The Single Spark with Chantelle the Coach (previously The Single Girl's Guide to Life)

Following the recent media coverage of Molly-Mae Hague's comments of "we all have the same 24 hours in a day", the topic of privilege has been brought to the forefront again. Taking many forms, privilege occurs in race, class, ability, wealth and one of the most obvious to single women, gender.

As a single woman, it's important to be mindful of the privileges you have and how they affect your relationships with others. While single women still face many social stigmas and stereotypes about being in our 30s and 40s without being married, there are also privileges we hold, as women or otherwise, and knowing about privilege and acting accordingly can make all the difference to the world.

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If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing community of other single ladies at https://single-life-be-like.mn.co/ and you'll get access to monthly zoom meetings, The Single Girls Book Club and more!

The Single Girl's Guide to Life was created by Chantelle Dyson. Please send your feedback and questions to Chantelle on Instagram,  join our online community for discussion and support, follow Chantelle on TikTok, keep up with the Single Life blog, and join us at a Single Girls Club event.

And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE  to stay up to date for future, weekly episode of single life living.

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RESOURCES:

- Download my FREE Dating Non-Negotiables Guide

- Visit the website: www.chantellethecoach.com

- Follow for more single life content on Instagram: @ChantelleTheCoach

- Follow me on TikTok: @ChantelleTheCoach

And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE to stay up to date for your weekly dose of The Single Spark.

AD | SUPPORT THE SHOW (by purchasing through my Amazon links!):

Check out my Amazon store for single life inspo products (think solo date nights, personal development books etc)

Looking for bargains? Visit Amazon Haul for discount products straight to your door!

** The links provided here are affiliate links through the Amazon Associate programme. Each time you purchase through those links, I get a kickback at no additonal cost to you. By doing so, you help fund the podcast and all the work done to support singles, without you having to spend extra pennies! **

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You are a single, independent woman. You live on your own terms and you do what feels right for you - because that’s who you are. You're a go-getter and you're ready to absolutely smash 2022. But a coulple of weeks into January, you may be finding that you're starting to cut corners here and there as you lose the #thatgirl energy you were originally channelling.

Chantelle has three practical tips to save you from slipping in your single life so that you can make 2022 the year of you and go after those goals with consistency, progress and success.



Like the show? I'd love to hear your review here! - Just a few words can make all the difference!

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If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing community of other single ladies at https://single-life-be-like.mn.co/ and you'll get access to monthly zoom meetings, The Single Girls Book Club and more!

The Single Girl's Guide to Life was created by Chantelle Dyson. Please send your feedback and questions to Chantelle on Instagram,  join our online community for discussion and support, follow Chantelle on TikTok, keep up with the Single Life blog, and join us at a Single Girls Club event.

And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE  to stay up to date for future, weekly episode of single life living.

FOLLOW: Instagram // Facebook // TikTok

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RESOURCES:

- Download my FREE Dating Non-Negotiables Guide

- Visit the website: www.chantellethecoach.com

- Follow for more single life content on Instagram: @ChantelleTheCoach

- Follow me on TikTok: @ChantelleTheCoach

And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE to stay up to date for your weekly dose of The Single Spark.

AD | SUPPORT THE SHOW (by purchasing through my Amazon links!):

Check out my Amazon store for single life inspo products (think solo date nights, personal development books etc)

Looking for bargains? Visit Amazon Haul for discount products straight to your door!

** The links provided here are affiliate links through the Amazon Associate programme. Each time you purchase through those links, I get a kickback at no additonal cost to you. By doing so, you help fund the podcast and all the work done to support singles, without you having to spend extra pennies! **

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Music from Ep 110 onwards by Kadien Music. Get your own podcast music here!
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life coaching for singles, how to be okay on you're own, overcoming loneliness, how to stop feeling lonely, single wo...

You want to be a single, independent woman. You want to live on your own terms and do what feels right for you - because that’s who you are. But how do you settle on that identity? How do you approach becoming that single, independent woman? And how do you get past the doubt and questioning of others?
Listen to this episode as Chantelle shares insight into how knowing your values can help you stay confident, happy, and independent throughout your life.

