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As the next general election hour glass starts to shift, Americans ponder to make their stance on being conservative or liberal.  These terms are normally  associated with citizens falling on either side of dichotomies associated with race, political affiliation, age and other ways people tend to segregate and associate with each-other.  Conservatism is normally associated with “retaining traditional social institutions” or as some may see it, natural selection.  Conservatism has historically been associated with the dominate white male, ruling his society through laws, education and employment.  And, guaranteeing all due process.  The liberal on the other hand is associated with the opposite, so much so that the term conservative scares and intimidates them.  We beg to differ, there is a significant sample of the population who sees themselves as conservative, and don’t fit the traditional demographic mode, nor are they locked in on either side of the dichotomy; they simply want an informed society. Today we talk with two conservative citizens, Darryl Wilson and Montez Diamond of the non-partisan Conservative Alliance who simply want just that, an informed society.  We discuss the dilemma associated with conservatism, being conservative, and a major event that serves to inform society, the Georgia Conservative Summit.   

Conservative Summit

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Darryl Wilson

A staunch advocate of conservative America in the tradition of abolitionist Douglass and civil rights movement.  A military brat, he traveled throughout the country and abroad, learning every nuance of freedom and subject to various shades of bigotry and bias.  Darrell graduated from Kentucky State University, he went on to become the first KSU graduate to become a combat qualified Naval Aviator, and served 9 years as an Division Officer, flight instructor, he now flies as Captain at one of the largest airlines in the world.  Father of 4,  he and his family have resided in and served communities from Pensacola, Florida to Tuskegee, Alabama to Denver, Colorado and now makes his home in the north suburbs of Atlanta.  If there was ever someone that “gets it”, who has seen and witness life’s ups and downs and has vision beyond the normal harmonies and discords of the daily grind, it is this man.  He continues to take the road less traveled and to influence individuals and institutions alike, to never give up, never say die, and to always strive to be a more perfect union.

Ms Montez Diamond

Montez Diamond is a training and education advocate that has served in multiple leadership capacities for various organizations. Committed to supporting people, she responds to educational crises and preventing additional challenges through youth mentorship and promoting strength-based solutions. Her drive and motivation allows her to be an effective and creative trainer and facilitator. She served as a mentor, Public Speaking instructor and guest speaker for Year Up Atlanta, Clark Atlanta University, ITT Technical Institute and The Ray Croc Salvation Army Center. A critical thinker who explores dilemmas, her life’s mission is to use the power of communication to strengthen the human condition to the end of uplifting encouraging others, a Masters of Conflict Management student, she is a GED instructor for the Atlanta Public School’s Adult Education Program.

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Ambient is a very difficult topic to discuss that however needs to be addressed, the problem is that it’s nearly impossible to converse on it without conveying anger and racism. Let’s face it, the last year and a half or so has been simply perilous for African American Men.  Even more frightening for this demographic is that the peril faced has at times (most certainly media attention garnering) been at the hands of those chartered with “protecting and serving” them and society in general.  Couple this with a permeating self-destructive culture, and the result is that they are being sucked up by a soul stealing zombie and  seeing each other at the “Crossroads” (Bone Thugs N Harmony), “So Many Tears” (Topac Shakur), are shed regularly. Also contributing to the soup are TV shows like the “The Wire” that glorify and condition a mindset of self degradation and that they, or we are a demographic at the bottom of the societal food chain.

As a father and African American male, I struggle with determining a positive way to approach the problem of dealing with authority or law enforcement.

Normally my approach tends to be from an intellectual view and standpoint, however, intellectualism is not an adjective normally associated with the demographic in peril, it’s a dilemma that simply discourages a man of my stature. This frustration surfaces because when these scenarios occur, one can’t help but feel helpless, or belittled.  Nonetheless, the interactions and exchanges between authorities and African American Men aren’t always dangerous or perilous.  To demonstrate and expound on this I bring in two gents to discuss this matter, my sons: Marcus & Andrew Benson. They have firsthand, recent experience in dealing with an altercation with  police in the state of Georgia. The great thing is that even though this could have been a cantankerous encounter, they are here to talk about it, without citation or further encounter with authorities.  They share this story, our discussion extends beyond this experience to the state of affairs and dealing with the perception of the African American Male in general.

