This episode features Marisa Jayne the host of the podcast Selfish Sesh. Emily and Marisa talk all about self-love in this episode.

Emily and Marisa discuss:

• What is self-love?
• What has Marisa’s journey with self-love been like?
• Maintaining self-love while dating
• Marisa’s experience stopping the use of dating apps
• How to begin your self-love journey
• Toxic positivity
• Building confidence

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Marisa’s website: https://www.selfishsesh.com/

Selfish Sesh Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/selfishsesh/

Selfish Sesh Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7kikdRI9g4zYkGPVjU6KpN?si=Drd2pg9wTyiS57p7lVIB1g&nd=1

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This episode features Jess Matthews from The Boy Detox. Jess is a writer and dating & relationship expert. Jess has over 8 years of experience as a writer focusing on love, dating, sex and relationships. Over the years Jess has used her insights and observations to help educate men and women about how to navigate the ups and downs of dating. Jess coaches clients in a 1:1 capacity, regularly features on podcasts and contributes to various media pieces about the complexities of the modern dating world.

Emily and Jess discuss:

• How to date in your 20's
• What questions to ask somebody to determine their values
• Is chemistry something we can grow?
• What are the benefits of modern-day dating in Western culture
• How to date organically without dating apps
• Partner privileges 
• How to navigate fuck boys

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The Boy Detox website: https://www.theboydetox.com/

The Boy Detox Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theboydetox/

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In this episode Emily discusses squirting and how to do it. Emily also discusses how to try and avoid squirting if you don’t want to.

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In this episode, Emily celebrates her 23rd birthday by sharing 23 things she has learned in her 23 years of life. 

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This episode features Chloe burger a Pelvic Floor Physiotherapist. Emily and Chloe discuss penis owners’ pelvic health

Emily and Chloe discuss:

• What is a pelvic floor?
• Pelvic floor conditions penis owners experience 
• Incontinence and how to treat it
• Prostate cancer surgery and incontinence 
• Dyssynergic defecation
• Stress and your pelvic floor
• Pelvic pain
• Erectile difficulties
• When should you see a pelvic floor physio
• What to expect when seeing a pelvic floor physiotherapist 

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Chloe’s Website: https://www.theladyphysioandpilates.com/

Chloe’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.lady.physio/

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Trigger Warning this episode discusses strangulation and choking. This episode features Talisin Switch. 

Emily and Talisin discuss:

• What is the difference between a kink and a fetish
• The most common fetishes Talisin sees as a sex worker
• How do feet fetishes form?
• What is choking/strangulation?
• How to practice choking more safely (there’s no safe way)
• The issues with choking during sex
• How to protect yourself if you are being choked when you don’t want to be
• Why you may experience chest pain after choking during sex

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Talisin’s Website: https://talisinswitch.com/

Queering sex workshop Melbourne: https://events.humanitix.com/queering-sex-and-how-we-think-about-it?_ga=2.16114230.1006150461.1670455159-1710799895.1670222071

Talisin’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/talisinswitch/

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This episode features Talisin Switch a BDSM facilitator, kink and sexuality educator, and sex worker who specialises in queer exploration. Talisin considers themselves an academic practitioner and informs their work and teaching in both evidence-based practice and lived experience.

Emily and Talisin discuss:

• How did Talisin get into sex work
• How people can explore their queer identity with sex workers
• Benefits of seeing a sex worker for exploring your sexuality
• Exploring sex with gender dysphoria to affirm gender
• What to expect in your first session with a sex worker
• Tips for people searching for a queer sex worker

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Talisin’s Website: https://talisinswitch.com/

Queering sex workshop Melbourne: https://events.humanitix.com/queering-sex-and-how-we-think-about-it?_ga=2.16114230.1006150461.1670455159-1710799895.1670222071

Talisin’s Instagram and Twitter: @talisinswitch

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The final episode of season 3.

Emily discusses a personal story of her worst first date...ever.

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This episode features Natasha AKA Lama who is a Malaysian-Indian sex-positive content creator. 

Emily and Lama discuss:

• What the sexual culture is like in Malaysia 
• Lama’s experience as a Malaysian Indian woman in Australia navigating sex and sexuality
• Encouraging penis owners to use sex toys for their own pleasure
• Exploring pleasure with sex toys 
• Internalised shame and colourism
• Advice for those with a similar cultural background who want to further step into their sexuality
• How Lama got into creating sex-positive content 
• Assumptions of Lama as a sex-positive creator

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In this episode, Emily discusses the signs to know if you have orgasmed. This episode does have a focus on vulva owner orgasms. 

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