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  • Miss North Dakota

    In 2012, Rosie became the first Black woman to win the Miss North Dakota pageant. She got to do what she loves most — play music and perform! — and she won scholarship money to pay down her student loab debt. It was thrilling. It was exciting!

    But winning Miss North Dakota means more than just wearing a gorgeous gown on a stage in front of a bunch of people. For the next year, Rosie represents the state like a sort of ambassador, touring the region and sharing her diversity platform with folks … in North Dakota, a state that’s 90% white.

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    • Brooklinen: brooklinen.com with code TERRIBLE

    • Yarlap: yarlap.com promo code TTFA

    • Theragun: theragun.com/thanks

    • 52 min
    • What About Your Friends?
      We know that romantic and familial relationships are work, and we respect the time it takes to maintain healthy relationships with our partners and families. But in a culture that prizes romantic love above all else, how do we make sure to maintain and protect our friendships?
      Aminatou Sow and Ann Friedman *literally* wrote the book about friendship and give us an assist with this episode. (Thanks, pals.)
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      Nora also writes sad & funny books! You can buy them here.
      Did you know we’re on TikTok? Yep, it’s true. Follow Nora. You can catch up with TTFA on Instagram, Twitter and Facebook using @ttfapodcast. Nora's Instagram is @noraborealis.
      47 min
    • Addiction, Language and Education
      How do we talk about addiction in more productive ways? How do we hold empathy and boundaries together? What does it mean to "recover"?
      Nora has no idea, so Dr. Nzinga Harrison is here to educate, comfort and reassure all of us.
      Support our independent production (and get bonus content galore!) by joining TTFA Premium. We now offer tiers as low as $4.99 / month. Sign up.
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      Nora also writes sad & funny books! You can buy them here.
      Did you know we’re on TikTok? Yep, it’s true. Follow Nora. You can catch up with TTFA on Instagram, Twitter and Facebook using @ttfapodcast. Nora's Instagram is @noraborealis.
      52 min
    • Fine, I Guess?
      A typical arc for stories on this podcast is that things are bad, very bad. And then, they’re ... not great, but are at least a little better. For author and comedian Samantha Irby, life is all good and all bad all at the same time. Because there are SO MANY things to laugh about when life is awful and your body is turning on you. There are also things to complain about when you’re deeply in love with a person who treats you like an angel.
      Support our independent production (and get bonus content galore!) by joining TTFA Premium. We now offer tiers as low as $4.99 / month. Sign up.
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      Nora also writes sad & funny books! You can buy them here.
      Did you know we’re on TikTok? Yep, it’s true. Follow Nora. You can catch up with TTFA on Instagram, Twitter and Facebook using @ttfapodcast. Nora's Instagram is @noraborealis.
      50 min
    • Fine, I Guess?

      A typical arc for stories on this podcast is that things are bad, very bad. And then, they’re ... not great, but are at least a little better. For author and comedian Samantha Irby, life is all good and all bad all at the same time. Because there are SO MANY things to laugh about when life is awful and your body is turning on you. There are also things to complain about when you’re deeply in love with a person who treats you like an angel.


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      When you shop our Bookshop.org store, you support the author, independent bookstores AND our show! Shop here.

      Read the transcript for this episode here.

      You can catch up with TTFA on Instagram, Twitter and Facebook using @ttfapodcast. Nora's Instagram is @noraborealis.

      TTFA is public media. Which means we are supported by you. You can join us with a contribution at ttfa.org/donate

      And check out our sponsors this week:

      Ritual: ritual.com/thanks

      Brooklinen: brooklinen.com with code TERRIBLE

      Talkspace: talkspace.com with code TTFA

      Bombas: bombas.com/thanks

      46 min
    • Are You Tenants of This Building?
      In May 2020, a viral video filmed by two young men pushed them to the top of everyone’s news feed. Suddenly, it seemed the whole world knew what had happened to Abdi and Salman while they were working out in the gym of the Minneapolis office building they leased for their growing business.
      In this episode, we get past the story of what happened to Abdi and Salman and dive into the bigger story: who they are.
      Support our independent production (and get bonus content galore!) by joining TTFA Premium. We now offer tiers as low as $4.99 / month. Sign up.
      Our email subscribers get first dibs on ticket sales, new merch, show announcements and more. Join our mailing list here.
      Nora also writes sad & funny books! You can buy them here.
      Did you know we’re on TikTok? Yep, it’s true. Follow Nora. You can catch up with TTFA on Instagram, Twitter and Facebook using @ttfapodcast. Nora's Instagram is @noraborealis.
      45 min
    • Are You Tenants Of This Building?