I also post a discussion topic relating to this on my blog:

http://www.thebookofdad.org/category/blog/

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Heard the song(s) “You Get What You Give” (New Rascals); “Nothing Comes to Dreamers but a Dream” (Gap Band); and “Ain’t no Half-Steppin” (Heatwave)? They all allude to, there is something in you that is destined to surface. This is provided you do what it takes to get there, or perhaps a fateful event leads you to a path to “get what you give”. Some of us end up doing and perhaps becoming great at something we never thought we’d do. Candy Lightner, out of personal tragedy founded perhaps one of the most influential lobbyist organizations in Mothers Against Drunk Driving (MADD), and John Walsh out of similar tragedy founded “America’s Most Wanted”. Today we chat with, Fredia “The Cheetah” Gibbs who transformed herself into the “The Most Dangerous Woman in the World” because she hated violence, fighting and being bullied. In “where are they now” fashion “The Cheetah” discusses her ascending to pugilistic greatness, honors, accolades, and future projects including her autobiography.

Fredia “The Cheetah” Gibbs (learn more about her here or visit her Facebook page) – Originally from Chester, PA, growing up in the Fairground Community was tough for Gibbs who was constantly being bullied by neighborhood kids and classmates. Since her mother taught her not to fight back, Gibbs frequently found herself running from neighborhood peers. When she wasn’t running from bullies, she became an All American & Most Valuable Player in basketball and track, appropriately earning her the nickname “The Cheetah.”

Immediately after high school, she attended Temple University on two athletic scholarships, for basketball and track. She later attended Cabrini College on a basketball scholarship as well. A highly skilled and accomplished player, she was invited to the United States Olympic Training Center in Colorado Springs where she tried out for the women’s USA Olympic Basketball Team, she was a Kodak All American for three consecutive years at Cabrini College where she majored in Marketing. She later went on to play professional basketball in Germany, averaging a triple double (30 points, 15 rebounds, 10 assists). A Chester High School “Basketball Hall of Fame” inductee, she used her athletic ability, honed discipline and dedication from Martial Arts to become the greatest female fighter on the planet and now delights in the associated perks.

**Be sure to listen for discussion later in the show on plans regarding relevant social issues of today; issues that have motivated me to become an agent for positive social change**

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Historic behaviorists and psychologists toiled to determine the triggers of an individual’s perception of their place in and view of their surroundings. Certainly, we want to believe there is a cookie cutting process that guarantees the traditional outcome, outcome to the end of heterosexual normalcy, at least we all hope. Conversely and perhaps controversially a substantial sample of the population doesn’t see themselves as “OK” or their surroundings as “OK” as they fit in it. Herein lies sources of complexity and possible sexuality confusion, to an extreme extent personal identity or transexualism: choosing to become a person of the opposite sex. It’s an individual choice, or is it? Enter the parent, and others affected by the decision of someone to become “transsexual”, or “transgender”. Today we talk to the parent of a Transgender young adult , Mrs. Rolanda Schmidt, PhD. Dr. Schmidt, a survival story in her own right vents, and discusses challenges of being the parent of a self proclaimed Transgender adult, while simultaneously parenting her other children. She also breaks the news about her soon to be released book “7 Things You Should Know Before They Play the Game”. Her book offers hints on possible prevention and signs to look for. She discusses how she strives to envision herself as OK in a world that might not be OK unless changes are made.

Rolanda Schmidt, PhD

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Rolanda Schmidt, formerly Rolanda Delamartinez, born and raised in Florida and moved to the Midwest two decades ago. Raised by her father and bonus mom in a very religious home, she experienced trouble in what seemed like a childhood paradise when she was kidnapped and abused at the tender age of 12. After surviving that tumultuous ordeal; being reunited with her father and stabilizing her life, she married at the tender age of 18, and gave birth to her first child (show subject). These experiences shaped the woman she is today and taught her the importance of living in truth. She uses these experiences to season her public speaking engagements; specifically advising followers to put God first, take positive action, and “believe in others before they believe in themselves”.

Rolanda’s motto: Each day feels like a new tomorrow. Thanks to the self-sacrificing efforts of her husband, children/bonus children, friends, family, and mentors: Rolanda L. Schmidt is an entrepreneur, author, scholar, motivational speaker, and community servant. Her greatest joy is being a Christ follower, wife, mother/bonus mom. An inspiring, politician she was the first African American DFL endorsed candidate for MN State Representative in District 52A (2008).

