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Timestamps:

00:00:00 - Intro

00:01:21 - Biggest dating mistakes

00:02:05 - Why great guys struggle at dating

00:03:24 - Problem with dating apps

00:06:56 - What makes you a dating expert?

00:09:03 - Client demographics

00:10:23 - Biggest success story

00:11:12 - How her advice differs from men’s

00:14:09 - Ideal dating ages

00:15:52 - Long-term vs. short-term dating

00:18:52 - Sponsor - Rocket Money

00:20:17 - Shark Tank experience

00:23:24 - Is dating harder now?

00:26:50 - Matches per day

00:30:59 - Funny dating app stories

00:33:23 - Eye-catching profile tips

00:34:21 - Profile mistakes men make

00:37:31 - Sponsor - CleanMyMac

00:38:33 - How to share yourself online

00:40:18 - Bad opening lines

00:41:32 - Bad flirting

00:43:16 - How much to compliment

00:45:38 - Men vs. women psychology

00:46:40 - "High-value men"

00:48:06 - Improving your score with women

00:49:09 - Dad bods

00:51:45 - Texting advice

00:53:32 - Attracting the wrong type of woman

00:54:22 - Do nice cars help in dating?

00:57:22 - Short vs. long-term approaches

00:58:30 - Chivalry vs. equality

01:00:22 - Spending on first dates

01:01:36 - Downsides to being attractive

01:03:09 - Best way to approach someone

01:07:22 - Not being creepy

01:10:00 - Sponsor - Range Rover

01:11:27 - Sponsor - Range Rover

01:12:31 - Icks

01:13:18 - Serious dealbreakers

01:14:10 - Game - Ick, dealbreaker, red flag

01:16:25 - Questions to spot green flags

01:19:58 - Is being too direct bad?

01:20:53 - Body count & history

01:21:40 - Personal goals & dating

01:23:12 - Ghosting

01:25:39 - Dating profile audit

01:26:21 - Getting over a breakup

01:28:52 - Why situationships are common

01:29:59 - From dating to relationship

01:30:39 - Communication in dating

01:32:11 - Intimacy ceiling while dating around

01:33:03 - Relationship & income

01:33:47 - Advice for married couples

01:34:26 - Game - This or that

01:45:09 - Final advice

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