“Hope is believing in advance what can only be understood in reverse.”

These words have been the rally cry of my soul for over a decade now, but I didn’t come up with them myself. Philip Yancey did. This gentle, thoughtful writer has spent his career exploring the topic of suffering which, as you can imagine, has meant so much to me. Today I have the honor of sitting down with Philip to talk about some things that we can’t understand today, but trust we’ll understand some day. (Like his recent Parkinson’s diagnosis.)

This hour with Philip filled my soul, and I think it’ll do the same for you. Here’s what you can expect if you join us in the conversation:

• Why pain is not the enemy
• The most helpful definition of health I’ve heard yet
• We can receive God’s comfort, even when we don’t understand Him
• Stewarding the suffering we never wanted
• The best thing we can be for God to use us

If you need a compassionate, encouraging voice speaking into your suffering—whatever it may be—then this episode is for you!

Show Notes:

Where Is God When It Hurts by Philip Yancey - https://a.co/d/6xf3QxV

The Gift of Pain: Why We Hurt and What We Can Do About It by Philip Yancey and Dr. Paul Brand - https://a.co/d/3GapVr9

“Parkinson’s—The Gift I Didn’t Want” by Philip Yancey for Christianity Today - https://www.christianitytoday.com/2023/02/philip-yancey-ct-parkinsons-diagnosis-gift-i-didnt-want/

How Should We Then Live?: The Rise and Decline of Western Thought and Culture by Francis A. Schaeffer - https://a.co/d/f5H3bxk

Where the Light Fell: A Memoir by Philip Yancey - https://a.co/d/47InSUW

Scriptures referenced in this episode:

2 Corinthians 1:4

Romans 8

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Some of you will want to turn this episode off about three minutes in because we’re talking about deconstruction. I say this with love: skipping this episode would be a mistake! Whether you’ve never doubted your faith for a moment or you’re ready to burn it all down, today’s conversation has something so good for you. I guarantee it.

Having an out-of-the-blue stroke as a healthy 26 year-old and losing the life I loved so dearly pretty much cured me of pretending I had all the answers. Grief, heartbreak, and unmet expectations have a way of undoing the framework we have for reality—and that includes the way we understand God, the Bible, and our faith communities. 

Friends, on the other side of all my certainty I found something so much better. I learned mystery and doubt aren’t something to fear or feel ashamed about.

My guest is the remarkable Erin Hicks Moon. She’s an hysterically funny and incredibly poignant writer and podcaster who has become a beloved spokeswoman for those of us who are tired of pretending to have all the answers.

Here’s a preview of what we’ll get into:

• How to normalize doubt, rather than glamorize or villainize it
• Why faith has become synonymous with certainty
• How to parent kids when we don’t have all the answers about faith
• What do to when the Bible stops making sense

If you need to feel less alone and ashamed as you wrestle with your doubt, this episode is for you.

Show Notes:

I’ve Got Questions: The Spiritual Practice of Having It Out With God by Erin Moon - https://a.co/d/eqjrhLn

Meredith Ann Miller - https://www.instagram.com/meredithannemiller

Counterpoint series from Zondervan - https://zondervanacademic.com/products/category/counter-points

Good Soil: The Education of an Accidental Farmhand by Jeff Chu -https://a.co/d/1tXrmDU

The Faith Adjacent Podcast - https://faithadjacent.com/

Erin on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/erinhmoon

Erin on Substack - https://erinhmoon.substack.com/

Scriptures referenced in this episode:

Genesis 32:22-32

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Aging is a privilege and we should treat it like the gift it is. But the gift of aging comes with complex challenges and unavoidable sadnesses, like memory loss. If you’re caring for loved ones with Alzheimer’s or dementia—or if you’re facing a memory loss diagnosis yourself—I want to offer some encouragement and practical wisdom for you to navigate this tender experience as well as you can.

This week’s podcast guest is Alzheimer’s specialist Megan Carnarius, who is doing the hard and holy work of dignifying the experiences of people living with memory loss. I pray today’s conversation with Megan gives you fresh hope for your future and the futures of the ones you love.

Here’s just a preview of what Meg and I covered:

• Making every stage of aging as good as it can be
• Navigating the “hand-off” of independence
• Learning how to help the soul of our loved ones shine through
• Finding “fall out” blessings in life with memory loss
• Reframing our older years as an “Inner adventure”

If you need expert advice for navigating the realities of memory loss, this episode is for you.

Show Notes:

A Deeper Perspective on Alzheimer’s and Other Dementias: Practical Tools with Spiritual Insights by Megan Carnarius - https://a.co/d/dI1lbRs

Scriptures referenced in this episode:

2 Corinthians 4:16

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I’ve processed and shared countless insights from my second-chance life, but no idea has resonated more deeply and widely with you all than the idea of “invisible wheelchairs.” You know what I’m talking about—those unseen parts of our stories that feel like they’re holding us back from the most abundant versions of our lives.

Maybe your invisible wheelchair is shame, doubt, worry, loneliness, or insecurity. As a physically disabled person, I’m dealing with “invisible wheelchairs” that have absolutely nothing to do with my stroke. There’s plenty of dysfunction to go around (HA!) and I’m letting you into what feels most disabling to me these days.

