Episode #959

Ever feel like you're doing everything “right” but still not getting what you want—from your wife, your business, or even yourself?

In this episode, I sit down with Gary, known in The Powerful Man community as the Gentle Warrior. He opens up about how he went from being the classic “nice guy”—quiet, accommodating, but secretly frustrated—to a man who leads his life with purpose, clarity, and confidence.

This isn’t a story about a perfect turnaround. It’s about doing the real, messy work. Gary gets honest about the anger and shame he didn’t even know he was carrying, how he woke up to the truth of a marriage built on obligation, and why ending it was the most loving thing he could do for them both.

But the most powerful shift? He stopped trying to earn love—and started showing up as a man who already knows his worth. And that’s when everything changed.

We talk about what it’s like to be seen and respected by other men, how community accelerates growth, and why volunteering at the Alpha Reset hit him harder than his own Reset did. You’ll also hear the unexpected way he met the love of his life—when he wasn’t even looking.

In this episode, you’ll get a front-row seat to what it really looks like when a man stops hiding, owns his story, and finally takes the lead—not just in his relationship, but in every area of his life.

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