Monica Harris is the Executive Director of FAIR For All, a Harvard Law graduate, former Hollywood executive, and author of The Illusion of Division.

Monica explains how her experience as a gay Black woman in Hollywood and then in "flyover country"shattered many elite narratives about America. She describes why she believes much of our current polarization is manufactured by media and political interests, and how identity-based frameworks like liberated ethnic studies and DEI are deepening division rather than healing it.

We dig into the following:

• Why "Liberated Ethnic Studies" is dividing students, not uniting them
• How modern DEI programs drifted far from genuine civil rights principles
• Why identity-based teaching harms kids socially and emotionally
• The catastrophic decline in civic education—and why it matters now more than ever
• How the American Experience curriculum offers a unifying alternative
• What parents MUST know about what's being taught in classrooms today
• This conversation is a must-listen for parents, educators, and anyone concerned about polarization, education, and the future of democracy.

Resources & Links

• FAIR For All: https://fairforall.org
• Monica's Substack: The Illusion of Division
• Monica's book, "The Ilusion of Division"
• If you want to know about this topic, listen to our podcast with Brandy Shufutinsky: The Marxist Roots of Coursework in K-12 and our College Campuses.

Quotes

• "We have so much more in common than what separates us, but division is being manufactured."
• "Kids don't need to see each other as oppressors and oppressed—they need tools for civil discourse."
• "The bones of America are exceptional"
• "At FAIR, we're asking: what comes after polarization? Everyone can diagnose the problem; we're focused on solutions."
• "The entire liberated ethnic studies model flies in the face of reality on the ground. It pits students against each other at the exact moment in life when they most need to see each other as allies."

⏱ Episode Timestamps

• 00:00 -Welcome & Monica's California-to-Harvard-to-Hollywood story
• 05:00 -Leaving Hollywood for Montana: the real story behind the culture shock
• 07:50 - Why Monica wrote The Illusion of Division
• 09:20 — What FAIR For All does across education, arts, medicine & law
• 13:00 — Inside the American Experience curriculum
• 15:00 — The problems with Liberated Ethnic Studies
• 19:00 — Why America's system needs repair, not replacement
• 20:30 — How social media fuels division and fear
• 24:00 — "This isn't capitalism"—the economic reality young people face
• 26:00 — The collapse of civics education & why it matters
• 32:00 — How FAIR's curriculum teaches civil discourse & unifying history
• 35:00 — Why parents are the key to changing school districts
• 38:00 — What's happening in California, Oregon & other states
• 42:00 — When students should take the course: age, grade level & design
• 44:30 — The pilot program: access, cost & rollout plans
• 47:00 — How ethnic studies frames Jews, Asians & successful minorities as "privileged"
• 50:00 — Why human beings will always choose freedom over authoritarianism
• 51:00 — Closing thoughts & how to learn more

In this episode, we speak with Lucy Biggers, head of social media at The Free Press and a former climate activist who has completely rethought the story she was telling the world and herself. Lucy shares how she went from a left-wing digital newsroom steeped in oppressor–oppressed ideology and climate doomsday content to slowly "re-educating" herself, especially after COVID lockdowns made her question what the climate movement was really asking of ordinary people.

We talk about how smart, idealistic young people get pulled into movements, from climate activism to "Free Palestine" marches and democratic socialists like AOC and Zohran Mamdani, often in search of purpose, belonging, and someone to blame. Lucy walks us through the emotional cost of changing her mind in public, losing old followers, gaining new ones, and learning to stand on principle instead of group approval.

We also go bigger: what's happening in our universities and K–12 schools, the rise of extreme voices on both the woke left and the conspiratorial right, and why Lucy still believes in American exceptionalism, free thinking, and the courage to say, "I was wrong" as an act of wisdom, not shame.

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Key Timestamps + Signature Quotes 00:00 — Introduction & Lucy's Background

Quote: "I debunk the fear around climate change because people deserve the truth, not terror."

01:10 — Why We Wanted Lucy On

Quote: "So many young people today are operating from a state of fear." — Yelena

01:52 — Lucy's Political Journey

Quote: "I lived half my twenties believing America was evil — I was completely swept up in it."

02:30 — Inside the Newsroom Groupthink

Quote: "It was ground zero for oppressor–oppressed ideology. I didn't realize how deep it ran."

03:50 — Her Climate Activism Years

Quote: "Activism became my meaning, my identity, my way to feel good about myself."

