Beyond Success

The Importance & Art of Loafing: Gateway to Happiness & Fulfillment


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Are you an achiever? Do you dream about being the wealthiest person in your family and unlocking the best possible life? 

Well, you’re probably making a lethal mistake: 

Achievers put off their present enjoyment for future fulfillment. But when you do this, you get neither. 

In fact, laziness can help you tap into your natural flow state, attract love into your life, and experience joy every moment you’re awake. 

In this episode, I reveal how to cultivate your laziness so you can become happier. 

Listen to the episode now. 

Show Highlights Include:

  • The weird way being a lazy bum makes you happier, more fulfilled, and more successful (9:29) 
  • How your drive to achieve is a sneaky cope that suffocates your love life (10:09) 
  • The toxic belief ingrained into achievers which makes it impossible to find love and happiness (10:40) 
  • The “Fulfillment Formula” for detonating your destructive habits that repulse love (11:48) 
  • 3 major and proven ways to guarantee your fulfillment according to psychologists (13:42) 
  • The counterintuitive reason becoming stinkin’, filthy rich makes you miserable (13:52) 
  • The “State of Flow” secret for creating unlimited happiness in your life (and how to harness is by doing nothing) (19:42) 
  • Why approaching an intimate relationship like its a business is a surefire way to get dumped (37:11) 
  • How losing more than 3x your salary makes you happier and more fulfilled (39:11) 

Does your neediness, fear, or insecurity sabotage your success with women? Do you feel you may be unlovable? For more than 15 years, I've helped thousands of people find confidence, fulfillment, and loving relationships. And I can help you, too. I'm therapist and life coach David Tian, Ph.D. I invite you to check out my free Masterclasses on dating and relationships at https://www.davidtianphd.com/masterclass/ now.

For more about David Tian, go here:

https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/

Get access to all my current and future online coaching courses by applying for the Platinum Partnership program today at:

https://www.davidtianphd.com/platinum

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