As a foster mom, you may find yourself navigating a mix of joy, heartbreak, hope, and uncertainty. Managing your emotions effectively is crucial not only for your well-being but also for providing the best care and support for the children in your home.

Today, we’ll explore actionable strategies to help foster moms manage their emotions, maintain resilience, and foster a sense of stability for themselves and their families.

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What does the enneagram have to do with foster care? Turns out, quite a lot! On this episode of the Fearless Fostering Podcast, I'm chatting with Ashton Brye of @ashton.creates about how the enneagram gave us insight into our experience as foster mamas. From how we processed (vs. our husbands!) to how we have grown and changed because of our foster care journeys, we don't hold back.

Find Ashton's art and foster care journey here: https://www.instagram.com/ashton.creates/

To apply for one of the remaining 2 spots of my Fearless Fostering group, click here:

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Reunification is at the heart of foster care, embodying the primary goal of bringing children back to a safe, stable, and loving home with their biological families. For foster moms, this process can be emotionally complex, filled with moments of joy, heartache, and profound learning. Whether you’re preparing for your first experience with reunification or navigating its aftermath, understanding the truth about this process can help you approach it with empathy, resilience, and clarity.

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Between managing the emotions of your kids, navigating family gatherings, and trying to create a joyful atmosphere, the holidays can feel overwhelming. I’ve been there, and I know how heavy it can feel to balance the joy of the season with the complexities of foster care or adoption.

The good news is that you don’t have to just survive the holidays—you can thrive. That's what this episode is all about!

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As a foster or adoptive mom, one of the most heart-wrenching yet meaningful moments comes when your child begins to ask about their story. Questions about their biological family, their past, and their identity can bring up a whirlwind of emotions—not only for them but for you as well. Here’s a guide to help you navigate these moments with empathy, clarity, and openness.

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Many people outside the foster care community have this misconception that fostering is a way to make money. I’ve heard it before, and I’m sure many of you have too—"Oh, you must be getting paid a lot to take care of these kids!"But the truth, as you all know, is that foster care is anything but a moneymaker. In fact, for 60% of foster parents, it brings more financial strain than they anticipated.

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Join me for an inspiring conversation with Beth Hewitt, a passionate advocate in the foster care community. In this episode, we discuss the challenges and triumphs of fostering, share valuable insights on supporting foster children and families, and explore ways to create a nurturing environment for all.

Don’t miss out on this opportunity to connect with others in the community! Join my Foster Care Support Group this Thursday, October 17 at 8 pm eastern for an open discussion and support. Save your spot here: https://stan.store/fearless_fostering/p/foster-mama-support-group

Be sure to follow Beth on Instagram for more encouragement and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/bethnhewitt/

When it hurts to hope, remember that hope is holy, foster mama. This short but sweet episode is one I hope you will return to time and again when you feel tired, weary, and overwhelmed by the weight of your foster care journey, or just plain frustrated.

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Today's guest is Abby Mortensen, a mama who entered the world of foster care after being a victim of adoption scams. Since becoming foster parents, she and her husband have fostered many children in two states. Abby shares about how her faith plays a vital role in her ability to keep fostering, despite how difficult it can be, and encourages us all to get support, ask for help, and make self-care a priority. You can follow Abby's journey here: https://www.abbymortenson.com/

AND, I'm now accepting applications for my 6 month Fearless Fostering group and retreat! You can learn more and apply here:

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I absolutely couldn't wait to share this conversation I had with former foster youth, adoptee and advocate (and Ivy League college student!!) Melody Welles. Melody was so gracious to share vulnerably about the trauma she endured growing up in an adoptive home where she didn't feel part of the family or wanted, and how she is today using her platform to show foster youth what is possible when they believe their story is just part of their experience and it doesn't define them. She also shares amazing wisdom for foster and adoptive parents, so you don't want to miss this episode!!

Follow Melody here: https://www.instagram.com/melody.adoptee/

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