Discovering your values is part of the 1:1 Kickstart Your Single Life calls - a 1.5 hour deep dive into your current single life, the stories and beliefs you tell yourself and how you want to step forwards into your single life. You can book a Kickstarter call here!


Like the show? I'd love to hear your review here! - Just a few words can make all the difference!

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If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing community of other single ladies at https://single-life-be-like.mn.co/ and you'll get access to monthly zoom meetings, The Single Girls Book Club and more!

The Single Girl's Guide to Life was created by Chantelle Dyson. Please send your feedback and questions to Chantelle on Instagram,  join our online community for discussion and support, follow Chantelle on TikTok, keep up with the Single Life blog, and join us at a Single Girls Club event.

And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE  to stay up to date for future, weekly episode of single life living.

FOLLOW: Instagram // Facebook // TikTok

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RESOURCES:

- Download my FREE Dating Non-Negotiables Guide

- Visit the website: www.chantellethecoach.com

- Follow for more single life content on Instagram: @ChantelleTheCoach

- Follow me on TikTok: @ChantelleTheCoach

And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE to stay up to date for your weekly dose of The Single Spark.

AD | SUPPORT THE SHOW (by purchasing through my Amazon links!):

Check out my Amazon store for single life inspo products (think solo date nights, personal development books etc)

Looking for bargains? Visit Amazon Haul for discount products straight to your door!

** The links provided here are affiliate links through the Amazon Associate programme. Each time you purchase through those links, I get a kickback at no additonal cost to you. By doing so, you help fund the podcast and all the work done to support singles, without you having to spend extra pennies! **

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Music from Ep 110 onwards by Kadien Music. Get your own podcast music here!
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life coaching for singles, how to be okay on you're own, overcoming loneliness, how to stop feeling lonely, single wo...

In this week's episode, Chantelle shares the framework to making the most of single life in 2022. It's easy to get fixated on where we aren't yet, when we have so much opportunity to make the most of single life now. Celebrating the wins of 2021, and focussing ahead at the celebrations to come in 2022, allows you to focus on your best bits without letting the challenges bring you down.

You can try this 3 C framework as a way of celebrating your single life and making the most of 2022, the year of you as it comes at you and you can do it all with the help of Chantelle, The Single Girls Club community and committing to your self, your values and your goals.

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If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing community of other single ladies at https://single-life-be-like.mn.co/ and you'll get access to monthly zoom meetings, The Single Girls Book Club and more!

The Single Girl's Guide to Life was created by Chantelle Dyson. Please send your feedback and questions to Chantelle on Instagram,  join our online community for discussion and support, follow Chantelle on TikTok, keep up with the Single Life blog, and join us at a Single Girls Club event.

And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE  to stay up to date for future, weekly episode of single life living.

FOLLOW: Instagram // Facebook // TikTok

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RESOURCES:

- Download my FREE Dating Non-Negotiables Guide

- Visit the website: www.chantellethecoach.com

- Follow for more single life content on Instagram: @ChantelleTheCoach

- Follow me on TikTok: @ChantelleTheCoach

And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE to stay up to date for your weekly dose of The Single Spark.

AD | SUPPORT THE SHOW (by purchasing through my Amazon links!):

Check out my Amazon store for single life inspo products (think solo date nights, personal development books etc)

Looking for bargains? Visit Amazon Haul for discount products straight to your door!

** The links provided here are affiliate links through the Amazon Associate programme. Each time you purchase through those links, I get a kickback at no additonal cost to you. By doing so, you help fund the podcast and all the work done to support singles, without you having to spend extra pennies! **

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Music from Ep 110 onwards by Kadien Music. Get your own podcast music here!
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life coaching for singles, how to be okay on you're own, overcoming loneliness, how to stop feeling lonely, single wo...

For the single girls of 2021, it’s been a challenge and a half to get through the year. Starting with a UK lockdown, dating for singles has been limited and for the women living alone, there’s been another element to contend with.

