The A to Z of Sex

This week we will be talking about NRE (new relationship energy) and the impact that it makes in our lives. We will compare this to ERE (Existing Relationship Energy) and also talk about the conflicts that can arise and how we can resolve them.

This week I am talking all about self-pleasure. There are so many myths associated with masturbation. We are busting them all. I'm joined by the fabulous Sherryl Blu to talk through this often taboo subject.

This out of order week (sorry folks!) I will be talking all about kink - exploring, discussing, introducing partners - the joys and the pitfalls. My guest is Lady Amaterasu Okami, a leather woman from Georgia. Some people have already written in questions that we will answer on the show.

This week, I am talking about getting back to a sexual life after loss. The loss of a partner through breakup or through death can make the idea of having a sexual life again seem distant or even impossible. Few people even want to discuss this subject as it can bring up so many emotions. I will be talking about sex after 70 as well in this episode and breaking the silence around sex in our later years.

If you have ever wondered what jilling off was, this episode is for you,. Jacking off and Jilling off are slang terms for masturbation and this episode is all about masturbation. We will talk about the myths relating to masturbation, health benefits, if there are any risks, technique, mutual masturbation and masturbation control.

Does size matter? Today we are talking about size in all its forms... penis size, vagina size, body size... what is it about size that is such an issue when it comes to sexual intimacy.

This week we will talk about hunger in all its forms - from hunger for deep feelings, intense experiences and connected relationships to intense hunger for sexual satisfaction and connection. What kind of hungers do you experience and how do you sate your hungers?

B is for BDSM

Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, SadoMasochism

Joining me to discuss this topic are some of the cast and crew of Divine Deviance (https://divinedeviance.com). This is a multipart documentary on BDSM and Kink worldwide. Race Bannon has been an organizer, writer, educator, speaker and activist in the LGBT, leather/kink, polyamory and HIV/STI prevention realms since 1973. Jörg Fockele is a critically acclaimed filmmaker, executive producer and TV director/producer of shows such as Bravo’s “Queer Eye,” ABC ’s “Wife Swap,” MTV’s “Savage U” and AMC’s “Small Town Security.” Lola De Milo, is a German systemic sexual therapist and relationship coach with 20+ years of kink and BDSM activities. .Adam Ouderkirk has been organizer and activist in the LGBTQ, HIV/STI service communities since 1981, working to expand freedom, sexual expression for all. Beatrice Stonebanks has been in the San Francisco BDSM scene for 20 years and lives in a 24/7 Master/slave relationship.

This week I will delve into the relationships styles that gay men enjoy from a sex positive perspective. We will talk cultural differences and talk about risk taking and harm reduction in the queer community as well.

In this episode we are talking all about penetrative sex. Fucking is still the favoured sexual activity for all sexualities. This might seem strange as most women do not reach orgasm during penetrative sex. Even so, being unable to engage in fucking is often very upsetting. We will talk about the barriers to penetrative sex and the joys.