The Single Spark with Chantelle the Coach (previously The Single Girl's Guide to Life)

Break ups are never easy, but it's how you get over your ex that really determines what type of person you are. It can be hard to deal with feelings of doubt and insecurity that come after a romantic relationship has ended, when your hopes and dreams are shattered into a million pieces.
Your mind is in a state of confusion, unable to understand why the person who was so dear to your heart left without telling you anything. You feel like dying because you don't know how to go on living without them, and it can feel impossible to shake off your exes and move on from what happened.

If you find yourself going through a similar phase right now, here's how to approach getting through a break up through grieving, self-compassion and mindset, as Chantelle discusses in this weeks episode.

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If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing community of other single ladies at https://single-life-be-like.mn.co/ and you'll get access to monthly zoom meetings, The Single Girls Book Club and more!

The Single Girl's Guide to Life was created by Chantelle Dyson. Please send your feedback and questions to Chantelle on Instagram,  join our online community for discussion and support, follow Chantelle on TikTok, keep up with the Single Life blog, and join us at a Single Girls Club event.

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RESOURCES:

- Download my FREE Dating Non-Negotiables Guide

- Visit the website: www.chantellethecoach.com

- Follow for more single life content on Instagram: @ChantelleTheCoach

- Follow me on TikTok: @ChantelleTheCoach

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Being single at Christmas can SUCK. If you're worried about being alone at Christmas or having to deal with the same old questions from distant family members about "how your love life is going?", then you'll want to listen to this episode of The Single Girl's Guide to Life.

Christmas day is just as much your day to enjoy as anyone else's. If you want to spend Christmas differently now that you're single and free, then do it your way and make the most of it! You might not be single forever and this is your opportunity.

During the run-up to Christmas throughout December, you can join in with the Single Life Self Care advent calendar, running on in The Single Girl's Club! Head here to sign up NOW!

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If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing community of other single ladies at https://single-life-be-like.mn.co/ and you'll get access to monthly zoom meetings, The Single Girls Book Club and more!

The Single Girl's Guide to Life was created by Chantelle Dyson. Please send your feedback and questions to Chantelle on Instagram,  join our online community for discussion and support, follow Chantelle on TikTok, keep up with the Single Life blog, and join us at a Single Girls Club event.

And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE  to stay up to date for future, weekly episode of single life living.

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RESOURCES:

- Download my FREE Dating Non-Negotiables Guide

- Visit the website: www.chantellethecoach.com

- Follow for more single life content on Instagram: @ChantelleTheCoach

- Follow me on TikTok: @ChantelleTheCoach

And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE to stay up to date for your weekly dose of The Single Spark.

AD | SUPPORT THE SHOW (by purchasing through my Amazon links!):

Check out my Amazon store for single life inspo products (think solo date nights, personal development books etc)

Looking for bargains? Visit Amazon Haul for discount products straight to your door!

** The links provided here are affiliate links through the Amazon Associate programme. Each time you purchase through those links, I get a kickback at no additonal cost to you. By doing so, you help fund the podcast and all the work done to support singles, without you having to spend extra pennies! **

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Music from Ep 110 onwards by Kadien Music. Get your own podcast music here!
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Why is it so difficult to tell somebody "no"? Whether you squirm at the thought of it or just think you say it too bluntly, saying "no" is a necessary part of our lives, and particualrly so when you have to stand up for yourself when you're single.

In this week’s episode of The Single Girl’s Guide to Life, Chantelle discusses why you HAVE to learn to say no and some strategies for building your confidence doing so.

Whether it’s saying no to taking on more work, or no to a social invite, it’s time to put your big girl knickers on and try to do something a little challenging this week!

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If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing community of other single ladies at https://single-life-be-like.mn.co/ and you'll get access to monthly zoom meetings, The Single Girls Book Club and more!

The Single Girl's Guide to Life was created by Chantelle Dyson. Please send your feedback and questions to Chantelle on Instagram,  join our online community for discussion and support, follow Chantelle on TikTok, keep up with the Single Life blog, and join us at a Single Girls Club event.

And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE  to stay up to date for future, weekly episode of single life living.

FOLLOW: Instagram // Facebook // TikTok

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RESOURCES:

- Download my FREE Dating Non-Negotiables Guide

- Visit the website: www.chantellethecoach.com

- Follow for more single life content on Instagram: @ChantelleTheCoach

- Follow me on TikTok: @ChantelleTheCoach

And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE to stay up to date for your weekly dose of The Single Spark.

AD | SUPPORT THE SHOW (by purchasing through my Amazon links!):

Check out my Amazon store for single life inspo products (think solo date nights, personal development books etc)

Looking for bargains? Visit Amazon Haul for discount products straight to your door!

** The links provided here are affiliate links through the Amazon Associate programme. Each time you purchase through those links, I get a kickback at no additonal cost to you. By doing so, you help fund the podcast and all the work done to support singles, without you having to spend extra pennies! **

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Music from Ep 110 onwards by Kadien Music. Get your own podcast music here!
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You've heard of a mid-life crisis, but have you heard of a quarter-life crisis?

