It's not a nice thing to do, but it's something INFJs do to make sure the people in their lives are trustworthy and worth getting into a relationship with, be it a friendship, or a partner relationship.

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Why can't everyone be nice and just get along? That's the ideal world INFJs dream of. But the real world is not like that. People will be mean and take advantage of us, and we will have to show them up by standing for justice and smacking them down.

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Being an empath is touted as being such a gracious, divine, and beautiful gift. And it is. But it also has its shadow side, where it's exhausting, demeaning, degrading, and debilitating.

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Non-INFJs dating INFJs have a tendency to blame themselves when an INFJ goes cold or aloof or into their cave. But it has nothing to do with anyone else. It just has to do with the INFJ taking time to rejuvenate and recuperate themselves.

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INFJs use a tier system to describe their friendship circle, and it's quite fascinating to anyone who listens in from the outside. It's not typically how people view friendships, and it can definitely be confusing for a non-INFJ.

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INFJs will feel lost, empty, desolate, and completely out of touch with themselves and the world if they don't have a mission in life that they are working towards. It's a serious affliction for us.

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It's easy to keep postponing taking care of yourself because you are busy taking care of other people. But be careful, because you might go into empath burnout mode and feel so empty and exhausted, that you might not be able to give to others for a long while to come. Which is a terrible place to be in for an INFJ.

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If you think you will be all set and ready to date an INFJ in a matter of days or weeks, stop kidding yourself. INFJs move at glacial speeds when it comes to dating and relationships. We might be fast at other things, but we are slowpokes at relationships.

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It's so tempting to stay within negative self-talk mode because we think we did something wrong and deserve to be punished. But it's debilitating, and degrading, and you shouldn't do that yourself, INFJs. Not even for one minute.

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INFJs worry about committing to a relationship, because they worry about overwhelm. They worry about being overwhelmed by the emotions of the other person, the time and energy drain on them, and more.

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