05:01 — COVID Breaks the Spell

Quote: "The world shut down and emissions fell only 5%. I thought—what exactly do they want from us?"

05:45 — Quietly Leaving the Movement

Quote: "I gave myself space to think for the first time in years."

06:49 — Going Public With New Beliefs

Quote: "I had to develop a stronger center of truth than the pushback waiting for me."

07:05 — How Brainwashing Happens

Quote: "I'd do anything to fit in — that's how the ideology hooks you."

09:28 — Re-Education & Books That Changed Her

Quote: "I wasn't deprogrammed overnight — I had to re-educate myself page by page."

10:17 — Can Universities Be Saved?

Quote: "Six billion dollars from Qatar changes what gets taught. Money goes a long way." — Polina

11:05 — Why Young People Hate the West

Quote: "America is imperfect — but exceptional. Most of the world can't tell their kids to 'follow your dreams.'"

12:43 — How Bad Ideas Spread Online

Quote: "You see a headline, you don't read the article, and your brain absorbs fear as fact."

16:49 — Losing Followers & Building a New Audience

Quote: "I lost thousands at first — then gained tens of thousands who actually want the truth."

19:35 — Friendships & Family After Changing Beliefs

Quote: "My real friends stayed. The ones who left were never real in the first place."

20:46 — Climate Activists → Free Palestine Movement

Quote: "It's the same psychological pattern: well-meaning young people taught a black-and-white story."

21:58 — Social Media Censorship

Quote: "In 2019, I would have been banned for simply asking questions."

23:12 — Climate Facts No One Teaches

Quote: "CO₂ is 0.04% of the atmosphere. How did I not know that after years covering climate?"

25:04 — When Activism Becomes a Religion

Quote: "There's a crisis of meaning — causes become the new church." — Yelena

26:51 — The Bigger Ideology Behind It

Quote: "I used to think 'Marxism' critiques were crazy. Now I see they were right."

27:33 — What Gives Her Hope

Quote: "When one person stands up, it creates a resonance that gives others permission to do the same."

30:23 — Mumdani, AOC & Democratic Socialists

Quote: "Feeling like a victim is a dead end — you can't build a life from that mindset."

33:11 — AOC's Brand Trap

Quote: "She never had space to change — her entire identity depends on that worldview."

34:09 — What Do We Do About Schools & Universities?

Quote: "It's time for new institutions — maybe even a Free Press University."

36:13 — Tucker, Candace & the New Far-Right

Quote: "Extremism on the right mirrors extremism on the left — it's the same loss of grounding."

39:01 — Why It's Hard to Push Back on the Right

Quote: "Not everyone stands on principle — the last two months showed us that clearly."

41:48 — Accountability vs. Blame

Quote: "Each side finds someone to blame. No one wants accountability." — Yelena

42:47 — John Fetterman's Example

Quote: "He hasn't moved — everyone else has." — Polina

43:22 — Where to Follow Lucy

Quote: "If you follow me anywhere, follow me on Instagram — it's where I speak most freely."

43:52 — Polina's Closing Reflection

Quote: "Wisdom is having the courage to say: I was wrong."

Leland Vittert, NewsNation's chief Washington anchor and author of the memoir Born Lucky, joins us to talk about his childhood, his career, and all the unexpected ways he truly was born lucky.

Despite years of bullying and difficulty navigating school as an autistic kid, Leland had one enormous blessing: parents who never gave up on him, never lowered the bar, and never stopped believing he was capable of a beautiful life. The devotion of Leland's father will melt your heart—and make you think about the millions of ways a child's life can be transformed through love, discipline, and grit.

Leland shares moving stories about how his dad refused to quit on him and modeled what character really looks like. We also dig into journalism—his time reporting from Jerusalem, the state of today's media, who to trust, what's broken, and what still gives him hope.

If you've ever felt different, misunderstood, or simply love a powerful father–son story, listen in. This episode will make you rethink what's possible.

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What happens when a no-nonsense entrepreneur decides she's had enough of California's chaos? Elaine Culotti has ideas politicians won't touch.

She is a fearless entrepreneur, farmer, real estate developer, and a potential candidate for governor of California. You may also know her as one of the business tycoons on Undercover Billionaire. In this conversation, Elaine shares her frustrations with California's government and bold ideas for tackling its toughest challenges.

Shaped by decades of experience in real estate, building businesses, and running her own farm, Elaine brings a no-nonsense, working-class perspective to politics. We cover Calforinia's challenges with wildfires, immigration, homelessness and crime.