Dr. Schmidt gained a wealth of corporate and nonprofit experience working as the Director of Marketing and Development at Prevent Child Abuse MN; and as founder and CEO of a tax accounting firm for 17 years while consulting as a member of the accounting staff at companies such as Target Headquarters, HB Fuller, Securian Financial, and US Bank. An internationally sought after speaker for corporate, religious, non-profit, community, and youth groups, Rolanda’s been featured various Minnesota Press venues, and on Fox 9 news. A Certified Professional Project Manager (CPPM), PhD in International Finance, she continues to broaden her scholarly expertise conducting research in Public Policy and Nonprofit Management.

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Everyone needs friends, it’s all too common knowledge that when 2 or more come together in agreement Jehovah cannot help but hear.   There is most certainly strength in numbers; it takes a village to raise a child, I know this all too well as I am at times a lousy loner. Also at times there are those want to help and cannot and, those who can and will not.  There are some nonetheless who possess the gift of charisma, magnetism, influence, and creativity and develop a means to meet the needs of others, galvanize.  Today we talk with Steve Harvey Neighborhood Award Nominee, who is also the developer, orchestrator and CEO of one of the greatest philanthropic networks in the world, Simply United Together (S.U.T.); Honorary Doctor, James Jones, Jr.  Mr. Jones shares his motivation, goals and causes he and his organization is dedicated to and determine to further.

Honorary Dr. James Jones, Jr & Simply United Together (S.U.T.)  http://simplyunitedtogether.wordpress.com/

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Simply United Together is a catalyst for positive social change and community empowerment. It supports diversified idealism that promotes community sustainability, human relations and civic empowerment. S.U.T.GLOBAL was founded James Jones, Sr. a Youngstown, Ohio native who is also the its Chairman. S.U.T. GLOBAL originated on Facebook, it has seen phenomenal growth since its inception. Headquartered in Atlanta, Ga. it currently has 204 chapters, 52 divisions and is represented in 49 of the 50 states; as well as internationally in Africa, Mexico, Canada, Europe, Middle East, Asia, South America, Australia and the Caribbean with its consistent growth of members and an eye on even broader horizons, S.U.T. GLOBAL wants to take its mission and message to the next level, on the Internet.

Using social media S.U.T. GLOBAL will continue to expand and support social causes such as ensuring a knowledgeable public on voting laws and processes, supporting causes for the homeless, veterans, senior citizens and orphans.  S.U.T. GLOBAL also has the following 4 entities operating under its umbrella: Undeniable Entertainment, Simply United Foundation, S.U.T. Interest Groups and Simply United Ministries. These entities  allow members to interact with one another on a more personal level, while giving back to local communities across the world. Founder and Chairman, James Jones, Sr. believes that being a blessing to someone else is the most important thing a human being can do. Be sure to visit their website and join the cause!

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Ever notice people how some people never seem to fit in? It’s difficult to categorize them less the obvious demographic they belong to, put them in a box or make them stay in their lane.  In most cases I’ve seen and know of (self included), this dilemma is because they are not supposed to fit in, fall in  and conform. Rather, they are meant to stand out.  And, not stand out in the cold, alone, ostracized or isolated. They are meant to use their Jehovah delivered talents to get behind, or out in front of a cause.  They are meant to pull together and orchestrate the activities of many with like interests, goals and objectives.  Today we talk with accomplished and renowned singer, songwriter, author, evangelist and motivational speaker Deborah “Debra” Hightower.  Debra uses her Jehovah delivered talents and influence to get behind the fight against the “oldest profession”, prostitution and other problems plaguing  our society.  With the help of “Wellspring Living“, an organization whose mandate is to repair the lives of  young prostitutes, Debra talks up reform and support for an upcoming (October 2nd, 2014) event to address the problem.

