In the second episode of the #teakink Power Miniseries, Eva Oh examines the existence of the Dominatrix—not just as a profession, but as a cultural phenomenon. Why is female power so rare that it becomes fetishized? What does the Dominatrix reveal about society’s relationship with female agency? And how can one navigate this space without reinforcing the very dynamics it critiques? Eva dissects the contradictions, the intrigue, and the deeper implications of wielding power in a world that still struggles to accept it.

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More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com

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(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink

(00:21) - Power Miniseries II: Why Does the Dominatrix Exist?

(05:10) - The Fetishisation of the Rare Concept of Female Agency

(07:55) - How Do I Not be a Part of the ‘Problem’

In the first episode of the #teakink Power Miniseries, Eva Oh unpacks the nature of power through the lens of domination and submission. What is power, really? How does context shape who holds it, and what happens when those dynamics shift? She reflects on how her time as a Dominatrix reshaped her own sense of power—both in and out of the dungeon—and how others reacted to that transformation. With power being both intoxicating and treacherous, Eva explores the risks, the artistry, and why true power demands self-investigation.

Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh

More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com

HIGHLIGHTS:

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(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink

(00:21) - Power Miniseries I: Lessons from a Dominatrix

(02:05) - What is Power?

(03:30) - Context and Power in Domination and Submission

(07:25) - How Being a Dominatrix Changed My Power

(11:15) - How Others React to the Changes

(16:20) - The Art and Danger of Playing with Power Dynamics

(22:54) - Power: Delicious, Dangerous, Needs Self-Investigation

What is a Dominatrix, as told by a Dominatrix. Eva Oh meets some newbies to the scene who inspire her to explain the basics of the role of a Dominatrix, what happens in session, how clients make requests and where it all happens. With some additional important notes, on power.

Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh

More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com

HIGHLIGHTS:

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(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink

(00:21) - Why Answer an ‘Obvious’ Question?

(01:44) - What is a Dominatrix and What Do They Do?

(03:35) - What Happens in a Dominatrix Session?

(04:20) - How Do Clients Know What They Want?

(05:50) - More About a Dominatrix Session

(06:40) - Where Do Dominatrix Work?

(08:50) - Power, A Miniseries?

(10:00) - Lessons on Women, Myself, Money and Power

Ever wondered about breaking free from those conforming roles we play? I'm Eva Oh, and I'll take you on my unconventional journey into the world of the Dominatrix. It started with a joke from my ex about my assertiveness. Little did I know this would lead me to becoming one. Brace yourself as I guide you through uncharted territory, on how I quit the corporate world, to sharing my first day on the job as a Dominatrix, and recounting my exhilarating first session.

Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh

More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com

HIGHLIGHTS:

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(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink

(00:15) - Becoming a Dominatrix

(01:39) - Women's Assertiveness and Societal Perceptions

(04:51) - From Strategic Consultant to Dominatrix

(08:51) - First Day as Mistress, New Experiences

(15:06) - A Special First Shadowing Experience

(21:10) - Exploring BDSM and Personal Enjoyment

(27:56) - Work Dungeon to Personal Business Transition

(33:40) - The Power of Non-Judgmental Intimacy

(35:35) - Sex Work and Society's Perception

Meet Jane Grey, Dominatrix and Co-Founder of the Scene and Unscene events. Listen in as Jane opens up about how validation, agency and recognition, drivers behind her acting career, influence her approach to domination; about her plans for the Edinburgh Fringe Festival; and how acting school shunned female sexuality. Eva Oh and Jane discuss the place of acting in a session, if they might be able to submit and how they've tried to escape the ego through the names that they've chosen. We hear about cultural theatrics and how they could shape a Dominatrix's ability and the different ways these two Dominatrices structure their businesses. A very thorough episode of the #teakink Podcast.

Biomedical engineer and sex tech entrepreneur Isabella Sandak-Lewin joins Eva Oh on the #teakink Podcast to break down the gaps in medicine’s understanding of female sexuality. From the forgotten science of the female orgasm to the struggles of innovating in sex tech, Isabella shares her journey of developing a wearable sex toy and a diagnostic tool for BV. They explore the orgasm gap, cross-dressing, pole dancing at Cambridge, and the link between sexuality and personal freedom.

Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh

More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com

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(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink

(00:23) - Isabella Sandak-Lewin - Biomedical Engineer and Sex Tech Entrepreneur

(01:53) - The Forgotten Interaction of Body, Medicine and Sexuality

(05:40) - Medicine Forgot the Female Orgasm

(10:15) - The Orgasm Gap

(12:40) - Isabella's Wearable Sex Toy

(18:13) - Isabella's BV and More Diagnosis Tool

(24:40) - Adolescence, Ballet and Eating Disorders

(29:30) - Cross-Dressing and How Women and Men are Perceived

(34:00) - How Isabella Claimed Her Sexuality

(38:35) - Fem Tech and Sex Tech Struggles

(40:00) - 'Coming Out' About Sex Tech

(45:00) - The Link Between Sexuality and Personal Freedom

(50:00) - Pole Dance, Cambridge University and Castration

(58:35) - COVID and Saying Yes

MJ has been on a deep and fast ride into sexuality since an accident catalysed a self-investigation in 2019. She has since brought forth the Joyride Sex Parties and Socials, studied with the Institute for Sexuality, and has plans for expanding the world of sex tech. Join MJ and Eva Oh for a #teakink episode through MJ's discoveries, sex doll brothels, Irish sexuality, the sexual concerns of cis-het men, boundaries and pleasure.
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(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:23) - Meet MJ of Joyride Sex Parties and Socials
(02:00) - Taking it to Ireland
(03:50) - Queerness at Joyride's Centre
(08:10) - An Accident as a Sexuality Catalyst
(12:55) - Sex Tech and Sex Doll Brothels
(14:40) - The Future of Joyride
(16:30) - Irish Storytelling
(17:10) - Irish Sexuality
(18:35) - Merging Sex Tech and the Physical
(23:00) - Cis-het Men Healthy Porn Habits, Erectile Dysfunction and Loneliness
(28:05) - The Viscerality of the Sex Party Dancefloor
(29:00) - Safeguarding and Freedom in Clubs in Berlin vs London
(32:50) - The Laboratory Berlin and the State of Queer Cruising
(34:00) - The People Behind Joyride
(35:30) - The Kink Coalitipn
(37:00) - What Actually is a Sex Party?
(42:00) - Why MJ Stays Out of the Playspace
(49:00) - Berlin Porn Film Festival and the Venus Convention
(51:00) - Sexual Education?
(53:10) - Pleasure

This week on the #teakink Podcast, Eva Oh sits down with Mathilde Friis, curator and PhD researcher of art, sexuality, and sex work. We follow Mathilde into her early days, researching in a sex shop, and delve into the creative process behind sex work. We discover the contradictions in how society commodifies creativity while stigmatizing sex, and explore topics like slut-shaming on social media and the range of artistic interpretations of sex work. Mathilde also reflects on purity, danger, cultural etiquette, and why sexuality continues to spark controversy, challenging societal notions of monstrosity and taboo along the way.

Eva Oh visits Dubai and is reminded of her first trip there in a previous life before her career as a Dominatrix. A life that included research work in Afghanistan, time at the United Nations and perhaps a thread that is still very consistent. A thread of curiosity, naivety, fearlessness and navigating the edge of life to feel out what could be. Watch this #teakink episode for an insight into Eva’s life before becoming a Professional Mistress.

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More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com

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(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:23) - I’m In Dubai, Reflecting on a Previous Life
(01:20) - My Hunger for Information, RSS Feeds and Innovation Journals
(03:25) - Questioning and Fearlessness
(04:35) - Dubai, A Digital Come Alive
(05:50) - Working in Afghanistan
(08:40) - My Life in My Own Hands
(12:20) - Feeling the Foreign
(15:20) - Navigating the Edge
(19:30) - The Intrigue and Dangers of Professional Domination
(21:30) - Dangers and Opportunities
(22:20) - A Food Fetish
(24:50) - Have I Changed?

Ali Bushell, therapist and Internal Family Systems (IFS) practitioner, joins us on the #teakink Podcast for a deep dive intotherapy, kink, and self-discovery. From his work with sex workers to exploring fetish in therapy, Ali shares insights on topics like power, violence, and the parts of ourselves we exile. We unpack shadow archetypes of therapists, the brain as a sexual organ, and the complexity of integrating the self through practices like Vipassana and IFS.

Ali's book, 'The Sex Party Handbook': https://shorturl.at/dZeF6