This episode features Victoria Redbard the founder of The Institute of New Paradigm Intimacy.

Emily and Victoria discuss:

• How the sexuality industry is developing
• When trauma-informed practice meets the cutting edge
• Letting go of your ego
• Clinical Sexology compared to the Self-Pleasure Certification

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The Institute of New Paradigm Intimacy website: https://newparadigmintimacy.com/

Victoria’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/victoriaredbard/

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This episode features Lanchi the founder of Buzz.selflove, discussing starting her own sex toy company.

Emily and Lanchi discuss:

• Why Lanchi decided to create her own sex toys
• The process of designing sex toys
• How the people around Lanchi responded to creating her company
• What is something that is Orgasmic to Lanchi?

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Lanchi's Website: https://buzzselflove.com/

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This episode features Lanchi the founder of Buzz.selflove, discussing how to choose your first sex toy.

Emily and Lanchi discuss:

• What makes a good sex toy?
• Looking at how you use your hand to masturbate to choose a sex toy 
• Popular first-time sex toys
• How to clean your sex toy
• How to store your sex toy

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Lanchi's website: https://buzzselflove.com/

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This episode is masturbating tips and tricks for those with a Penis.

Emily discusses:

• Reflecting on how you masturbate
• How you can change your masturbation practice
• Different techniques
• Lube
• Sex toys
• Don’t focus on an erection
• Continuing to pleasure yourself after ejaculation

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This episode is masturbating tips and tricks for those with vulvas. 

Emily discusses:

• Breathing
• Pleasure mapping
• Tips if you like the highest setting on your vibrator
• How to use masturbation if you struggle to orgasm with a partner

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This episode is a beginner’s guide to Masturbation for vulva owners. 

Emily discusses:

• Benefits of masturbation
• Unpacking the shame attached to masturbation
• How to get horny
• Techniques to touch your vulva
• What sex toy to first use

Resources discussed:

Dipsea (audio porn): https://www.dipseastories.com/

Bellesa (visual porn): https://www.bellesa.co/ 

OMG Yes! (Masturbation techniques for vulvas) : https://www.omgyes.com/

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This episode is all about orgasms.

Emily discusses:

• What orgasms are
• How orgasms affect the brain and neurotransmitters
• Post-nut clarity 
• Are there different types of orgasms?
• Crying after orgasm
• Orgasm facts

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This episode discusses the libido gap and what to do if your sex drive doesn't match your partner's. 

Emily discusses: 

• What is your libido
• Questions to ask yourself if your libido is different to your partners
• Spontaneous and responsive desire
• How to try and match your libidos

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This episode is on situationships.

Emily and Lily discuss their experiences in situationships:

• The pros and cons of a situationship
• Tips and tricks for navigating a situationship

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Trigger warning: This episode discusses sexual assault

This is part 2 of a 2 part episode featuring Vanessa Hook

Emily and Vanessa discuss:

• How to feel safe in your body again after sexual assault
• Vanessa's experience with sex after sexual assault
• Dissociating during sex
• Tips for grounding yourself
• Holding shame in your body
• What needs to change in society 

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Vanessa's Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/56nccHdAPxLam4AsA0KHEt?si=aCl2JsZnRLuPz0IA0tHr2w 

If you need support 1800RESPECT is the national domestic, family and sexual violence counselling, information and support service. 

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