About Deborah Hightower:

Debra is an accomplished, singer, songwriter, author, motivational speaker and evangelist. Highly successful, her work has been used for musical sound tracks for both movies and television.  She was recently honored with the “Put a Bow on It” award for her philanthropic work in assisting homeless people.  Currently residing in Atlanta Georgia, she holds a Bachelor’s Degree in Business Administration, minor in Communications; Master’s Degree in Organization and Management and is well on her way to completing a PhD in Leadership. She holds several professional designations in the financial arena as well.  Debra specializes in diversity and sensitivity consultation, client development, and employee motivation. She helps corporations and organizations expand their business development to meet the changing demographics of society.  She also advises in the realm of asset growth and retirement planning for management and employees.  A champion for the cause against prostitution, she is committed to squashing this age old problem, she a key organizer and principal in fostering awareness, prevention and support systems.  Debra is married with two adult daughters. This brief vignette pales to tell her story, be sure to visit her website…

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Mixing ministry with business and turning ministry into business appears to be an ever evolving experience or enterprise. Far more evangelists are emerging as folk heroes and outright stars. The mantra of spirited sermons, documented antidotes and appropriately timed bible verses have made the T. D. Jakes(s), Creflo Dollar(s), Jole Olsteen(s) and Joyce Meyers(s) of the world (or their ministries) multimillionaires. At the extreme end, they become movie producers and recently, at nearly mockery proportions the “Preachers of LA” appear to satisfy the self serving end of religious spiritual peddling. But, then again, there are those who use their ministry for its intended purpose, to galvanize. Today we talk with “The Galvanizer” Apostle Rachel Watson of Kingdom Consultants.

Apostle Rachel Watson

A Galvanizer is defined as one who inspires others. It means to arouse or stimulate action. This term aptly describes Apostle Rachael Watson. At the age of 15 years old, came to understand that her purpose was to help others. She strives to walk in her purpose daily by inspiring, encouraging and motivating others to live a fulfilled life through Developing and growing in a personal walk with God and Pursing their Purpose. She challenges them to overcome obstacles to their purpose by addressing the “giants in their land” head on. Fear, Doubt, Poverty, Rejection, Approval Addiction and more hinder and prevent many from going forward into the greatness and destiny that God has awaiting them in their purpose and she deems it her mission to help them overcome them all.

Her purpose is exemplified in every facet of her life’s work. As a preacher and Co-Founder of Word & Spirit Kingdom Training Center, she and her husband Apostle Michael Watson teach and encourage listeners to discover their Identity in the Kingdom of God so that they may take full advantage of the rights, benefits and privileges that Kingdom Citizenship affords them. As a Self-Publishing Consultant, she and Michael assist and inspire authors to make their dreams of becoming a self-published author a reality and to reach the levels of success they desire as an authors. As a Fulfillment Coach through her media ministry, Rachael Watson Ministries, she motivates and empowers others to pursue their purpose, grow into spiritual maturity and live the life of fulfillment that God desires for them.

This purpose extends to her family as she inspires and supports her family as they seek and walk in their purpose. She and Michael are the proud parents of 5 Awesome kids-Jason, Michael, Trinity, Tre and Mikayla. She takes her purpose seriously and is determined to do all that God has assigned her to do. Her greatest desire is to have the testimony of Enoch…that she pleased God.The Book of Dad 9/22/2014

Reach Apostle Rachel Watson on twitter @raegalvanizes

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Being successful is stressful enough; being singly and extremely successful is probably more challenging, or is it? There are simply people out there who make difficult and challenging things look easy, simple and even fun. Managing a skyrocketing career, public appearances, teaching and motivating, coupled with trying to secure the perfect match made in heaven and we get pure and simple energy. I’ve on several occasions mentioned that it is all Jehovah driven, we are following or going with a predestined flow. Today we talk to a truly blessed and talented breath of fresh air in the entertainment industry Ms Brely Evans, with many movie and TV gigs to her credit, she is insightful, informative, and entertaining; listen in as we get into Brely’s cranium on a number of topics, you’ll be impressed and glad you did.

