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Want to know the most important part of attraction for a long-lasting relationship? It's simple...but it's not necessarily easy. In this episode, Dr. Joe Beam breaks down what he has seen work in thousands of couples to build emotional attraction and create strong, healthy relationships.

When we examine emotional attraction in any established relationship, we think of this attraction in two types of actions: through things we stop doing, and by things we start doing.  Since we can’t build a relationship on what we’re not doing, it becomes more urgent to look at what we’re doing; how we’re providing for another person’s emotional needs. 

The golden rule, “Do to others as you’d like them to do to you” doesn’t always hold true in emotional attraction. We’re not made to need or want the same things. We are made to build others up according to their needs.

It Starts With Attraction Ep. 003: Keys to Emotional Attraction with Dr. Joe Beam

Today’s Speaker: Dr. Joe Beam 

Dr. Beam is an internationally known and respected sexologist and authority on love, marriage and sex. He received his PhD from the University of Sydney. He is the founder and chair of Marriage Helper based in Tennessee, just south of Nashville.

He has designed and developed courses, workshops, and seminars to help troubled marriages for over two decades. He has been seen on nationwide media and spoken to countless couples through live seminars, dedicated radio programs and books. 

Website: www.MarriageHelper.com
YouTube: Marriage Helper
Podcast: Marriage Helper Live
Books: The Art of Falling in Love

You’ll Learn

• Am I getting what I need emotionally
• How can I identify what my emotional needs are
• How can I change my feelings of resentment 
• When to put up a stop or C.O.R.E.
• Is my significant other demanding too much of me
• Are my emotional demands too much

Your Host: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement and Relationships


Kimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master's degree in psychology for over ten years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper & CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching how attraction affects relationships. Her videos, podcasts, and following reach over 500,000 people a month who are making changes and becoming the best they can be.

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