The A to Z of Sex

This week I am talking to people about the wide range of kinks that are out there and how important tolerance and a non-judgemental attitude is to taking part in a community that serves so many different people. We will talk about toxic shame and how that can be redressed.

This week we will talk about pornography, erotica and all things designated x rated. We will talk obsessions, habits and healthy use of x rated material. We will cover sex education and what we believe needs to be included in a healthy comprehensive sex education programme.

In this episode we will discuss watersports and other fetishes. Fetishes are when a person requires a particular object or activity in order to achieve orgasm and cannot achieve orgasm without it. Watersports is a fetish involving urine. People enjoy being peed on or peeing on others. This is common in about 26% of the population and is often part of a power exchange dynamic though there are people who have the fetish on its own. Some people enjoy simply watching other pee rather than interacting with the urine. Other people enjoy watching people have 'accidents' - so peeing through their clothes and in Japan there is an entire specific fan group around this type of fetish.

This week we are talking about vibrators! With a special emphasis on ones that can be controlled by apps or remote or have bluetooth settings. I will be reviewing some of my favourites with the hysterically funny Raylene Taskoski. These sex toys can be relationship savers during lockdown and for long distance relationships in general. We will be talking about the vibe around vibrators. Join us for tips on the best ones to buy and the tips and tricks to get the best out of your new toys as these are definitely an investment. We will also talking about vibrators that don't have an app, talk about privacy and any concerns people might have about app controlled toys.

This week we will explore how we achieve understanding around our bodies, desire, our boundaries, strengths, weaknesses. We will spend time looking at all these areas

In this episode, we will talk all about trans sex. We will cover differing identities, bodies versus identities, attractions, desire, intersectionality.

This episode we will discuss the relationship skills that are needed to maintain meaningful relationships that contain great sex.

In this episode, we will talk about sex during quarantine/lockdown/sheltering in place/shielding at home. We will talk about the new and old ways to connect, skin hunger that people are feeling, finding privacy when children are home all the time, dealing with relationships that have suddenly become long distance.

On this episode I will discuss painful sex in women and men, causes and possible remedies. I will respond to questions that I have been asked the past few weeks that there hasn't been time to answer. Finally, I will talk a bit about my new book, published 20 April and now available via kindle and in paper and hardback.