The house is so quiet.

If you’ve ever had that thought — and then immediately felt sadness, disorientation, or even shame — you’re not alone. In this episode, I share what it felt like to walk back into my home after dropping off my youngest son at college. The quiet was deafening. But what I realized is that it wasn’t just the absence of sound — it was the story I was telling myself about what that quiet meant.

I talk with so many moms parenting teens or navigating the early empty nest who are surprised by how disorienting this chapter feels. Even when we think we’re ready — even when the teen years were hard — the quiet that follows doesn’t always bring peace. Instead, it stirs up grief, fear, and deep questions about identity and purpose. In this episode, I explore why that is and how our mindset, left unchecked, can quietly fill the silence with self-doubt and regret.

You don’t have to rush to fill the quiet with busyness. And you don’t have to figure out your entire future today. But you do have the power to change what you make the quiet mean. And when you do that — when you let go, not just of your kids, but of the outdated stories about what makes you valuable — that’s when your next chapter really begins. 

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This empowering podcast offers life coaching for moms and parenting support for midlife mothers raising teens as they approach the empty nest, teaching them how to let go of control, stop overthinking, and shift their mindset, while also helping them set boundaries, improve communication, reduce anxiety, release mom guilt, and find purpose in the evolving journey of parenting teens and motherhood.