Shades of Strong® | Strength Without Struggle for Black Women

The Conversation That Could Save You From Choosing the Wrong Partner


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What does real support in relationships for Black women even look like?

Because we know love without support is a thing—and it’s exhausting.


This episode is a deep dive into what happens when you start asking for more than love… when you start asking for love that actually holds you — love that actually supports you.

If you’ve ever found yourself feeling unseen or unsupported in a relationship, this episode is for you. Because support in relationships for Black women can’t be an afterthought.

I’m sharing a story that still sits heavy on my heart—a moment that showed me love isn’t always enough. That moment shaped how I see relationships, and more importantly, how I receive support.

You’ll also hear how knowing your Support Language™ can help you:

  • Recognize when someone simply can’t support you

  • Stop accepting the wrong kind of support

  • Ask for what you need with clarity and confidence

    Because love is a feeling—but support is a practice.


    And support in relationships for Black women has to be intentional.

    After you listen, take a minute to reflect:
    When was the last time you felt fully supported in a relationship—like, truly held?


    That’s what we’re naming, claiming, and working toward in this episode.

    🎧 Tap in and listen now.

    Resources to Support You:
    • Take the Support Language™ Quizand learn how you actually receive support best.
    • Join Shades of Strong on Substack where we’re having real, behind-the-scenes conversations about redefining strength
    • Follow Shades of Strong on Instagram for daily inspiration.
    • Be a Guest on the Show
    • www.shadesofstrong.com
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