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Episode #924
What if the secret to deeper intimacy is something most men avoid—vulnerability? In this episode, Doug sits down with Gary, a long-time member of The Powerful Man, and his partner Heather, for a raw and honest conversation about what it really takes to create lasting trust and connection in a relationship. They dive into the challenges men face in expressing their true needs and desires, the importance of emotional safety for both partners, and how honesty—starting with yourself—can transform your relationship.
Heather shares how feeling emotionally "held" by a grounded partner changed her understanding of trust, while Gary opens up about shedding the "nice guy" persona to become a man who's both strong and open-hearted. From practical tools like the Yes/No/Maybe intimacy list to exploring why many men hide their feelings out of fear of rejection, this episode is packed with actionable insights to help you build a relationship where both partners feel seen, heard, and loved.
Whether you're struggling to communicate your needs or simply want to take your relationship to the next level, this episode offers real-world advice to help you show up more authentically in your life and partnership.
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By Tim Matthews & Doug Holt4.9
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Episode #924
What if the secret to deeper intimacy is something most men avoid—vulnerability? In this episode, Doug sits down with Gary, a long-time member of The Powerful Man, and his partner Heather, for a raw and honest conversation about what it really takes to create lasting trust and connection in a relationship. They dive into the challenges men face in expressing their true needs and desires, the importance of emotional safety for both partners, and how honesty—starting with yourself—can transform your relationship.
Heather shares how feeling emotionally "held" by a grounded partner changed her understanding of trust, while Gary opens up about shedding the "nice guy" persona to become a man who's both strong and open-hearted. From practical tools like the Yes/No/Maybe intimacy list to exploring why many men hide their feelings out of fear of rejection, this episode is packed with actionable insights to help you build a relationship where both partners feel seen, heard, and loved.
Whether you're struggling to communicate your needs or simply want to take your relationship to the next level, this episode offers real-world advice to help you show up more authentically in your life and partnership.
__________Hungry for more?
Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

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