Sense by Meg Faure

The Parenting Mirror: How Your Past Shapes Your Child's Future


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This week on Sense by Meg Faure, we are joined by the incredible parenting coach Ayanda Tetyana for a deep and inspiring conversation on intentional parenting. Ayanda argues that to raise resilient, respectful, and confident children, we must first look at ourselves. She introduces her powerful "Parenting Mirror" concept, a tool for self-reflection that helps parents understand how their own upbringing shapes their current parenting style.

Key discussion points include:

  • The Power of Intentionality: Moving from reactive parenting to a conscious, value-driven approach.
  • Future-Focused Parenting: Why you should parent the 25-year-old you want to raise, not just manage the 2-year-old in front of you.
  • Setting Boundaries with Love: How to establish firm, respectful boundaries around core values like chores and safety, without crushing your child's spirit.
  • Hearing Your Child's Voice: The importance of giving children the space to express themselves and why a child "challenging" you can be a sign of healthy development.
  • The Parenting Mirror: A practical tool to help you reflect on your past and break free from unhelpful intergenerational patterns.

This episode is a must-listen for any parent who wants to move beyond just surviving and start thriving with intention and purpose.

About Our Guest

Ayanda Tetyana is a renowned parenting coach, psychology student, and mother of two. Inspired by her own journey into motherhood, she has dedicated her career to helping parents become more intentional and reflective. Through her powerful "Parenting Mirror" tool and her work in schools and media, she empowers parents to break old cycles, set value-based boundaries, and raise confident, respectful children. You can find her on

Website: https://theparenttcoach.learnworlds.com/home, Instagram: @ayatheparentcoach and TikTok at @ayatheparentcoach

Episode References and Links

  • Find Ayanda Tetyana: on Instagram and TikTok @AyaTheParentCoach
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