#042 Trust Issues in Your Dom Sub Relationship? Here's How to Fix Them! Trust is the bedrock of any strong D/s dynamic. In this episode we're discussing essential principles for building and maintaining trust. Hear personal experiences and actionable tips to help strengthen trust and create a more fulfilling relationship. Don't miss the insights on regular check-ins, accountability, and the power of vulnerability. Let's make your dynamic more fulfilling and secure!

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#041 Ever feel overwhelmed by the world of BDSM and don't know where to start? Or maybe you've dipped your toes in and need some tips to level up your game? This episode's for you! We're breaking down everything from newbie basics to expert moves, making it super easy to follow. You'll get the lowdown on building skills, setting up boundaries, and finding your groove in the BDSM scene. Plus, explore advanced techniques and learn why you should always keep learning. Get ready to take your BDSM journey to the next level!

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#040 Ever feel like you're juggling your BDSM dynamic with your everyday vanilla life? Join host, Alesandra, as she shares her journey to harmonize work and family with BDSM desires. In this episode, learn practical tips and strategies such as setting boundaries, scheduling BDSM activities, and integrating subtle rituals into daily life. Discover how open communication and community support can help you achieve a fulfilling balance.

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#039: "Perfection is the enemy of progress in your BDSM journey." Join host, Alesandra, as she opens up about her personal struggle with perfectionism as a sub and its impact on her relationship. Discover how the pressure to be perfect can hold both Doms and subs back and learn practical tips to embrace imperfection, set realistic goals, and celebrate progress. We're also announcing our free 4-day boot camp, "Jumpstart Your BDSM Journey," complete with a private community forum, daily trainings, and coaching. Ready to conquer perfectionism? Click the links below for more insights on mastering your BDSM journey!

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#038: Can someone with a disability still live the BDSM lifestyle to the full? In this episode, we're diving deep into the world of disability, chronic illness, and kink. With growing awareness around health issues, we're sharing personal stories, practical tips, and the importance of inclusivity. Discover how communication, consent, and specialized tools can empower Dominants and submissives with disabilities. Let’s break the stigma and celebrate all abilities in our Dom/sub community!

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#037: Want to dive into degradation and humiliation with your partner but afraid you'll cross the line? Let's navigate these intense and thrilling aspects safely and confidently. In this episode, we're diving into the world of degradation and humiliation within BDSM. Learn the differences between degradation and humiliation, explore beginner to advanced ideas, and uncover essential tips for maintaining safety and consent. Plus, download a free master list of 50 creative degradation and humiliation ideas to spice up your play!

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#036: How do you balance being a parent and participating in a BDSM dynamic? In this episode, we're uncovering the delicate balance between parental duties and maintaining a Dom/sub relationship. Learn how to segregate roles, keep privacy intact, and educate your kids about consent and respect. Discover practical tips for managing impact scene noise, scheduling intimate moments, and fostering a positive family dynamic while ensuring healthy adult relationships.

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Ever wondered how to keep your kink life fresh and exciting? Let's uncover some secrets together! In this AMA episode, we're tackling your burning questions about scene improvement, avoiding burnout, and maintaining excitement in long-term BDSM relationships. Alesandra shares personal insights from her D/s partnership with Jay, tips on creating rituals, managing D/s dynamics while parenting, and strategies for integrating kink into everyday life. Exclusive tips include revamping your toy collection, exploring new environments, and harnessing the power of intentional rituals. Curious for more? Join the Dom Sub Living community so you can get your questions answered on our next AMA!

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#034: How do you balance being bi and submissive? In this episode, we're getting real about the ups and downs of being a bisexual sub while having a Dominant, male partner. We're tackling labels, biphobia, and how the BDSM and LGBTQ+ communities intersect. Plus, find out how a bi sub navigates her non-binary attractions and battles stereotypes. Don't miss out on this important conversation!

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#033: Is 'Safe, Sane, Consensual' still the gold standard in BDSM, or is it time for a change? We're diving into the ins and outs of communication in BDSM, the buzz around acronyms like RACK, PRICK, and CCCC, and why consent is non-negotiable. We're sharing our thoughts on using "ethical" and the importance of being informed about BDSM practices. Plus, we're spilling the details on what we personally use, and offering a free kink dictionary to help you out. Tune in and tell us—what's your go-to framework for BDSM?

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