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The Art of Not Boarding Every Bus: Thoughts, Distance, and the Practice of Letting Go

The Deeper Thinking Podcast

For anyone quietly learning to let thoughts pass without following every one.

This episode is a parable about thoughts, and the practice of cognitive diffusion. Through the metaphor of buses and benches, we explore what it means to notice a thought, to pause before reacting, and to choose not to follow. What begins as habit slowly becomes practice. What once felt automatic becomes something else entirely: space.

 It’s a story that models freedom within thought, shaped by the spirit of thinkers like Steven C. Hayes (cognitive defusion), Iain McGilchrist (attentional depth), and Simone Weil (attention as a moral act). The story offers no solution—only a rhythm. A way of sitting beside a thought. A way of letting it pass.

Here, diffusion is not described—it is lived. In the gentle tension between reflex and choice, something quiet unfolds: not resistance, but recognition. Not certainty, but space. Not mastery, but permission. And in that permission, a different kind of freedom begins to take shape—unforced, unnoticed, but deeply felt.

Reflections

This episode doesn't tell you how to change your thoughts. It shows you how to change your posture toward them. Here are some of the quieter truths that surfaced along the way:

  • Not every thought is yours to follow. Some are only passing through.
  • Freedom doesn’t come from stopping thoughts—but from letting them be.
  • The space between you and a thought is where agency begins.
  • Urgency can wear the mask of care. So can shame.
  • Some buses have no signs. Some are late. Some are early. None are mandatory.
  • Refusal doesn’t need to look like strength. Sometimes it looks like stillness.
  • There is nothing to solve. Only something to see. And then let go.
  • Thought is not a command.
  • Why Listen?

    • Experience cognitive diffusion as story, not theory
    • Learn how attention can soften the grip of mental reflex
    • Explore how noticing becomes a quiet act of freedom
    • Engage with Hayes, McGilchrist, and Weil through metaphor and mood
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        Bibliography

        • Hayes, Steven C. A Liberated Mind: How to Pivot Toward What Matters. Penguin, 2019.
        • McGilchrist, Iain. The Master and His Emissary. Yale University Press, 2009.
        • Weil, Simone. Gravity and Grace. London: Routledge, 2002.
        • Bibliography Relevance

          • Steven C. Hayes: Introduces the foundational practice of cognitive diffusion in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy.
          • Iain McGilchrist: Provides a philosophical model of attentional depth and divided mind structures.
          • Simone Weil: Grounds the ethical treatment of attention as presence, patience, and moral clarity.
          • You are not your urgency. 

            #CognitiveDiffusion #StevenCHayes #SimoneWeil #IainMcGilchrist #ACT #Attention #InnerFreedom #BusStopParable #TheDeeperThinkingPodcast #LetItPass #NarrativePsychology #PhilosophyOfMind

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