In this episode, we dive into a recentDear Prudence letter fromSlate, where a man claims he justcan’t find a woman—despite making little effort.

We unpack the entitlement behind statements like these, why some men feel relationships should fall into their laps, and how this mindset reflects a deeper misunderstanding of dating and connection. Is it really about “not finding anyone,” or is it about refusing to do the work? We also discuss how women can spot these red flags early and avoid wasting time on men with this attitude.

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