The Down and Dirty Podcast

In part 2 of this conversation, the hosts discuss various aspects of being in a polyamorous relationship. They touch on topics such as event rules, vetting single males, the challenges of being in a quad, and the importance of clear boundaries and communication. They also emphasize the need for a strong foundation of trust and security in a polyamorous relationship. The conversation provides insights into the positive dynamics AND complexities of polyamory. They share personal stories about dealing with boundary violations and the challenges they have faced. They also emphasize the need for equal attention and validation for men in the lifestyle. The hosts provide tips on how to handle adversity and discuss the significance of dressing well and making an effort to attract others. They conclude by expressing their desire for equality and inclusivity in the lifestyle.

Feedback Survey:⁠Listener Feedback Survey⁠

Guest(s):⁠WhiteChocolate⁠

Hosts:⁠ RubyandFox⁠

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Producer:⁠ MrOpen⁠

Sponsor(s):⁠ CouplesNextDoor.com⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠and⁠⁠⁠ Seek, Discover, Connect (SDC)⁠⁠⁠

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The conversation is about an upcoming event called Glow Too, which is a mansion party with a glow-in-the-dark theme. The event is described as a fan favorite and has a unique atmosphere. The conversation covers various aspects of the event, including dress attire, changing rooms, registration, and rules for attendance. The hosts emphasize that the event is suitable for both experienced swingers and newcomers to the lifestyle.

Event Details:Glow Too Lingerie Mansion Soriee

Guest:Mr WhiteChocolate of WhiteChocolate Events

Host:MrOpen

The conversation revolves around the topic of polyamory and the experiences of the hosts in a throuple relationship. They discuss the challenges and dynamics of being in a throuple, including the importance of trust, communication, and maintaining emotional connections. They also touch on the differences between swinging and polyamory, and the various types of non-monogamous relationships within the umbrella term of polyamory. The conversation explores different relationship dynamics within the context of polyamory and throuples. The speakers discuss various labels and terms used in the polyamorous community, such as open relationships, closed relationships, hierarchical polyamory, and poly fidelity. They also touch on the challenges and dynamics of threesomes and orgies. The speakers share their personal experiences and offer advice for navigating polyamorous relationships. They mention some recommended resources, including books and blogs, for those interested in learning more about polyamory. The conversation concludes with a discussion on the importance of communication, trust, and being part of a supportive community.

Feedback Survey:Listener Feedback Survey

Guest(s):WhiteChocolate

Hosts:RubyandFox

Follow and DM the hosts:⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠

Producer:MrOpen

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Recorded in Sioux Falls, South Dakota with real couples attending the Eye Candy event on May 4, 2024. Couples from Minnesota, South Dakota, North Dakota, Iowa, and Nebraska!

This conversation explores the experiences and perspectives of multiple couples in the swinging lifestyle. Couples discuss how they got into swinging, their fantasies, and their journey of sexual exploration. They also touch on topics such as body confidence, the stigma around swinging, and the importance of open communication in a relationship. The conversation is light-hearted and humorous, with the couple sharing anecdotes and answering fun questions from Esther Perel's"Where Should We Begin"game. In this conversation, the hosts ask couples if they have any questions for them. Masturbation habits and preferences, sexual superpowers, and future plans to attend swinging parties were discussed. They also talk about their Enneagram types and guilty pleasures. The hosts share their wildest sexual experiences and discuss their favorite types of cheese.

Sponsored by: CouplesNextDoor.com

Hosted by: Ruby & Fox

Follow: Cali, Fox and Ruby onInstagram

Production/Editing by: The TA akaMrOpen

The TA announces a survey for listeners to provide feedback on the podcast. They also promote an upcoming event and offer a special membership deal. The conversation covers topics such as lifestyle preferences, event attendance, and the benefits of joining CouplesNextDoor.SURVEY LINK: https://forms.gle/hnAnsGJbKW9nZcbJ8PROMO CODE for 3 free months of membership to CouplesNextDoor.com for new members good for the month of May 2024 only: PODCAST524Produced/Edited by TA aka MrOpen

