The Challenge of Pornography in Marriage

In this recent Facebook Live, Zach and Darcy Spafford of the Thrive Beyond Pornography podcast joined Dr. Finlayson-Fife to share their personal experience working through unwanted pornography use in their marriage and how after years of feeling stuck and frustrated, they were able to shift gears and make meaningful, lasting progress in their relationship to pornography and their relationship to each other.

Listen to the full episode to learn more about:

Self-authoring and the importance of claiming your life and choices

The problem with compliance/defiance framing

Role-based marriage vs choice-based marriage

Eroticism in marriage 

Approaching difficult conversations with curiosity

A recording of this conversation is also available on our YouTube channel.