But 2021 isn’t all bad. For every down, there is an up, and whilst COVID has been ongoing, Chantelle hasn’t let that pull down the single women of the world. With the start of The Single Girl’s Club, 2021 brought connection and friendship to the forefront and a community that could celebrate single life together.
And that’s not all for 2021, as Chantelle reflects on the single life lessons of 2021 and encourages you to reflect on your own lessons of the year.

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If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing community of other single ladies at https://single-life-be-like.mn.co/ and you'll get access to monthly zoom meetings, The Single Girls Book Club and more!

The Single Girl's Guide to Life was created by Chantelle Dyson. Please send your feedback and questions to Chantelle on Instagram,  join our online community for discussion and support, follow Chantelle on TikTok, keep up with the Single Life blog, and join us at a Single Girls Club event.

And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE  to stay up to date for future, weekly episode of single life living.

FOLLOW: Instagram // Facebook // TikTok

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RESOURCES:

- Download my FREE Dating Non-Negotiables Guide

- Visit the website: www.chantellethecoach.com

- Follow for more single life content on Instagram: @ChantelleTheCoach

- Follow me on TikTok: @ChantelleTheCoach

And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE to stay up to date for your weekly dose of The Single Spark.

AD | SUPPORT THE SHOW (by purchasing through my Amazon links!):

Check out my Amazon store for single life inspo products (think solo date nights, personal development books etc)

Looking for bargains? Visit Amazon Haul for discount products straight to your door!

** The links provided here are affiliate links through the Amazon Associate programme. Each time you purchase through those links, I get a kickback at no additonal cost to you. By doing so, you help fund the podcast and all the work done to support singles, without you having to spend extra pennies! **

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Music from Ep 110 onwards by Kadien Music. Get your own podcast music here!
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life coaching for singles, how to be okay on you're own, overcoming loneliness, how to stop feeling lonely, single wo...

What do you tell yourself each and every day about your single life?
Do you tell yourself you’re unloveable and that it’s never going to happen for you? Do you wonder if you’ll be lonely forever? Do you worry shout what will or won’t happen

These are all valid thoughts and feelings, particularly when we want something that we can’t control the outcome of.
But it’s also a burden to us emotionally to wake up every day with a pessimism that can affect the rest of our lives.

In today’s episode, Chantelle discusses the power of perspective in shifting your single mindset. To change the way you look at things and make the most of your single season!

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If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing community of other single ladies at https://single-life-be-like.mn.co/ and you'll get access to monthly zoom meetings, The Single Girls Book Club and more!

The Single Girl's Guide to Life was created by Chantelle Dyson. Please send your feedback and questions to Chantelle on Instagram,  join our online community for discussion and support, follow Chantelle on TikTok, keep up with the Single Life blog, and join us at a Single Girls Club event.

And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE  to stay up to date for future, weekly episode of single life living.

FOLLOW: Instagram // Facebook // TikTok

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RESOURCES:

- Download my FREE Dating Non-Negotiables Guide

- Visit the website: www.chantellethecoach.com

- Follow for more single life content on Instagram: @ChantelleTheCoach

- Follow me on TikTok: @ChantelleTheCoach

And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE to stay up to date for your weekly dose of The Single Spark.

AD | SUPPORT THE SHOW (by purchasing through my Amazon links!):

Check out my Amazon store for single life inspo products (think solo date nights, personal development books etc)

Looking for bargains? Visit Amazon Haul for discount products straight to your door!

** The links provided here are affiliate links through the Amazon Associate programme. Each time you purchase through those links, I get a kickback at no additonal cost to you. By doing so, you help fund the podcast and all the work done to support singles, without you having to spend extra pennies! **

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Music from Ep 110 onwards by Kadien Music. Get your own podcast music here!
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life coaching for singles, how to be okay on you're own, overcoming loneliness, how to stop feeling lonely, single wo...

