The Mom Hour

What does loving your children actually feel like? Is it a split-second, life-altering love like we hear about, or is it a deep background hum that builds over time? Is there a difference between loving our kids and loving the motherhood experience? Today Meagan and Sarah unpack motherly love, including our specific styles of showing love to – and receiving it from – our kids. Enjoy!

HELPFUL LINKS:

• Episodes From The Archives That Pair Well With This One:
• Speaking Our Kids’ Love Languages (And Knowing Our Own): Episode 296
• 10 Things We Love About Teenagers: Episode 449
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Let’s check in about clothes! As work-from-home moms in our forties, winter “fashion” is mostly about cozy comfort. Join Meagan and Sarah as we share what we’re wearing lately, including a surprising headache-related accessory, a total 180 on long-sleeved pajamas, and a bralette misfire. We also look to you, dear listener, to help us source some wardrobe pieces we’re in need of. Help us out!

HELPFUL LINKS:

• Meagan mentioned…
• the Bliss Triangle Bralette from Harper Wilde (we both have this bra, as well as the original Bliss)
• Wool leggings from Woolx
• Lands’ End Pajama Sets
• Sarah mentioned…
• Cloudsurfer shoes from On Running
• TheraICE Headache Relief Cap paired with a heat neck wrap for headaches
• leaning into secondhand cashmere and wool sweaters (we discussed Quince as a source for affordable cashmere)
• Sarah’s looking for sleep tank recommendations and a quick-dry sporty hat. Meagan wants a whole new look. Email us to help us out!
• More episodes on style and product recommendations
• Cozy Winter Style Inspiration: Episode 397
• More Than Mom: Fall Style Update

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You’ve been warned: raising teens can actually be…sort of wonderful. And also hard (but what season of motherhood isn’t?). Today Meagan and Sarah share what specific things we love about teenagers, from their thoughtful conversations to their little-kid-selves peeking out around every corner of their nearly-adult bodies. Along the way we share some recent stories about our own teenagers and what makes them great. Join us!

HELPFUL LINKS:

• 10 Things We Love…Episodes from the archives!
• 10 Things We Love About The 4th Trimester: Episode 280
• 10 Things We Love About Raising Siblings: Episode 248
• 10 Things We Love About Toddlers: Episode 243
• You can view the many reasons our listeners love teenagers in this post on our Mom Hour Listener Facebook Page.

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Overwhelmed? Tired of people suggesting you “just relax!” or “go easy on yourself!”? Wondering if you should be playing with your kids more? This episode is for you. In this classic replay from 2016, Meagan and Sarah answer a question from Sheena (mom to a four-year-old, a two-year-old, and an infant!) about how to make time for things that need to be done around the house AND still connect with her kids. We normalize feeling overwhelmed, offer concrete tips for staying reasonably caught up, and share our experience balancing expectations, reality, and good-enough productivity. Join us!

“Hi Sarah and Meagan, this is Sheena from Oregon, and I have two questions that both relate to time management. I have a 4-year-old, a 2-year-old and a 3-month-old and I’m finding that I’m always behind, and I’m wondering if you have any tips for how to get ahead? Also, how do you find time in the day to play? I find that I’m always just trying to get the kids busy so I can get on to my next task, and I never have time to just sit down and play. Thanks for your advice!”

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• We referenced Episode 10: We Hate Fun!
• Sarah still loves The Gift of Failure: How the Best Parents Learn to Let Go So Their Children Can Succeed by Jessica Lahey (this is an affiliate link)
• Other articles and episodes about time management and productivity

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Sarah’s family (with kids ages 15, 13, and 10) recently returned from their first big overseas travel adventure, and today we’re reflecting on her lessons learned. Taking the family across multiple time zones and out of the comforts of routine comes with challenges, to be sure, but also with opportunities for clarifying and crystalizing family culture in a way that’s harder to do at home. Join us to get all of Meagan’s questions answered and hear Sarah’s takeaways on the parenting lessons she’ll carry forward even after returning home.

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• Episodes That Pair Nicely With This One:
• Tips For Traveling With Teens (Meagan’s Florida Family Vacation)
• Family Travel Mishaps & Why We Go Anyway: Voices 76
• Real Moms Share Their Best Family Travel Advice: Episode 356
• House Rules For Travel And Vacation: Episode 319

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Keeping schedules aligned, staying on top of basic tidying, and managing endless loads of laundry are just a few of the household systems facing modern parents. In today’s episode, regular contributors Joanna and Sarah share their best hacks for keeping the household afloat during the little years. They talk everything from calendar systems to smart speakers, laundry shortcuts to robot vacuums – plus how to get kids to help around the house and where their systems could use a New Year reset. Enjoy!