On this episode, my teammate Caroline and I are working through the invisible wheelchairs in our own lives and the opportunities they offer us, if we have eyes to see them.

Tune into this episode to hear how you can…

Identify your invisible wheelchairs

Find creativity within your unique constraints

De-personalize and get curious about your invisible wheelchairs

Show up as the person you are today, not the one you thought you’d be

If you’ve needed language for the inside stuff that’s holding you back, this episode is for you!

Show Notes:

Suffer Strong: How to Survive Anything by Redefining Everything by Katherine and Jay Wolf - https://a.co/d/beOpiYd

Open Spaces Podcast with Jeff and Jourdan Johnson - https://www.theopenspacescollective.com/podcast

⁠⁠Mend Coffee and Goods⁠ - https://www.mendcoffee.org/

⁠⁠Hope Heals Camp⁠⁠ - https://hopeheals.com/camp

The Story Work Conference - https://theallendercenter.org/event/storyworkconference/

Make Sense of Your Story: Why Engaging Your Past with Kindness Changes Everything  by Adam Young - https://theallendercenter.org/event/storyworkconference/

Scriptures referenced in this episode:

Romans 12:!2

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“It's not so much our story that makes us who we are. It’s God’s story who makes us who we are.” 

Identity, for so many of us, is the sum of our memories, our personality, and the ability to tell the story of who we are. So what’s left when we lose all the things that make us who we are? 

John Swinton is a disability theologian who is helping people find God in the experiences of mental illness, memory loss, and intellectual disability. This gentle genius (with a glorious Scottish accent, I might add!) hangs out in the places where memory, identity, and disability meet. Turns out, there’s much to be learned about how to live and how to love from people experiencing mental challenges.

Dr. Swinton shared more profound thoughts in our hour together than most of us will have in a decade. You don’t want to miss his insights on...

• How do you live well when your mind is atypical
• Why hope and joy are a possibility, no matter what
• Dealing with the fear of losing your memory or cognition
• Finding flexibility and humility in the Christian faith
• What we have wrong about our relationship to time

If you want to believe there’s more of us beyond our memories and our minds—or if you want to hear my attempt at a Scottish accent!—then this episode is for you.

Show Notes:

Becoming Friends of Time: Disability, Timefullness, and Gentle Discipleship by Dr. John Swinton - https://a.co/d/fHyOjJW

Scriptures referenced in this episode:

Colossians 3:3

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Today I’m offering you a masterclass in grieving well. One day—maybe even today—you will look at your story and see the very thing you prayed you'd never see. You could numb out and absolutely no one would blame you. But you have another option. It's harder, but so much better.

Today, in my most tender conversation ever on The GoodHard Story Podcast, my strong-yet-soft sister-in-law Mary Austin Wolf Hall shares the treasures she's found in the deep darkness of a late term miscarriage. She’s faced her grief head-on as an act of faith and I’ve been changed by witnessing it.

Here’s a preview of what we’ll unpack:

• How we can prevent unprocessed grief
• What felt most comforting after her loss
• Finding the right proportions of mourning and distraction
• What to do when the platitudes don’t feel satisfying

If you want to face your grief head-on when the time comes, this episode is for you.

Friends, my conversation with Mary Austin will focus on late term miscarriage and infant loss. I pray God will use our words to encourage those of you who are ready to hear them. If this discussion doesn’t feel supportive to you today, please feel free to skip today’s episode.

Show Notes:

MEND Coffee and Goods: https://www.mendcoffee.com/

Treasures in the Dark: https://a.co/d/7JrkmFv

Dark Clouds Deep Mercy: Discovering the Grace of Lament by Mark Vroegop: https://a.co/d/bC8aXBN

Empty Arms: Hope and Support for Those Who Have Suffered a Miscarriage, Stillbirth, or Tubal Pregnancy by Pam Vredevelt: https://a.co/d/enkfvtb

Risen Motherhood Podcast Grief mini-series: https://www.risenmotherhood.com/grief

Scriptures referenced in this episode:

Job 42:10-13

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There's so much more to the story. For more messages of hope, free resources, and opportunities to connect with me, visit https://hopeheals.com/katherine.Follow me in Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hopeheals/⁠Subscribe to The GoodHard Story Podcast!Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/good-hard-story-podcast/id1496882479Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/0OYz6G9Q2tNNVOX9YSdmFb?si=043bd6b10a664bebWant a little hope in your inbox? ⁠⁠Sign up for the Hope Note⁠⁠, our twice-a-month digest of only the good stuff, like reflections from Katherine and a curated digest of the Internet’s most redemptive content: https://hopeheals.com/hopenoteGet to know us:⁠⁠Hope Heals⁠⁠: https://hopeheals.com/⁠⁠Hope Heals Camp⁠⁠: https://hopeheals.com/camp⁠⁠Mend Coffee⁠⁠: https://www.mendcoffee.org/Instagram⁠: https://www.instagram.com/hopeheals/

You’ll reckon with depression at some point in your life, if you haven’t already. Whether it’s seasonal, circumstantial, or a lifelong reality, it’s possible to “partner with God” as we navigate depression. 