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Our guest is Julie Smolyansky, CEO of Lifeway Foods, the company that pioneered the kefir market in America and today produces 95% of the kefir sold in the U.S.

Julie's story begins in 1976, when her parents immigrated from Kiev ( the former Soviet Union) to Chicago. Her mother opened a deli, while her father, a mechanical engineer, missed the kefir he had back in the Soviet Union so he started making his own, and from that, Lifeway Foods was born.

In 2002, tragedy struck. Julie's father, Michael Smolyansky, died suddenly of a heart attack. At just 27, Julie stepped into the CEO role, becoming the youngest female CEO of a publicly traded company.

Under her leadership, Lifeway expanded its product lines and grew internationally. Today, with revenues topping $200 million, Julie has proven herself a powerhouse CEO—while also raising two daughters, running marathons, reading voraciously, and giving back through philanthropy and community leadership.

This is the kind of conversation we love: a woman courageously living a full, multidimensional life.

In this episode, we cover her parents' immigrant journey, the rise of kefir in America, the science of gut health, and Lifeway's latest innovations, including kefir with collagen and creatine.

This conversation is about courage, resilience, and building a full life. We get into: ✨ Her family's immigrant journey from Kiev to Chicago ✨ How kefir conquered America ✨ The science of gut health ✨ Lifeway's bold new products (yes—kefir with collagen + creatine!)

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Charlie Kirk was a national treasure, known for his fearless commitment to open dialogue and free speech. We discuss why he was so important to us, and millions. While Charlie Kirk is irrereplacable, we hope his life inspires legions of people to courageously follow his path of upholding the foundational values and principles of the US.

As mothers and citizens rather than politicians, we talk about what it means to intuitively know how to keep families and communities safe, why Charlies represented us and why his loss is so devastating. While we did not agree with all of Charlie's positions, we understood that he was on the frontlines every days trying to ensure an American future based on its founding principles of life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. Before you believe the headlines calling Charlie a "Right Wing influencer" please remember that human progress has always required an openness to new ideas and information, while never forgetting the mistakes of the past.

So may Charlie's memory be a blessing. May he be forever in our hearts and in our minds. And may we all try to be better people. May we all learn how to have better discourse, how to hear one another, how to empathize with one another.

-Polina and Yelena

Brandy Shufutinsky is the newly appointed Director of the Education and National Security Program at the Foundation for Defense of Democracies. In this important conversation, we disciuss how today's ethnic studies curriculum, originally intended to promote understanding among diverse communities, is instead fueling division, promoting an oppressor-vs-oppressed worldview, and teaching students that capitalism is synonymous with white supremacy and exploitation.

Brandy brings deep expertise to this topic, holding a doctorate in International and Multicultural Education from the University of San Francisco, an MSW from USC, and an M.A. in International Relations from the University of San Diego.

Today, at least 22 states mandate ethnic studies in K–12 education, 24 more have incorporated elements of it, and California has made it a graduation requirement. Yet there are no national standards for what's being taught, and no real education on the dangers of communism, the importance of civics, or an emphasis on nurturing diverse opinions and critical thinking.

Brandy shares how you can get involved locally to push for rigorous standards, honest history, and an end to the ideological indoctrination in our classrooms. If we want to preserve a strong and free Republic, the way we educate the next generation must change.

Quotable Moments:

• "The ideology holds that I'm suffering from internalized oppression because I'm not willingly categorizing myself as part of the oppressed class."

• "If you are, or simply appear to be white, you're automatically put in the oppressor category."

• "We cannot have the Republic we have today with an ill-informed, miseducated next generation."

• "It's easy to be a communist when you're living in a capitalist society."

• "We need to teach civics and the benefits of our system, but we also have to teach the dangers of the other."

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If you enjoyed this episode, you may like these conversations:

• Rabbi Steve Leder, History, Faith , DEI, Ethics, Anxiety and Awe
• Sophia Khalifa, Bedouin Muslim Israeli Engineer Shares Why She Became an Acivitist for Israel
• Dumisani Washinton, Pastor, CEO and Author of Zionism and the Black Church
• Soviet Anti-Semitism with Izabala Tabarosky,
• Erin Molan Fearless Reporter and Advocate for Humanity

Stella Escobedo is an Emmy award winning news anchor-reporter with nearly 20 years experience, a fearless journalist and an advocate who immigrated to the U.S. from Uzbekistan. Stella is currently a news anchor for One American News (OAN). In this conversation, Stella shares how her upbringing shaped her values, her global perspective, and the causes of her disillusionment with mainstream media.

