Most men don’t realize that the patterns they see in their relationships almost always trace back to their core insecurities and emotional baggage. 

This may be hard to hear at first, but it’s actually an empowering approach to fixing unhealthy dating patterns. 

If you constantly find yourself stuck in a cycle of unsatisfying or unfulfilling relationships, instead of searching for quick fixes or dating advice on YouTube, reflect on how your internal psychology is sabotaging your relationships. 

For example, low self-worth and unresolved trauma actively work to rip your relationship apart from the inside out. 

However, the solution, while difficult, is also simple:

By first focusing on the relationship you have with yourself and addressing unresolved issues, you will naturally attract better partners, form deeper connections, and unlock a more fulfilling relationship. 

In this episode, you’ll discover how to confront these internal psychological problems and escape the cycle of unfulfilling relationships forever.

Listen now. 

Show Highlights Include:

• Why relying on quick fixes to heal your relationship and dating problems is a surefire way to live alone, isolated, and miserable (0:50) 
• The sneaky way your insecurities and emotional baggage seep into your relationship and sabotage it (1:17) 
• How to solve all your relationship and dating problems by focusing on the often-neglected “inner world” (3:12) 
• Do you think you’re unlucky in love? Well, here’s how your low self-worth manifests in your dating patterns (4:07)  
• The “Mirror Effect” in dating that explains how your emotions, insecurities, and life perspective influences your relationships (and how to attract better partners into your life) (7:42) 
• How your insecurities betray your relationship and makes your neediness scare away your partner (8:15) 
• The key to finally breaking unhealthy relationship patterns and building stronger connections (16:11) 
• 3 reasons why group therapeutic coaching can transform your fear of conflict into a deeply fulfilling relationship (18:48) 

Does your neediness, fear, or insecurity sabotage your success with women? Do you feel you may be unlovable? For more than 15 years, I’ve helped thousands of people find confidence, fulfillment, and loving relationships. And I can help you, too. I’m therapist and life coach David Tian, Ph.D. I invite you to take this quick quiz to access my free Masterclasses on dating and relationships at https://dtphd.com/quiz now.

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Emotional Mastery is David Tian’s step-by-step system to transform, regulate, and control your emotions... so that you can master yourself, your interactions with others, and your relationships... and live a life worth living. Learn more here:

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