting actually is (hint: it’s not what you’ve seen online)
 🧠 The science behind why it feels so good
 🔥 How to build up to it with care, trust, and a ton of lube
 🤲 A full technique breakdown—from yoni massage to entry, external stimulation, orgasm, and aftercare
 Plus: how to pull out without ruining the moment and why fisting can be deeply emotional and healing

Whether you’re brand new or just want to do it better—this is your complete how-to guide.

And in the next episode? I’ll be joined by a queer sex therapist to take you even deeper. So hit that subscribe button.

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Is it true that girth matters more than length? Or is it all in your head… and maybe hers too?
In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we’re pulling back the sheets on one of the most common questions men obsess over: Am I thick enough?

Joining me is Dr. Amy Pearlman, board-certified urologist and sexual health expert, here to break down the science behind penile girth, sexual satisfaction, and why so many men tie their self-worth to size.

We’re covering:
 🔥 What girth actually does during penetration
🧠 How penis size affects self-esteem and sexual performance
🩺 What partners really think about size (and what they crave instead)
💉 The truth about girth enhancement: risks, rewards, and what works
💡 Tips for better sex no matter your size

Whether you’re curious about procedures like PhalloFILL or just want to stop obsessing and start feeling confident in bed, this one’s for you.

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Turn touch into trust. Grip into pleasure. And make her feel so safe, she’ll come undone in your hands.

Most men think they know how to touch a woman—but if you’ve ever wondered why she isn’t melting into your hands, moaning before the sex even starts, or coming back for more? This episode is your wake-up call.

I’m breaking down the 5 specific steps every man needs to know to handle a woman’s body with confidence, clarity, and emotional precision—from the first touch to the final stroke.

This isn’t about domination or rough sex. This is about physical intelligence—the kind that makes her feel wanted, safe, and deeply desired. Backed by sex science, psychology, and 20+ years of intimate coaching work, I’m giving you the exact roadmap for:

• Waking up her body before you even undress her
• Using contrast and stillness to create tension that drives her wild
• Moving her like a partner, not a porn clip
• Anchoring her during sex so she can let go
• And how to touch her after—so she never forgets you

Whether you’re new to sex or seasoned but ready to level up, this one is for you.

Share it with a man who needs to hear it. Or one you want to train.

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Is it sex if you’re just soaking? What about butt stuff? Or dry humping in your underwear?

In this quick follow-up to our viral episode on virginity, I sit down with Dr. Sue Milstein to unpack the wild “workarounds” people use to technically stay virgins… even when they're doing everything but.

We touch on:

• Soaking 
• Anal sex in purity culture
• and how kids are getting crabs in their armpits

This isn’t just about religious shame. It’s about the myths we carry into adulthood — and what happens when we realize the rules were made up all along.

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Ever wonder why your tongue isn't getting the reaction you want down there? In this episode, I'm showing you the real oral sex techniques that make women lose their minds—with step-by-step breakdowns that go way beyond the basic swirl-and-hope-for-the-best.

As a sex and intimacy coach, I’ve talked to hundreds of women about what actually makes oral unforgettable—and spoiler: it’s not about speed or pressure. It’s about rhythm, teasing, tension, and tuning in.

✅ The #1 technique you’re probably skipping
 ✅ How to sync your tongue with her body’s natural orgasm patterns
 ✅ Where to focus (and why the tip isn’t the whole story)
 ✅ What to do with your hands while you're down there
✅ How to use verbal feedback to become her oral fixation

This isn’t porn-style licking. This is tongue mastery.
 Let’s talk sex. Let’s talk oral. Let’s get you upgraded.

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 What if I told you virginity is a scam—and you’ve been sold a lie that’s screwing with your pleasure, your confidence, and maybe even your relationships? In this no-BS conversation with certified sexologist Dr. Susan Milstein, we unpack the toxic history of virginity, the science that debunks it, and the shame it’s still spreading in bedrooms everywhere. From the myth of the hymen to the double standards that teach women to expect pain instead of pleasure—we're ripping the covers off the kind of sex ed you should have gotten. Whether you're rethinking your own sexual story, parenting a teen, or just want to stop playing by patriarchal rules, this episode is your permission slip to rewrite the script—and claim your sexual debut on your own damn terms. 

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 Most people think "slow sex" means sweet, romantic, or boring. Wrong. When you master slow sex the right way — the savage, dominant, craving-inducing way — you don't just turn someone on, you burn yourself into their memory. In this episode, I’m breaking down the science behind why fast sex short-circuits orgasmic satisfaction, and how slowing your movements, stacking sensations, and taking full control can leave your partner begging, shaking, and obsessed. Plus, I’ll teach you 5 real-world, research-backed techniques you can use tonight to make someone crave you for days. If you’re ready to turn slow into savage, let’s go. 

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