“Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves;

Ensure justice for those being crushed.

Yes, speak up of the poor and helpless, 

And see that they get justice.”

-Proverbs 31:8-9

This episode kicks off FASD Awareness Month with our special guest, Emma Baldwin.  Emma is a sibling of a person with FASD and an autistic self-advocate. Emma’s work in the FASD field began with the FASD Network of Southern California and training initiatives at Proof Alliance in Minnesota. While living in Minnesota, Emma served on the advisory council of the Univ. of Minnesota’s Institute on Community Integration and chaired St. Paul Mayor’s Advisory Committee for People with Disabilities. Today, Emma is the Director of Partnerships at FASD United—leading the FASD United Affiliate Network (which JFO is a member of), supporting the Living Experience track of the International FASD Research Conference, and overseeing the development of the FASD Symposium and White Papers.

Listen in as Emma shares how FASD United, the national organization in the U.S., is empowering people living with FASD, educating systems of care and the public, enacting policy and uniting communities everywhere so that those living with Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder and Prenatal Alcohol Exposure are recognized and supported.

Links mentioned in this episode:

FASDUnited.org

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Soul Care Saturday—52 Devotions for Foster and Adoptive Moms

Orphans No More—A Journey Back to the Father book on Amazon

“Be Still and know that I am God.” -Psalm 46:10

What happens when the traditional school system simply isn’t working for your child? For families raising children impacted by Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder (FASD), finding the right educational environment can require flexibility, creativity, and a willingness to let go of what we thought education was supposed to look like.

In this episode of The Adoption & Foster Care Journey, Sandra reconnects with Melissa Dunn Corkum for an honest, informal conversation about their experiences homeschooling children with FASD. Neither approaches the conversation as an educational expert—they're sharing from the perspective of moms who have lived it.

Melissa and Sandra talk about the freedom homeschooling can provide to slow down, follow a child's strengths and interests, reduce unnecessary pressure, and create an educational experience around the child's actual needs rather than forcing the child to fit a predetermined curriculum.

They also explore the importance of structure, repetition, experiential learning, individualized accommodations, and recognizing that what works for one child may not work for another. From Ninja Warrior and bouldering to learning through everyday routines, their stories demonstrate how strengths-based education can open doors that traditional approaches sometimes miss.

But this conversation isn't just about educating our children. Melissa introduces the concept of blocked care and explains why caring for the caregiver's nervous system is essential for long-term parenting. Together, they discuss practical ways parents can recognize stress, reconnect with supportive people, regulate their nervous systems, and give themselves permission to make changes when something isn't working.

Whether you're currently homeschooling, considering a change in educational placement, or simply trying to figure out how to help your child learn and thrive, this conversation offers encouragement that there isn't one right way to educate a child—and it's okay to find the way that works for your family.

Links mentioned in this episode:

Melissa is also offering a free 10-question Blocked Care Assessment specifically for Justice for Orphans listeners:  risetoregulation.com/jfo

Facebook Group: Homeschool the FASD way-a global community

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Soul Care Saturday—52 Devotions for Foster and Adoptive Moms

Orphans No More—A Journey Back to the Father book on Amazon

“And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to His purpose.” -Romans 8:28

What happens when a child is taken from everything he knows and placed in a completely different culture, language, and family? For Isaac Melber, adoption was the beginning of a journey that would lead him through grief, questions of identity, healing, faith, and ultimately a calling to ministry.

In this episode of The Adoption & Foster Care Journey, Isaac shares his powerful story of growing up in Ethiopia, losing his parents, spending time in a Christian orphanage, and eventually being adopted by an American family. He opens up about the challenges of cultural transition and the questions he wrestled with as an adoptee—and how Scripture became an anchor for his identity and healing.

Isaac also shares about returning to Ethiopia as a teenager to meet members of his birth family and the unexpected opportunity God gave him to share the gospel with them. His story is a beautiful reminder that God can redeem even the hardest parts of our stories and use them for His purposes.

In This Episode, We Talk About:

A Word of Encouragement for Foster & Adoptive Parents

One of Isaac’s most important messages for parents is simple: keep loving your child, even when they reject that love.

There may not be a formula for parenting a child from a hard place, but faithful, consistent love matters. Isaac encourages parents to look for everyday opportunities to talk about adoption, identity, grief, and trauma. A movie, a holiday, a family gathering, or an ordinary conversation can open the door to questions a child may already be carrying inside.

His story also reminds us that our children’s stories don't end with their trauma, loss, or adoption. God is still writing their stories—and sometimes we have the privilege of walking beside them as they discover who they are in Christ.

Scripture Mentioned

Isaac reflects on the importance of immersing children in God's Word from an early age, drawing from passages including Deuteronomy 6, James 1, and John 3.

“Our identity isn't found in what we accomplish. Our identity is found in Christ.”

About Isaac Melber

Isaac Melber is an adoptee from Ethiopia, pastor, speaker, and author of Twice Delivered. His personal experience of adoption, cultural transition, faith, and reunion with his birth family has shaped his passion for encouraging adoptees, adoptive families, and the church to see adoption through a biblical and hope-filled perspective.