New Year’s Resolutions are no joke. Sure, you can commit to a diet or an exercise routine. But what about creating a new habit? What habits should you make a priority in the New Year?
The most successful people on the planet all have one thing in common: they create habits that will help them achieve their goals. It's not about eating right and exercising for a couple of weeks – it's about developing lasting changes that will stick with you forever. If you're ready to take your life to the next level, then listen up!

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If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing community of other single ladies at https://single-life-be-like.mn.co/ and you'll get access to monthly zoom meetings, The Single Girls Book Club and more!

The Single Girl's Guide to Life was created by Chantelle Dyson. Please send your feedback and questions to Chantelle on Instagram,  join our online community for discussion and support, follow Chantelle on TikTok, keep up with the Single Life blog, and join us at a Single Girls Club event.

And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE  to stay up to date for future, weekly episode of single life living.

FOLLOW: Instagram // Facebook // TikTok

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RESOURCES:

- Download my FREE Dating Non-Negotiables Guide

- Visit the website: www.chantellethecoach.com

- Follow for more single life content on Instagram: @ChantelleTheCoach

- Follow me on TikTok: @ChantelleTheCoach

And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE to stay up to date for your weekly dose of The Single Spark.

AD | SUPPORT THE SHOW (by purchasing through my Amazon links!):

Check out my Amazon store for single life inspo products (think solo date nights, personal development books etc)

Looking for bargains? Visit Amazon Haul for discount products straight to your door!

** The links provided here are affiliate links through the Amazon Associate programme. Each time you purchase through those links, I get a kickback at no additonal cost to you. By doing so, you help fund the podcast and all the work done to support singles, without you having to spend extra pennies! **

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Music from Ep 110 onwards by Kadien Music. Get your own podcast music here!
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life coaching for singles, how to be okay on you're own, overcoming loneliness, how to stop feeling lonely, single wo...

Are you #TeamSummer or #TeamTom? Back in 2009, you might’ve found yourself hating Summer for what she did to Tom in the classic “this is not a love story” of 500 Days of Summer.

Tom desperately wants to be with Summer but whilst she’s happy to spend time with him, she’s not all too keen on a relationship. And this makes the film a perfect discussion point for lessons to be learned when being single and navigating the dating world.

From attachment styles, to clear communication, Chantelle discusses the single life lessons learned from 500 Days of Summer, including the importance of being honest with yourself and really listening to what’s going on!

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If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing community of other single ladies at https://single-life-be-like.mn.co/ and you'll get access to monthly zoom meetings, The Single Girls Book Club and more!

The Single Girl's Guide to Life was created by Chantelle Dyson. Please send your feedback and questions to Chantelle on Instagram,  join our online community for discussion and support, follow Chantelle on TikTok, keep up with the Single Life blog, and join us at a Single Girls Club event.

And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE  to stay up to date for future, weekly episode of single life living.

FOLLOW: Instagram // Facebook // TikTok

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RESOURCES:

- Download my FREE Dating Non-Negotiables Guide

- Visit the website: www.chantellethecoach.com

- Follow for more single life content on Instagram: @ChantelleTheCoach

- Follow me on TikTok: @ChantelleTheCoach

And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE to stay up to date for your weekly dose of The Single Spark.

AD | SUPPORT THE SHOW (by purchasing through my Amazon links!):

Check out my Amazon store for single life inspo products (think solo date nights, personal development books etc)

Looking for bargains? Visit Amazon Haul for discount products straight to your door!

** The links provided here are affiliate links through the Amazon Associate programme. Each time you purchase through those links, I get a kickback at no additonal cost to you. By doing so, you help fund the podcast and all the work done to support singles, without you having to spend extra pennies! **

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Music from Ep 110 onwards by Kadien Music. Get your own podcast music here!
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life coaching for singles, how to be okay on you're own, overcoming loneliness, how to stop feeling lonely, single wo...

It’s easy to think negatively of single life. To compare yourself to others in relationships, feel like it’s never going to happen for you and feel sad and deflated by it.

