We pull apart self-sabotage with honesty: why we protect ourselves from pain by shrinking our lives, and how discipline, vulnerability, and positive self-talk rebuild momentum. We cover coasting, perfectionism, money myths, cultural tone, and the moving goalpost that demands smarter habits.

• early lessons that prime self-sabotage
• procrastination, coasting and perfectionism as hidden traps
• nervous system patterns that mistake chaos for love
• vulnerability in career pivots and late starts
• inflation, compounding and why breaks are costly
• practical money frames and slow path to millionaire status
• culture, accents and protecting Blackness without erasing self
• audience-building by shipping imperfect work
• positive self-talk as a daily performance tool
• advice for boy moms on speaking life

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