      In May 2020, a viral video filmed by two young men pushed them to the top of everyone’s news feed. Suddenly, it seemed the whole world knew what had happened to Abdi and Salman while they were working out in the gym of the Minneapolis office building they leased for their growing business. In this episode, we get past the story of what happened to Abdi and Salman and dive into the bigger story: who they are.

      Correction: In the episode, we refer to Firefox as being made by Microsoft. Firefox is a product of Mozilla, not Microsoft.

      Can’t get enough TTFA? Sign up for TTFA Premium for $7.99 a month. You’ll get access to exclusive bonus content, ad-free episodes, extended guest interviews and more! Visit TTFA.org/Premium to get started.

      Shop for your favorite TTFA gear at TTFAmerch.com.

      When you shop our Bookshop.org store, you support the author, independent bookstores AND our show! Shop here.

      Read the transcript for this episode here.

      You can catch up with TTFA on Instagram, Twitter and Facebook using @ttfapodcast. Nora's Instagram is @noraborealis.

      TTFA is public media. Which means we are supported by you. You can join us with a contribution at ttfa.org/donate

      And check out our sponsors this week:

      Rothy's: rothys.com/terrible

      Calm: calm.com/thanks

      StoryWorth: storyworth.com/ttfa

      ThirdLove: thirdlove.com/terrible

      40 min
    • Are You Tenants Of This Building?

      In May 2020, a viral video filmed by two young men pushed them to the top of everyone’s news feed. Suddenly, it seemed the whole world knew what had happened to Abdi and Salman while they were working out in the gym of the Minneapolis office building they leased for their growing business. In this episode, we get past the story of what happened to Abdi and Salman and dive into the bigger story: who they are.

      Correction: In the episode, we refer to Firefox as being made by Microsoft. Firefox is a product of Mozilla, not Microsoft.

      —

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      When you shop our Bookshop.org store, you support the author, independent bookstores AND our show! Shop here. You can purchase Nora’s books here.

      Shop for your favorite TTFA gear at TTFAmerch.com.

      Read the transcript for this episode here.

      You can catch up with TTFA on Instagram, Twitter and Facebook using @ttfapodcast. Nora's Instagram is @noraborealis.

      —

      And check out our sponsors this week:

      Rothy's: rothys.com/terrible

      Calm: calm.com/thanks

      StoryWorth: storyworth.com/ttfa

      ThirdLove: thirdlove.com/terrible

      40 min
    • Jenell
      Jennell's home life was difficult growing up, and the Pentecostal church she attended was the only place she truly felt safe. A talented vocalist, Jennell quickly became the church's rising star.
      When a church leader 15 years her senior takes advantage of teenage Jennell's mental health issues and begins a sexual relationship with her, she initially feels loved and cared for. Eventually, the relationship is revealed to the rest of the church. And when Jennell is cast as the villain in the story, she faces losing her faith for good.
      Heads up: suicide, sexual trauma and eating disorders are a part of this episode.
      Support our independent production (and get bonus content galore!) by joining TTFA Premium. We now offer tiers as low as $4.99 / month. Sign up.
      Our email subscribers get first dibs on ticket sales, new merch, show announcements and more. Join our mailing list here.
      Nora also writes sad & funny books! You can buy them here.
      Did you know we’re on TikTok? Yep, it’s true. Follow Nora. You can catch up with TTFA on Instagram, Twitter and Facebook using @ttfapodcast. Nora's Instagram is @noraborealis.
      1 hr 5 min
    • Black Widow
      Leslie is a Black widow. No, not the spider — a Black human woman whose husband died. Because eventually, when she least expected it, she DID finally find a guy (whom she had already found once before).
      This episode is about that guy. His name is Scott. But it’s also about another guy: a baby boy named Brooks.
      Support our independent production (and get bonus content galore!) by joining TTFA Premium. We now offer tiers as low as $4.99 / month. Sign up.
      Our email subscribers get first dibs on ticket sales, new merch, show announcements and more. Join our mailing list here.
      Nora also writes sad & funny books! You can buy them here.
      Did you know we’re on TikTok? Yep, it’s true. Follow Nora. You can catch up with TTFA on Instagram, Twitter and Facebook using @ttfapodcast. Nora's Instagram is @noraborealis.
      46 min

    About Thanks For Asking

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    A call-in show from author Nora McInerny that lets real people get real honest about how they're really doing. Operators(me) are standing by to take your calls.

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