Resources

Twice Delivered — Isaac Melber’s book explores the beauty and complexity of adoption through the perspectives of adoptees, adoptive families, and the church. It combines personal stories, Scripture, discussion questions, and prayers to encourage families and communities.

Connect & Listen

If this episode encouraged you, share it with a foster or adoptive parent, an adoptee, or someone who wants to better understand the adoption journey.

And remember: God doesn't waste our stories. Even the hard chapters can become part of His redemptive work.

Links mentioned in this episode:

https://www.isaacmelber.com/

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Soul Care Saturday—52 Devotions for Foster and Adoptive Moms

Orphans No More—A Journey Back to the Father book on Amazon

“Behold, I am going to do something new, 

Now it will spring up;

Will you not be aware of it?

I will even make a roadway in the wilderness,

Rivers in the desert.”

-Isaiah 43:19

On this episode, host Sandra Flach, talks with Holly Seaver. Holly is a Christian, wife, mom of a multiracial and multicultural adoptive family, foster mom, and children’s book author. Her writing is inspired by her family’s lived experience including titles such as “My New Home & Me” and "Jack & Max & the Happy Home—A Foster Care Story”

Listen in as Holly shares her family’s journey from empty nest to full house after she and her husband felt led to become foster parents. Fostering led to adopting—something they never planned to do. Now their nest is full! Along the way she started writing children’s books for kids in foster care.

Enjoy Holly’s inspiring story and be sure to subscribe to the podcast, leave a review, and share it on your social media.

Links mentioned in this episode:

https://hollyseaverbooks.com/

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Soul Care Saturday—52 Devotions for Foster and Adoptive Moms

Orphans No More—A Journey Back to the Father book on Amazon

“You will keep in perfect peace

All who trust in You,

All whose thoughts are fixed on you!”

-Isaiah 26:3

On this episode, host Sandra Flach, talks with our favorite returning guest, Dr. Jerrod Brown, about Frontal Lobe Impairment and what it means for children impacted by FASD, trauma, and other neuro-developmental differences.

Dr. Brown explains how the frontal lobe plays an important role in: self-regulation, executive functioning, decision making, communication, and adaptive functioning. When these areas of the brain are impaired, what looks like defiance or poor behavior may actually be a sign that a child is struggling with a brain-based difference.

Dr. Brown has 6 PhD’s and specializes in topics related to autism spectrum disorder (ASD), fetal alcohol spectrum disorder (FASD), confabulation, suggestibility, trauma and other life adversities, alexithymia, executive dysfunction, criminal recidivism, traumatic brain injury (TBI), and youth fire-setting. You can check out his full bio on our website along with dozens of our bonus episodes featuring Dr Brown.

Please be sure to subscribe to the podcast, leave a review, and share it on your social media.

Links mentioned in this episode:

Bonus Episodes with Dr. Brown

Dr. Brown’s email: [email protected]

Free Breath Prayer Download

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The Adoption & Foster Care Journey

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justicefororphansny.org

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Email:  [email protected]

sandraflach.com

Soul Care Saturday—52 Devotions for Foster and Adoptive Moms

Orphans No More—A Journey Back to the Father book on Amazon

"An argument started among the disciples as to which of them would be the greatest. Jesus, knowing their thoughts, took a little child and had him stand beside Him. Then He said to them, 'Whoever welcomes this little child in my name welcomes me; and whoever welcomes me welcomes the one who sent me. For it is the one who is least among you all who is the greatest.'" -Luke 9:46-48

Welcome to The Adoption & Foster Care Journey—a podcast to encourage, educate, and equip you as you care for children in crisis through adoption, foster care, and kinship care.

On this episode, host Sandra Flach talks with Scott Fuller, Vice President of Advancement at Murphy-Harpst Children's Centers, a ministry that has been serving vulnerable children in Georgia for more than 100 years.

Scott shares his unexpected journey from church planting to advocating for children in foster care, along with a powerful story of hope that demonstrates what can happen when children receive consistent care, compassionate support, and adults who believe in their future.

Together, Sandra and Scott discuss the life-changing work of Murphy-Harpst, the importance of community for foster and adoptive families, how trauma-informed care helps children heal and thrive, and the Bible passage that transformed Scott's understanding of ministry and service.

Whether you're a foster or adoptive parent, someone who supports vulnerable children, or simply looking for encouragement, this conversation is a reminder that God often accomplishes His greatest work through ordinary people who faithfully say "yes."

Listen to Sandra's conversation with Scott Fuller on Episode 543 wherever you get your podcasts.

Please be sure to subscribe to the podcast, leave a review, and share it on your social media.

Links mentioned in this episode:

https://murphyharpst.org/

[email protected]

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The Adoption & Foster Care Journey

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Email:  [email protected]

sandraflach.com

Soul Care Saturday—52 Devotions for Foster and Adoptive Moms

Orphans No More—A Journey Back to the Father book on Amazon

"Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion?

Come to me. Get away with me and you’ll recover your life.

I’ll show you how to take a real rest.

