The A to Z of Sex

Today we talk about boobs, booties and balls. This talk about our bodies and the impact of how we see ourselves, societal expectations, ageing and other concerns on our sexual lives is irreverant and hopefully will move you to think.

A is for All the Feels. We talk about feelings and sex and the impact of various types of sex on feelings.

In this episode we will be looking at yearning- for dates, for love, for sex, for connection, for intimacy and discuss ways that people can really highlight what they yearn for and then how they can get it.

Xaern is described as when you like something so much that you start to hate it. We are talking about what happens when you hate that you love someone and also about what happens when a behaviour becomes compulsive.

Sometimes, we find ourselves in a rut as a result of this phenomena. When it is an obsession with person, we can feel insecure and dependent and thus hate the feelings of love that we have developed.

Getting out of a compulsive loop can be complex. Increasing one's self-confidence and lowering dependence in a relationship can be difficult if there are long standing patterns in place. We will give some tips to start untangling these patterns so that xaern decreases and genuine enjoyment returns.

We hate receiving unsolicited pictures of genitals and inappropriate propositions on social media. Some f the approaches are so sad they are funny so I decided to have a show to talk all about what not to do when you are on a dating app, social media or any other time you are meeting someone and trying to interest them in a relationship with you. We cover pictures, messages and talk about the impact on people who have been previously traumatised or who have significant anxiety. We highlight what makes someone a wanker and encourage people to change their behaviour. Zayna Ratty joins me for this episode.

This week we will be talking all about the joys of tantra to improve your sexual life and overall pleasure. Tantra originates in India and begins with learning to focus. For many people, tantra helps increase connection, increase sexual satisfaction and produces some of the most intense sexual experiences of their lives.

This week I will be talking with the incredible Midori about rope play, rope bondage, all things rope and more. We will cover female dominance as well, talking about her incredible Forte Femme training programme.