Twitter @BrelyEvans

Brely Evans, an Oakland, California Native is a celebrated Actress, Host, Vocalist and Motivational Speaker on the fast track for superstardom. Primarily known for her roles as Gabriel Union’s best friend “Nichelle Nicholas” on the BET Television Series “Being Mary Jane”, her breakout role was the comedienne sidekick to the Oscar Nominated Queen Latifah “Sabrina” in the critically acclaimed “Just Right”. She also had a key role in the movie “Sparkle” as Tune Ann, best friend of Jordan Sparks’ character. Her power packed resume is only going to get better as she has countless projects on the horizon to include headlining her first movie “The Man in 3B” opposite of renowned actor Lamar Rucker to be released soon. Brely has a host of other accomplishments to include completing a BS from Cal State, numerous public speaking engagements, seminars and workshops designed to enlighten the public on endless topics. She is extremely proud of her parents and the example they have set for her and providing a venue for her to be who she is today. Brely has countless accolades and projects listed on her webpage, and is currently sought after by the industry heavy hitters as a “triple threat talent”. A firm believer in God, she is clearly setting a new standard for industry excellence.

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The pace of broadcasting and managing the operations of a radio station can be hectic at best. The shows, personalities and sponsorships can make for long and exciting times and days.  Couple those activities with producing and leading his own shows as well as forming a new recording group, we get a highly energetic and motivated young industry go getter Mark “Mark Angle” Lofton, Production Manager of WCLK 91.9 “Jazz of the City” at Clark-Atlanta University (CAU).  We get into Mark’s head on a number of topics including Police Brutality, Social Media and his pet project the “DangerFeel Newbies”.

Marquis K. Lofton also known as “Mark Angel” (CAU ’04) currently serves as Production Manager/ On- Air Personality/ DJ for Atlanta’s Jazz Station, Jazz 91.9 WCLK. He also assists in the programming of the station and has aspirations to become a Program Director. He is the host of “The Contemporary Jazz Showcase” (Saturdays 10a-2p) and “Saturday Evening Jazz” (Saturdays 9p-12a) on WCLK.

Hailing from Largo, Maryland, Lofton graduated from CAU with a Bachelors of Arts degree in Mass Media Arts with a concentration on Radio/ TV/ Film. He was fortunate to have served as an intern for The Georgia Dome, Georgia Public Radio, Cartoon Network and 790 AM “The Zone” during his matriculation. Under the tutelage of late Professor Bill Clark, he became one of the founders of the first student-run Hip Hop station in the Atlanta University Center, 98.1 WSTU. In 2001, WSTU won Black College Radio’s “Station of the Year” award with Lofton serving as Station Manager.  His other honors include “The WSTU Superstar” Award, “The WCLK Dependability & Determination” Award and “The 5 Years of Service” Award from CAU.

After graduating from CAU, he became engineer & editor of the nationally syndicated “HBCU Sports Report” and has held other positions including Producer for CBS Radio (V103/WAOK) & Master Control/ Ingest Operator for Fox Sports.

Lofton’s interests include Music production, audio engineering and DJing. He has had the opportunity to DJ at Centennial Olympic Park, The Alliance Theatre, Center Stage, The Porter Sanford Performing Arts Center, The Apache Café and other venues throughout Atlanta. As a Music Producer, he is currently looking forward to the release of the debut album entitled ‘Hariet’ from his group, The DangerFeel Newbies in late September of 2014.

 Mark Angel sees being the Production Manager of Jazz 91.9 WCLK as an opportunity to bring experience gained back to the students of CAU.

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Ever wonder where some of those child movie stars are? A few of them continue their careers on into adulthood; seasoned, experienced and selective about assignments, affiliations and sustained acquaintances. One issue for them is that when we see them, we tend to forget that they are real people, dealing with dreams and realities like the rest of us. Today we “Hob Nob” with a guy we know as “Cockroach” from the “Cosbys”, and “Cole” from “Martin”, the accomplished entertainer Mr. Carl Payne. We get into Carl’s head on the serious side and discuss the industry, his initiatives and parenting; don’t fret, there is also plenty of humor…

Mr. Carl Payne

Carl Payne, an accomplished actor with many projects under his belt is well known for his roles in Television Situational Comedy(s) (Sit-Com) the “Cosbys” and “Martin”. An entertainer since he was 10 years old, he hails from Harlem, USA by way of New York. His credentials are vast as he has attended: The First All Children’s Theater, an off-Broadway repertory theatre company, the Fiorello H. LaGuardia High School of Music and the Performing Arts of New York and Howard University. Payne can be seen currently playing an FBI agent, and later as FCC field agent on the Ricky Smiley Show. He has a current “selfish” motive to assist others and be their reason for success or shine his star on them.

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