But there’s a truth to changing your thoughts changing your reality. Our minds are powerful things and our brains can’t tell the difference between the truth and what we make up. If you continue to tell yourself you’re sad about being single, you’ll believe it. The same goes for if you repeat thoughts on how unloveable you are.

And this is why mindset has such an impact. It can’t fix every aspect of your life, but I can set you up to see things from a new perspective so that you can let go and focus on enjoying your single life right now.

In this week’s episode, Chantelle discusses the power of mindset and how to start adopting the mindset to get you through your single life.

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If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing community of other single ladies at https://single-life-be-like.mn.co/ and you'll get access to monthly zoom meetings, The Single Girls Book Club and more!

The Single Girl's Guide to Life was created by Chantelle Dyson. Please send your feedback and questions to Chantelle on Instagram,  join our online community for discussion and support, follow Chantelle on TikTok, keep up with the Single Life blog, and join us at a Single Girls Club event.

And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE  to stay up to date for future, weekly episode of single life living.

FOLLOW: Instagram // Facebook // TikTok

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RESOURCES:

- Download my FREE Dating Non-Negotiables Guide

- Visit the website: www.chantellethecoach.com

- Follow for more single life content on Instagram: @ChantelleTheCoach

- Follow me on TikTok: @ChantelleTheCoach

And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE to stay up to date for your weekly dose of The Single Spark.

AD | SUPPORT THE SHOW (by purchasing through my Amazon links!):

Check out my Amazon store for single life inspo products (think solo date nights, personal development books etc)

Looking for bargains? Visit Amazon Haul for discount products straight to your door!

** The links provided here are affiliate links through the Amazon Associate programme. Each time you purchase through those links, I get a kickback at no additonal cost to you. By doing so, you help fund the podcast and all the work done to support singles, without you having to spend extra pennies! **

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Music from Ep 110 onwards by Kadien Music. Get your own podcast music here!
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life coaching for singles, how to be okay on you're own, overcoming loneliness, how to stop feeling lonely, single wo...

There's only six weeks left of 2021, so it's time to start thinking about how you can make 2022 the year of YOU.

The New Year is a time to reflect on the past and plan for the future. This year, why not focus your energy on yourself?

As we enter into a new year it can be easy to set goals but more often than not they don't last long.

In this episode, I set you off with starting to think about 2022. What it is you want, and how these past few years have been.

It's time to move past the pandemic of 2020 and 2021, and start mentalling preparing for 2022, to make it the YEAR OF YOU.

BUY The 2022: Year of You Journal on Amazon Now

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If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing community of other single ladies at https://single-life-be-like.mn.co/ and you'll get access to monthly zoom meetings, The Single Girls Book Club and more!

The Single Girl's Guide to Life was created by Chantelle Dyson. Please send your feedback and questions to Chantelle on Instagram,  join our online community for discussion and support, follow Chantelle on TikTok, keep up with the Single Life blog, and join us at a Single Girls Club event.

And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE  to stay up to date for future, weekly episode of single life living.

FOLLOW: Instagram // Facebook // TikTok

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RESOURCES:

- Download my FREE Dating Non-Negotiables Guide

- Visit the website: www.chantellethecoach.com

- Follow for more single life content on Instagram: @ChantelleTheCoach

- Follow me on TikTok: @ChantelleTheCoach

And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE to stay up to date for your weekly dose of The Single Spark.

AD | SUPPORT THE SHOW (by purchasing through my Amazon links!):

Check out my Amazon store for single life inspo products (think solo date nights, personal development books etc)

Looking for bargains? Visit Amazon Haul for discount products straight to your door!

** The links provided here are affiliate links through the Amazon Associate programme. Each time you purchase through those links, I get a kickback at no additonal cost to you. By doing so, you help fund the podcast and all the work done to support singles, without you having to spend extra pennies! **

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Music from Ep 110 onwards by Kadien Music. Get your own podcast music here!
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life coaching for singles, how to be okay on you're own, overcoming loneliness, how to stop feeling lonely, single wo...