I had the privilege of taking notes from the winsome and wise Hannah Brencher about the disciplines she’s putting into place to live faithfully with depression. Whether you’re dealing with darkness today or simply looking to optimize your mental wellness, this conversation is packed with practical tips and refreshing takes on caring for our minds and souls.

This is what’s waiting for you on this episode of The GoodHard Story Podcast:

• Building a battle plan for depression
• Reframing wrestling with God as intimacy with God
• Developing a soft heart and thick skin
• Quitting our addiction to distraction and numbing out

If you’re looking for trustworthy straight talk about being a person of faith living with depression, this episode is for you.

Show Notes:

Hannah Brencher on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/hannahbrencher

Scriptures referenced in this episode:

John 9

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Chronic pain is an (often) invisible form of suffering that can swallow someone whole—body, mind, and soul. Persistent pain is a daily reality for so many of us. It’s vitally important that we learn to cope and hope in healthy ways.

Today I'm speaking with Olivia Feller-Gerber. She’s an  author, entrepreneur, and advocate who has lived with the “invisible wheelchair” of chronic pain since she was a teenager. For those of us dealing with the felt-but-not-seen reality of chronic pain,  I want you to lock into this conversation. I’m praying it feels like a pep talk from God himself about holding onto hope when the pain just won’t stop.

Here’s what this conversation holds for you:

• Letting go of the story you thought you should have

• Living like a victor rather than a victim

• Rejecting our entitlement to health, comfort, and ease

• Facing a lifetime of pain with a “manna mindset”

• Supporting friends living with chronic pain

If life with chronic pain feels lonely and overwhelming, this episode is for you.

Show Notes:

Olivia Feller Gerber on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/letterstoholdhope/

Olivia’s website - https://www.letterstoholdhope.com/

Hold Hope: Encouragement for Christians with Chronic Pain by Olivia Feller - https://www.letterstoholdhope.com/holdhopebook

Ep. 85 - My New Way of Understanding Beauty with Brook Hensley - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/episode-85-my-new-way-of-understanding-beauty-with/id1496882479?i=1000689600342

Olivia’s conversation starters Instagram Reel - https://www.instagram.com/p/DFJJOXPpdHf/

Scriptures referenced in this episode:

2 Chronicles 20:21

Romans 8:28

Exodus 16

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I’m not gonna lie to you. Yes, my stroke set me free from cultural beauty standards in so many ways. But I do NOT have it all figured out. Strongholds and struggles remain. (Like the fact I obsessively highlight my hair every 8 weeks...) So I was a little intimated by this “Ask Me Anything” episode about beauty and body image. I feel like a fraud sometimes!

You showed up with honest questions, so I tried to show up with honest answers in return. And my teammate Leah joined in to add some of her signature, straight-talk wisdom—and it's SO refreshing!

You need to tune in to The GoodHard Story Podcast this week if you've asked yourself any of these questions:

• How do I learn to love a body that contributes to my suffering?
• What does God think of Botox? (My answer might surprise you!)
• How do I reckon with the reality of “pretty privilege?”
• Why do I let numbers on a scale determine my value?
• How can I rewire my brain from thinking habitual negative  thoughts?

If you’re looking for an honest, outside-the-box conversation on approaching beauty and body image with hopeful realism, this episode is for you!

Most of us have been told a lot of lies about beauty. We’ve been given the wrong story about what beauty is, why it matters, and who it belongs to.

Today I want to replace at least a few of those lies with five truths I uncovered when my outer appearance changed completely. These truths aren’t popular and they might even make you uncomfortable. (In fact, I kinda hope they do!) Facing these realities took me decades and a lot of heartache, but the pain has been worth the freedom I now feel from our culture’s ludicrous definition of beauty.

During our time together, I’ll share…

• Why beauty won’t get you what you actually want
• What happens when our priorities get out of order
• How sacrifice can lead to the truest beauty 
• What our fixation on beauty is actually trying to tell us

If you feel compelled to refresh and realign your beliefs around beauty, this episode is for you.

Show Notes:

Suffer Strong: How to Survive Anything by Redefining Everything by Katherine and Jay Wolf - https://a.co/d/hR7Yj4l

There's so much more to the story. For more messages of hope, free resources, and opportunities to connect with me, visit https://hopeheals.com/katherine.Follow me in Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hopeheals/⁠Subscribe to The GoodHard Story Podcast!Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/good-hard-story-podcast/id1496882479Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/0OYz6G9Q2tNNVOX9YSdmFb?si=043bd6b10a664bebWant a little hope in your inbox? ⁠⁠Sign up for the Hope Note⁠⁠, our twice-a-month digest of only the good stuff, like reflections from Katherine and a curated digest of the Internet’s most redemptive content: https://hopeheals.com/hopenoteGet to know us:⁠⁠Hope Heals⁠⁠: https://hopeheals.com/⁠⁠Hope Heals Camp⁠⁠: https://hopeheals.com/camp⁠⁠Mend Coffee⁠⁠: https://www.mendcoffee.org/Instagram⁠: https://www.instagram.com/hopeheals/