Heal Yourself with the Law of Attraction

The 80/20 Rule: Your roadmap to living an imperfect (and joyful) life


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In Season 2, Episode 19, of Heal Yourself with the Law of Attraction, we're going to explore perfectionism.

Show Highlights:

  • Examine societal pressures that contribute to our obsession with perfection. From glossy magazine covers to those carefully curated social media feeds, we're constantly bombarded with images of seemingly perfect lives, leaving us feeling inadequate if we don't measure up.
  • Discuss the impact of family values and upbringing on our perfectionist tendencies.
  • Explore the generational component of perfectionism. It's fascinating how the pursuit of excellence becomes a family tradition, but it can lead to a lot of stress and anxiety.
  • Shift gears to the cultural influences, especially in Asian cultures and immigrant families. There's a strong emphasis on diligence, discipline, and the pursuit of excellence. It often results in heightened expectations when it comes to academic and career success.
  • Understand how perfectionism takes a toll on our mental and emotional well-being. We'll dive into specific behaviors, like that "black and white" thinking and the all-or-nothing mentality.
  • Delve into another aspect: procrastination. For many perfectionists, it's like a coping mechanism driven by an underlying fear of failure. I'll share some personal experiences with procrastination and how it affected my work and well-being.
  • Discuss the social anxiety that often comes hand in hand with perfectionism. It leads to constant self-doubt after social interactions and how we tend to seek validation from others.
  • Discover the intense self-doubt that perfectionism fosters. It's this never-ending quest to find evidence of our own mistakes and flaws, even after making decisions.
  • I'll share my own turning point and how I learned to let go of the need for perfection, embracing life's unpredictability.
  • We'll also explore the 80/20 rule, a balanced approach to living, where 80% of the time is dedicated to mindful habits and behaviors, and 20% is reserved for spontaneity and joy.


Join me in this episode as we navigate the complex world of perfectionism, understand its roots, and discover the path to embracing imperfection and living life to the fullest. 

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