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• Follow Joanna Martin on Instagram
• Follow Sarah Limberg on Instagram
• Kate Strickler, The Home Reset is a 14-part audio course to help guide you to reset different spaces in your home.
• Sarah and Joanna both love their Roborock vacuum.
• Sarah uses Todoist to organize tasks and reminders.
• A few episodes that pair nicely with this one:
• A Week Of Real-Life Housework (Part One): Episode 370
• A Week Of Real-Life Housework (Part Two): Episode 371
• Chores & Household Responsibilities: Episode 434
• House Rules For Tidying Up: Episode 413
• Podcasts Joanna and Sarah enjoy for household hack inspiration
• The Lazy Genius
• The Girl Next Door

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It’s a buzzword, and it’s not going anywhere, but what does “sustainability” even MEAN? Meagan and Sarah are here to discuss their personal interpretations, as well as the ways in which we’ve each moved toward more mindful consumption. We talk shopping, cleaner cleaning products, reducing consumables, simplifying how we eat, and more. We’re also very honest about the many ways we’re just not that sustainable – yet (or ever!). Happy New Year!

HELPFUL LINKS:

• Shout-out to Sarah’s local zero-waste boutique, Sunkissed Pantry!
• Meagan uses Beeswax Cloth in lieu of plastic wrap
• Sarah loves ThredUp and Lululemon Like New for online secondhand shopping
• You can find a Zero Waste Shop near you for household and personal items.
• We’d love to hear from you, on ways you plan to be sustainable in 2024

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Grab a warm beverage and settle in for an end-of-year books chat! Meagan and Sarah look back over our reading in 2023 to share what we’ve read, what stuck with us, and how our reading habits have continued to evolve. Meagan also shares an update about Paper Mill Books, the independent bookstore in the Upper Penninsula of Michigan that she helped open earlier this year. Join us – you may just find a new book or two to throw on your TBR pile for 2024!

HELPFUL LINKS:

• Meagan opened a bookstore in July 2023.
• Episodes from the archives about books and reading
• Sarah uses Goodreads to keep track of the books she reads (we hear great things about and The StoryGraph, too!)
• Sarah mentioned:
• Demon Copperhead by Barbara Kingsolver (highly recommend this interview with Kingsolver on The Ezra Klein Show after you finish the book!)
• Honor by Thrity Umrigar (Sarah previously loved The Space Between Us by the same author)
• We All Want Impossible Things by Catherine Newman (whose writing on Substack is delightful and who IS, technically, our friend)
• The Emotional Lives Of Teenagers by Dr. Lisa Damour (catch Dr. Damour’s chat with Meagan in this episode, and check out her podcast here)
• Meagan’s List of Books:
• Once Upon A River by Bonnie Jo Campbell
• Unraveling What I Learned About Life While Shearing Sheep, Dyeing Wool, and Making the World’s Ugliest Sweater by Peggy Orenstein
• Hey, Hun: Sales, Sisterhood, Supremacy And The Other Lies Behind Multilevel Marketing by Emily Paulson
• Major Pettigrew’s Last Stand by Helen Simonson
• Books We Have On Deck for 2024:
• The Art Of Gathering by Priya Parker
• Tomorrow and Tomorrow and Tomorrow by Sharma Vikes
• Tom Lake by Ann Patchet
• Meagan’s hosting a book club in her private community The Tea Circle. In 2024, they are reading The Comfort of Crows by Margaret Renkl.

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Is new parenthood better or worse today than it was 10 years ago? Meagan and Sarah dive deep into this question today, unpacking nuanced issues like tech solutions for age-old problems, the availability of information and solutions for every struggle, and the benefits and drawbacks of connecting online. The consensus? It’s complicted. Join us!

HELPFUL LINKS

• We referenced your comments in this Facebook Post throughout the episode
• Sarah mentioned The Girl Next Door Podcast episode Online Behavior For Grown Ups
• You might also like What’s New In Baby Gear & Baby Shower Registries: Voices 77 with Kia Hammond and Katherine DeVries
• Episodes from the archives about New Motherhood:
• Things We Shouldn’t Have Freaked Out About (As New Moms): Episode 19
• When Will This Get Easier?: Episode 435
• Things We Shouldn’t Have Freaked Out About (Breastfeeding Edition): Episode 114

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Tis’ the season to….feel the insane amount of pressure to be the “perfect” holiday mom. In this classic from the archives, Meagan and Sarah offer ever-relevant gut checks on some of the biggest pressures moms feel during the holiday season, and offer concrete tips for releasing yourself from expectations of perfection to enjoy what’s left of this holiday season. Join us!

Our holiday episodes often make brief mention of magical night visitors. If you have curious ears about, you’ve been warned!

HELPFUL LINKS

• Meagan referenced her embroidery hobby. Here are her tips for getting started.
• If making homemade teacher gifts really matter to you, check out How To Incorporate Handmade Gifts Into Your Holiday Giving and 6 Easy (We Promise!) Homemade Holiday Gifts You Can Make With Your Kids blogs are great for inspiration!
• The “What if I don’t?” question comes from Sarah’s conversation with Whitney Hawthorne in Time Management & Productivity Tips For Working Moms
• Meagan talked about her interview with Ashley Brown in this Voices episode.
• We referenced Meagan’s 25 day holiday pep talk blog from 2020.
• Episodes from the archives that pair well with this one:
• December Intentions For Busy Moms
• Moms Deserve A Magical Holiday, Too
• #Influenced: Episode 436

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