Guest: Lindsay akaFifthElement

In this episode, Ruby and Fox interview a licensed therapist, Lindsay, and discuss the Enneagram personality types and how they relate to the lifestyle. The Enneagram is a framework in human psychology and personality theory that consists of nine types of personalities. Each person has a unique Enneagram type, which is like a suit of armor that shapes the way you see the world and themselves. Each personality type is characterized by a combination of strengths, weaknesses, motivations, fears, and triggers. Understanding your Enneagram type can help you understand your core motivations and emotions, and can be a powerful tool for personal growth and self-awareness. It can also help in the lifestyle by improving communication and understanding between partners and other people in the community. This episode explores each type and how it may manifest in the lifestyle, as well as the importance of communication and self-awareness in the lifestyle. The role of emotions, particularly anger, is also discussed with their own experiences. Overall, the hosts and guest emphasize the value of understanding oneself and others in order to have a better experience in the lifestyle.

Online Enneagram Test:The Enneagram Personality Test

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Hosts: Follow Cali, Fox, and Ruby onInstagram.

Producer/Editor:Mr. Open aka Teachers Assistant (TA)

Guest: The Professor aka Mr. WhiteChocolate

This bonus episode of the Down and Dirty Podcast explores the White Chocolate Summer Nights event series exclusively found on couplesnextdoor.com. The hosts discuss the swinging seasons and the upcoming Little Black Dress event. They provide insights on attire suggestions for the event and discuss potential themes for future events. They also mention their upcoming attendance at the Eye Candy event in Sioux Falls. The episode concludes with a reminder to follow and support the podcast.

If you have suggestions or topics for future episodes, be sure to follow and DM Cali, Fox, and Ruby onInstagram.

Guest:FifthElementaka Lindsay, Licensed Therapist

In this conversation, Ruby, Lindsay, and Fox discuss love languages and how it interacts with experiences in the lifestyle. Ruby and Lindsay share their experiences and preferences with acts of service and words of affirmation and discuss how they can be applied in the lifestyle. They explore the different ways people express and receive love, focusing on acts of service, receiving gifts, physical touch, quality time, and words of affirmation. They share personal experiences and preferences within each love language, highlighting the importance of consent and understanding individual boundaries. Additionally, Fox discusses a communication technique called parroting, which involves repeating a portion of what someone says in an inquisitive tone to prompt them to elaborate. The technique can help improve communication and redirect conversations. The conversation emphasizes the need for thoughtfulness, consideration, and communication in building connections and creating meaningful experiences in the lifestyle.

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In this episode of the Down and Dirty Podcast, the hosts interview two couples who are new to the lifestyle. They discuss body language, flirting, favorite porn categories, and play fun games. The couples also share their experiences and answer questions about their swinger spouses. The episode ends with a catch-up session and random questions. In this episode, the hosts and guests discuss various topics related to open relationships and swinging. They explore attraction and fantasies, including the idea of couples being attracted to other couples. The conversation takes a playful turn as they imagine having a second penis and discuss their preferences. They also talk about go-go bags and must-have items for sexual adventures. The guests share their experiences with pegging, condoms, and the transition from soft swap to full swap. The conversation delves into kinkiness, safe words, and the importance of communication in relationships. They also touch on the benefits of cannabis and the significance of nutrition. The episode concludes with a quick-fire round of questions and a discussion on observing partners in the lifestyle.

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Guest Members:

• Jelly
• Grovecurious
• Mplscuriouscouple
• Afterglow
• openflow

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In this bonus episode, the Professor and the Queen provide updates and tips for the upcoming Mardi Gras event. They discuss changes in the event venue and the need for a BYOB policy on Friday night. They also emphasize the importance of knowing your alcohol limits and avoiding excessive drinking. The hosts share their favorite Mardi Gras memories and offer advice for first-time partygoers. They recommend bringing comfortable masks, extra sheets, and late-night food options. The episode concludes with information about the Viva Mardi Gras event and a preview of the upcoming season of the podcast.

Guests:WhiteChocolate