As a foster mama, you carry a weight that few truly understand—the sleepless nights worrying about your child’s emotional well-being, the endless advocacy to ensure they get the right support, and the deep emotional investment in their healing. You’re juggling doctor’s appointments, IEP meetings, sibling visits, birth parent relationships, and behaviors that other parents don’t have to navigate.

And through it all, you’re expected to keep going.

But have you ever stopped to think about what it costs you to stay in this cycle of exhaustion?

Most of us don’t. We push through, telling ourselves that our kids need us. That we’ll take a break later. That we don’t have time for self-care. That we just need to be stronger.

But burnout isn’t just a bad day or a rough week. It’s a long-term depletion—and it has real consequences for your health, your family, and your ability to show up as the mom you want to be.

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When you become a foster or adoptive parent, you enter into a world that is filled with love, challenges, joy, and, at times, pain. It’s a journey that requires constant learning, compassion, and understanding as you help your child navigate their own emotions, identity, and relationship with their biological roots.

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Winter brings a unique opportunity for families to slow down, cozy up, and create meaningful memories together. Between the chilly weather and shorter days, it’s the perfect season to focus on strengthening your bond with your children. Whether you’re a foster parent, adoptive parent, or biological parent, prioritizing connection can bring warmth to your home and deepen your relationships. Here are five practical and heartfelt ways to connect with your kids this winter.

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As a foster mom, you may find yourself navigating a mix of joy, heartbreak, hope, and uncertainty. Managing your emotions effectively is crucial not only for your well-being but also for providing the best care and support for the children in your home.

Today, we’ll explore actionable strategies to help foster moms manage their emotions, maintain resilience, and foster a sense of stability for themselves and their families.

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What does the enneagram have to do with foster care? Turns out, quite a lot! On this episode of the Fearless Fostering Podcast, I'm chatting with Ashton Brye of @ashton.creates about how the enneagram gave us insight into our experience as foster mamas. From how we processed (vs. our husbands!) to how we have grown and changed because of our foster care journeys, we don't hold back.

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Reunification is at the heart of foster care, embodying the primary goal of bringing children back to a safe, stable, and loving home with their biological families. For foster moms, this process can be emotionally complex, filled with moments of joy, heartache, and profound learning. Whether you’re preparing for your first experience with reunification or navigating its aftermath, understanding the truth about this process can help you approach it with empathy, resilience, and clarity.

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Between managing the emotions of your kids, navigating family gatherings, and trying to create a joyful atmosphere, the holidays can feel overwhelming. I’ve been there, and I know how heavy it can feel to balance the joy of the season with the complexities of foster care or adoption.

The good news is that you don’t have to just survive the holidays—you can thrive. That's what this episode is all about!

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As a foster or adoptive mom, one of the most heart-wrenching yet meaningful moments comes when your child begins to ask about their story. Questions about their biological family, their past, and their identity can bring up a whirlwind of emotions—not only for them but for you as well. Here’s a guide to help you navigate these moments with empathy, clarity, and openness.

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Many people outside the foster care community have this misconception that fostering is a way to make money. I’ve heard it before, and I’m sure many of you have too—"Oh, you must be getting paid a lot to take care of these kids!"But the truth, as you all know, is that foster care is anything but a moneymaker. In fact, for 60% of foster parents, it brings more financial strain than they anticipated.

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Join me for an inspiring conversation with Beth Hewitt, a passionate advocate in the foster care community. In this episode, we discuss the challenges and triumphs of fostering, share valuable insights on supporting foster children and families, and explore ways to create a nurturing environment for all.

Don’t miss out on this opportunity to connect with others in the community! Join my Foster Care Support Group this Thursday, October 17 at 8 pm eastern for an open discussion and support. Save your spot here: https://stan.store/fearless_fostering/p/foster-mama-support-group

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