Well it is truly a THING! After going through my own life change through divorce, moving back home to live with my parents, it was clear I was experiencing a Quarter Life crisis. But I didn't know it at the time.

Whether you're going through a quarter-life crisis now or reflecting on the time in your life that you might've been, this episode of The Single Girl's Guide to life discusses some of the defining features of a Quarter Life Crisis and how to look at the time optimistically, to give you hope for the future and all that a quarter life crisis can bring.

References: Dr Oliver Robinson, Turning Quarter Life Crisis into Opportunity (YouTube Video)

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If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing community of other single ladies at https://single-life-be-like.mn.co/ and you'll get access to monthly zoom meetings, The Single Girls Book Club and more!

The Single Girl's Guide to Life was created by Chantelle Dyson. Please send your feedback and questions to Chantelle on Instagram,  join our online community for discussion and support, follow Chantelle on TikTok, keep up with the Single Life blog, and join us at a Single Girls Club event.

And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE  to stay up to date for future, weekly episode of single life living.

FOLLOW: Instagram // Facebook // TikTok

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RESOURCES:

- Download my FREE Dating Non-Negotiables Guide

- Visit the website: www.chantellethecoach.com

- Follow for more single life content on Instagram: @ChantelleTheCoach

- Follow me on TikTok: @ChantelleTheCoach

And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE to stay up to date for your weekly dose of The Single Spark.

AD | SUPPORT THE SHOW (by purchasing through my Amazon links!):

Check out my Amazon store for single life inspo products (think solo date nights, personal development books etc)

Looking for bargains? Visit Amazon Haul for discount products straight to your door!

** The links provided here are affiliate links through the Amazon Associate programme. Each time you purchase through those links, I get a kickback at no additonal cost to you. By doing so, you help fund the podcast and all the work done to support singles, without you having to spend extra pennies! **

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Music from Ep 110 onwards by Kadien Music. Get your own podcast music here!
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Heartbreak leads to greif, disappointment, despair, loss and confusion. What we once thought might be forever shatters in front of us and it's no longer anything, never to be the same again. Healing through heartbreak is hard work. As cliché as it sounds, time is a healer too. But you can help yourself to heal through the heartbreak by journalling.

Journalling involves expressing yourself, getting your thoughts and feelings out of your system and on to paper. It makes your feelings a reality, and one in which you start to document, dig and explore the feelings and how you move on from heartbreak.

In this episode of The Single Girl's Guide to Life, Chantelle discusses why journalling can be help you to process a break up and heal after divorce. Techniques and approaches are discussed as well as the benefits to why journalling might work for you.

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If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing community of other single ladies at https://single-life-be-like.mn.co/ and you'll get access to monthly zoom meetings, The Single Girls Book Club and more!

The Single Girl's Guide to Life was created by Chantelle Dyson. Please send your feedback and questions to Chantelle on Instagram,  join our online community for discussion and support, follow Chantelle on TikTok, keep up with the Single Life blog, and join us at a Single Girls Club event.

And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE  to stay up to date for future, weekly episode of single life living.

FOLLOW: Instagram // Facebook // TikTok

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RESOURCES:

- Download my FREE Dating Non-Negotiables Guide

- Visit the website: www.chantellethecoach.com

- Follow for more single life content on Instagram: @ChantelleTheCoach

- Follow me on TikTok: @ChantelleTheCoach

And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE to stay up to date for your weekly dose of The Single Spark.

AD | SUPPORT THE SHOW (by purchasing through my Amazon links!):

Check out my Amazon store for single life inspo products (think solo date nights, personal development books etc)

Looking for bargains? Visit Amazon Haul for discount products straight to your door!

** The links provided here are affiliate links through the Amazon Associate programme. Each time you purchase through those links, I get a kickback at no additonal cost to you. By doing so, you help fund the podcast and all the work done to support singles, without you having to spend extra pennies! **

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Music from Ep 110 onwards by Kadien Music. Get your own podcast music here!
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Have you ever asked yourself if you really want a relationship? Or even “why do I want a relationship?”.

Our upbringing shapes our wants and desires. So does media, and all the stories we’re told. It can sometimes feel like we’re chasing this dream, but if it turns out it’s not actually your dream and isn’t aligned with your values and what you really want, you can end up feeling confused and deflated.

Thai week, Chantelle explores how to navigate this question, helping you to reflect on why you might want a relationship and if it’s really the right thing for you.

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If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing community of other single ladies at https://single-life-be-like.mn.co/ and you'll get access to monthly zoom meetings, The Single Girls Book Club and more!

The Single Girl's Guide to Life was created by Chantelle Dyson. Please send your feedback and questions to Chantelle on Instagram,  join our online community for discussion and support, follow Chantelle on TikTok, keep up with the Single Life blog, and join us at a Single Girls Club event.

And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE  to stay up to date for future, weekly episode of single life living.

FOLLOW: Instagram // Facebook // TikTok

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RESOURCES:

- Download my FREE Dating Non-Negotiables Guide

- Visit the website: www.chantellethecoach.com

- Follow for more single life content on Instagram: @ChantelleTheCoach

- Follow me on TikTok: @ChantelleTheCoach

And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE to stay up to date for your weekly dose of The Single Spark.