Walk with me and work with me—watch how I do it.

Learn the unforced rhythms of grace."

-Matthew 11:28 & 29 MSG

Children with trauma and Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder (FASD) often aren't choosing challenging behaviors—they're struggling with brain-based differences that affect memory, impulse control, and executive functioning.

In this week's episode of The Adoption & Foster Care Journey Podcast, Sandra Flach explores:

When we recognize the difference between can't and won't, we can replace frustration with compassion and create the supports our children truly need.

Listen now and discover practical, brain-based strategies that can bring more peace and connection to your parenting journey.

Please be sure to subscribe to the podcast, leave a review, and share it on your social media.

Links mentioned in this episode:

Free Breath Prayer Download

See Available Trainings

The Adoption & Foster Care Journey

AFCJ on YouTube

justicefororphansny.org

justicefororphansny.org/hope-community    

Email:  [email protected]

sandraflach.com

Soul Care Saturday—52 Devotions for Foster and Adoptive Moms

Orphans No More—A Journey Back to the Father book on Amazon

"I am the Lord, the God of all mankind. Is anything too hard for me?" -Jeremiah 32:27

Welcome to The Adoption & Foster Care Journey—a podcast to encourage, educate and equip you as you care for children in crisis through adoption, foster care and kinship care.

In this episode host Sandra Flach sits down with Dr. Mark Andrews, adoptive father and founder of Adoptive Family Resources, to talk about his family's adoption journey and how it shaped his life's work of supporting foster and adoptive families.

Mark shares how learning about trauma, attachment, and Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder (FASD) transformed both his parenting and his professional ministry. Together, they discuss the importance of understanding the brain behind the behavior, finding the right support, and remembering that we don't have to walk this journey alone.

If you're raising children impacted by trauma or prenatal substance exposure—or you simply need a reminder that God sees your family and is with you every step of the way—this conversation will encourage and equip you.

As Mark reminds us, "The Lord loves your child even more than you do."

Listen wherever you get your podcasts!

Please be sure to subscribe to the podcast, leave a review, and share it on your social media.

Links mentioned in this episode:

Adoptive Family Resources

See Available Trainings

The Adoption & Foster Care Journey

AFCJ on YouTube

justicefororphansny.org

justicefororphansny.org/hope-community    

Email:  [email protected]

sandraflach.com

Soul Care Saturday—52 Devotions for Foster and Adoptive Moms

Orphans No More—A Journey Back to the Father book on Amazon

"Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it." -Proverbs 22:6

Welcome to The Adoption & Foster Care Journey—a podcast to encourage, educate and equip you as you care for children in crisis through adoption, foster care and kinship care.

In this week's episode of The Adoption & Foster Care Journey, Sandra Flach sits down with pediatric physical therapist and foster dad Trevor Carlson to explore how trauma, neglect, and prenatal substance exposure can impact a child's development—from tummy time to walking.

Trevor shares practical, hope-filled strategies to help caregivers support healthy development while reminding us of one essential truth: connection comes before correction.

In this episode, you'll discover:

Whether you're parenting a newborn, toddler, or a child with a history of trauma, this conversation will equip you with practical tools and a fresh perspective.

Please be sure to subscribe to the podcast, leave a review, and share it on your social media.

Links mentioned in this episode:

Tummy Time Book

therapykids.org

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The Adoption & Foster Care Journey

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Email:  [email protected]

sandraflach.com

Soul Care Saturday—52 Devotions for Foster and Adoptive Moms

Orphans No More—A Journey Back to the Father book on Amazon

“And He (Jesus) awoke and rebuked the wind and said to the sea, “Peace! Be still!” And the wind ceased, and there was a great calm.” -Mark 4:39

Welcome to The Adoption & Foster Care Journey—a podcast to encourage, educate and equip you as you care for children in crisis through adoption, foster care and kinship care.

On this episode host Sandra Flach talks with returning guest favorite, Dr. Jerrod Brown. Dr. Brown has 6 PhD’s and specializes in topics related to autism spectrum disorder (ASD), fetal alcohol spectrum disorder (FASD), confabulation, suggestibility, trauma and other life adversities, alexithymia, executive dysfunction, criminal recidivism, traumatic brain injury (TBI), and youth firesetting. You can check out his full bio on our website along with dozens of our bonus episodes feating Dr. Brown.

Here Dr. Brown unpacks the prevalence of migraine headaches among children with adverse childhood experiences (ACEs). Listen in or watch on our YouTube channel to learn risk factors, symptoms, and lifestyle medicine choices to improve outcomes.

You can find episode 539 wherever you get your podcasts! 

Please be sure to subscribe to the podcast, leave a review, and share it on your social media.

Links mentioned in this episode:

Dr. Jerrod Brown’s Email

See Available Trainings

The Adoption & Foster Care Journey

AFCJ on YouTube

justicefororphansny.org

justicefororphansny.org/hope-community    

Email:  [email protected]

sandraflach.com

Soul Care Saturday—52 Devotions for Foster and Adoptive Moms

Orphans No More—A Journey Back to the Father book on Amazon