Journalism was always Stella's passion. but during the COVID-19 pandemic, something shifted. Stella began to question the media's silence on critical issues: the voices of parents during lockdowns, the integrity of the 2020 presidential election, and the dangerously skewed coverage of the Israel-Hamas conflict.

We discuss the deeply embedded bias against Israel in U.S. media and the painful, recurring truth that Jews are violently scapegoated in every generation. When serious issues arise, too many default to an intellectually lazy and ancient habit: blame the Jews, and deflect accountability.

This conversation is both a warning and a call to action. It's about truth, courage, and refusing to stay silent while history repeats itself.

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A few of our favorite quotes from this episode:

"If not me, then who?"

"I wanted to be a voice for the voiceless."

"The media completely ignored what we should have been able to have open conversations about."

"The indoctrination of their children must stop for peace to exist."

If you enjoyed this episode, you may like these conversations:

• Rabbi Steve Leder, History, Faith , DEI, Ethics, Anxiety and Awe
• Sophia Khalifa, Bedouin Muslim Israeli Engineer Shares Why She Became an Acivitist for Israel
• Dumisani Washinton, Pastor, CEO and Author of Zionism and the Black Church
• Soviet Anti-Semitism with Izabala Tabarosky,
• Arab Israeii Muslm Activist and Stanford MBA Sophia Khalifa
• Erin Molan Fearless Reporter and Advocate for Humanity

Timestamps:

• 12:53 - Why is there such a disparity in how things are reported
• 23:14 - Once jihadist attacks on the homeland begin en masse, much of America will blame Jews
• 28:13 - Stella, a moderate voice, has been pegged asan extremist
• 37:38 - The teachers union in California should watch the video from October 7
• 41:59 - In Gaza, this will not stop until the indoctrination of their children stops
• 44:51 - The state of journalism in this country
• 49:05 - Netflix, can you help us?

Karen McKinney was a prosecutor working in the gang unit when her path first crossed with Joseph Herrera, a man she would go on to prosecute for murder. Twenty years later, Karen faced Joseph when he was up for parole. Not exactly your classic "how we met" story. What no one could have predicted is that years later, the two would form an extraordinary friendship that would transform both of their lives.

Karen saw something in Joseph that defied his past, a capacity for growth, empathy, and leadership. With her encouragement, Joseph began using his lived experience to help others break the cycle of recidivism. Today, they can speak on the phone for hours at a time, and Karen occasionally joins Joseph's speaking events at prisons.

This story is a reminder that people are more than their worst mistakes, and that sometimes, the most unexpected connections are the ones that change everything.

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• I Put Him in Jail for 20 Years. Now We're Good Friends - Newsweek
• Washington Post
• Deep Dive with Karen McKinney & Joseph Herrera on Hard Conversations on Kelly Corrigan

If you're interested in powerful conversations on prison reform, don't miss our conversations with:

Humans of San Quentin Executive Director Diane Kahn

Jessca Jackson, Chief Advocacy Officer for Reform Alliance

Jane Mitchell from the Reform Alliance

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In this episode, we talk about the value of work with David Bahnsen, Managing Partner and Chief Investment Officer of The Bahnsen Group, a wealth management firm based in Newport Beach, California overseeing $4 billion in client's assets, David is also a thought leader, and author of Full-Time: Work and the Meaning of Life. David wants to challenge one of society's most accepted myths: that success means eventually not working.

David makes a bold, and deeply personal case for why work isn't just a way to earn a living, but a core part of living well. Drawing from his career in finance and his passion for theology, philosophy, and purpose, we discuss how our jobs can become our expressions of dignity, identity, and meaning.

David offers a different way of looking at work, especially for those feeling stuck or pressured to "have it all figured out."

Mic drop moments:

• "The dignity of work is completely egalitarian."
• "It is absolutely untrue that AI can ever replace virtue.
• "Work is the meaning of our life.
• "Human beings have a remarkable ability to really like being praised at what they do"
• "It is our responsibility to be producers, creators, and innovators."

Want to skip ahead? Just tap the timestamps to dive into specific sections:

• 02:44 - David's new book is called Full Time Work and the Meaning of Life
• 12:33 - Let's talk about the fallacy of retirement
• 18:12 - Very few people in finance like you are openly religious
• 20:02 - There's been a movement with colleges to glamorize socialism
• 29:14 - You can't win a primary being sane
• 37:08 - Why people should focus on what they're good at

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