The Messy Inbetween

We love that you guys trust us with what’s going on with your lives. this episode is all about that. We get quite a lot of dilemmas so we wanted to do an episode so we can help some Queenbetweeneers together. 

From dilemmas about boundaries to dating… we can all use a little advice in the messy inbetween.

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From childhood to adulthood, we have both been in nearly the same body sizes we are now and that has definitely affected how we go through life. From relationships, to confidence to our relationship with food and health. To the daily things that maybe none of us ever considered about the other. It was an enlightening conversation for both us. We may not represent the extreme of either size but we shed some light on how our bodies have affected our walk through life. 

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Sometimes for many reasons the passion in any relationship can deplete. You love each other but you’ve become a little disconnected. If that’s something you’re experiencing, we are here to help and so is Beducated!

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We also have some tips that could help get the spark back. From trying new hobbies together to writing love letters. Every situation will be different but some of these tips could be the start of rebuilding that passionate. What are some of the tips you think could rekindle a spark when the passion is gone ? Let’s chat in the comments.

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One of the most requested episodes!

Dating is already ghetto hood but having a child in the process adds another complexity. Murugi was a single mum for a while and Lydia was raised by a single mum. We each shared our views from those perspectives. How long should you wait to date? When is it okay to introduce someone to your kids? What are the great parts about dating as a single mum?

Single mums or children of single mums… what’s your dos and don’ts? Any tips that have helped ease the process ? Let’s chat in the comments.

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Deal breakers in relationships! I think it’s always very easy to say what would make you walk away until you’re faced with it. However, it’s good to have some sure limits in mind to safe guard you.

Cheating? Substance abuse? Intentionally leaking your nudes ? Tell me when it’s the one.😄 Everyone has their own and we are not judging. Most people proclaim their deal breakers publicly but kwa ground vitu ni different 👀 What are your deal breakers? Have you ever left someone for that? Let’s chat in the comments.

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The hype of the new year is over and maybe the year so isn’t as life changing as you hoped it would be. But it’s not over. it’s only just beginning.

If you’re in a rut, the idea is to hit refresh instead of giving up. We can all get a little run down but to ace the whole year, you need to pause, breathe and try again. Are you in rut? how’s your year so far? Let’s chat in the comments.

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This episode is sponsored by Netflix. Watch Bridgerton season 2 out now!

Bridgeton has the teaaaaa! Although it’s set hundreds of years ago we can see so many themes that still exist today which we definitely have an opinion about. From how there is still a double standard on hoeing - men are almost encouraged but woman are forbidden… have you seen that anywhere else!👀 Or how women have an expiry date when it comes to marriage but men don’t! You can see where we are going with this. Definitely watch the latest season so you join the conversation but you’ll still get it even if you havent. 

What do you think guys? Is life now still like Bridgeton ? #ABridgertonAffair #NetflixKenya

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Let’s chat about it sis! 

Men being vulnerable with us and the world is not the norm. Partly because of their own struggles but also we might play a part. If your man cries to you, how do you feel ? How do you react ? Do you hold space for him ? When he shows anger, how do you respond? 

The same way we say that we love it when our men hold space for us, men just might want the same hun. We sat down with the amazing Shiv Simani to unpack men’s vulnerability to the world and to their partners. He to the truth so hope you’re ready for it. 

Be honest, do you actively hold space for your partner to be vulnerable ? Let’s chat in the comments. 

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Relationships are made a lot harder by the amount of misconceptions we are fed. Every relationship is different so how are all the rules the same ?👀 We have probably left whole relationships because they didn’t match these “lies”.

So let’s unpack.. is there “the one?”, it real love easy? Is fighting wrong?? Sis, Issa lot. What we choose to believe definitely shape how you’re showing up to your relationships so at the very least, assess why you think what you do. What do you think? Are these true?

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It’s you we are talking to. Come back here!😂

Sex should be free and exactly how you want it to be but we can all agree that that there are some things that no partner is really enjoying. Eg - just laying there inactive. We wanted to share some DON’Ts during sex to remind us that we are active participants. We admit that we are guilty of some of these things ourselves but we are striving to do better. Which ones are you guilty of? Be honest. 👀

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