AD | SUPPORT THE SHOW (by purchasing through my Amazon links!):

Check out my Amazon store for single life inspo products (think solo date nights, personal development books etc)

Looking for bargains? Visit Amazon Haul for discount products straight to your door!

** The links provided here are affiliate links through the Amazon Associate programme. Each time you purchase through those links, I get a kickback at no additonal cost to you. By doing so, you help fund the podcast and all the work done to support singles, without you having to spend extra pennies! **

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Music from Ep 110 onwards by Kadien Music. Get your own podcast music here!
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Going on a solo road trip alone can feel scary. But there’s reasons why, despite the scariness, that it can be the most AMAZING experience, and this episode discusses why.

From the recent solo road trip of the UK over Summer, Chantelle shares her experiences and the value gained from the trip. A holiday away with someone will never go a-miss for a single person, but knowing how much you gain from doing at least one trip alone can unlock the potential in yourself to come out as a confident person the other side, that knows their worth and believes in their self! 

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If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing community of other single ladies at https://single-life-be-like.mn.co/ and you'll get access to monthly zoom meetings, The Single Girls Book Club and more!

The Single Girl's Guide to Life was created by Chantelle Dyson. Please send your feedback and questions to Chantelle on Instagram,  join our online community for discussion and support, follow Chantelle on TikTok, keep up with the Single Life blog, and join us at a Single Girls Club event.

And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE  to stay up to date for future, weekly episode of single life living.

FOLLOW: Instagram // Facebook // TikTok

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RESOURCES:

- Download my FREE Dating Non-Negotiables Guide

- Visit the website: www.chantellethecoach.com

- Follow for more single life content on Instagram: @ChantelleTheCoach

- Follow me on TikTok: @ChantelleTheCoach

And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE to stay up to date for your weekly dose of The Single Spark.

AD | SUPPORT THE SHOW (by purchasing through my Amazon links!):

Check out my Amazon store for single life inspo products (think solo date nights, personal development books etc)

Looking for bargains? Visit Amazon Haul for discount products straight to your door!

** The links provided here are affiliate links through the Amazon Associate programme. Each time you purchase through those links, I get a kickback at no additonal cost to you. By doing so, you help fund the podcast and all the work done to support singles, without you having to spend extra pennies! **

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Music from Ep 110 onwards by Kadien Music. Get your own podcast music here!
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life coaching for singles, how to be okay on you're own, overcoming loneliness, how to stop feeling lonely, single wo...

Fed up with dating apps?! Well you don't have to use them. In this week's episode, Chantelle discusses ways to find and make opportunities that can help you meet men, all without the exhaustion of dating apps.

It turns out that we really don't enjoy the backforth nature of messaging, the endless "hey hows u?" starter to a conversation and the exhuastion of swipimng left and right. It's boring and mindnumbing, and it's completely okay if you've just had enough!

Join Chantelle to learn how to give them up, or at the very least, to use different methods alongside dating.

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If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing community of other single ladies at https://single-life-be-like.mn.co/ and you'll get access to monthly zoom meetings, The Single Girls Book Club and more!

The Single Girl's Guide to Life was created by Chantelle Dyson. Please send your feedback and questions to Chantelle on Instagram,  join our online community for discussion and support, follow Chantelle on TikTok, keep up with the Single Life blog, and join us at a Single Girls Club event.

And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE  to stay up to date for future, weekly episode of single life living.

FOLLOW: Instagram // Facebook // TikTok

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RESOURCES:

- Download my FREE Dating Non-Negotiables Guide

- Visit the website: www.chantellethecoach.com

- Follow for more single life content on Instagram: @ChantelleTheCoach

- Follow me on TikTok: @ChantelleTheCoach

And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE to stay up to date for your weekly dose of The Single Spark.

AD | SUPPORT THE SHOW (by purchasing through my Amazon links!):

Check out my Amazon store for single life inspo products (think solo date nights, personal development books etc)

Looking for bargains? Visit Amazon Haul for discount products straight to your door!

** The links provided here are affiliate links through the Amazon Associate programme. Each time you purchase through those links, I get a kickback at no additonal cost to you. By doing so, you help fund the podcast and all the work done to support singles, without you having to spend extra pennies! **

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Music from Ep 110 onwards by Kadien Music. Get your own podcast music here!
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life coaching for singles, how to be okay on you're own, overcoming loneliness, how to stop feeling lonely, single wo...

Setting goals and being able to achieve them is important to making sure you continue to improve and do the things you want to do in life.

When you’re single, you have the additional time to spend on yourself, trying different ideas and learning something new, offering the perfect time for setting goals.

But setting goals is only one part. Actually achieving them is another, and they can be the trickiest part of them all. Listen to this podcast to find out how to set goals for success, and how they can help you in your single life!

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If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing community of other single ladies at https://single-life-be-like.mn.co/ and you'll get access to monthly zoom meetings, The Single Girls Book Club and more!

The Single Girl's Guide to Life was created by Chantelle Dyson. Please send your feedback and questions to Chantelle on Instagram,  join our online community for discussion and support, follow Chantelle on TikTok, keep up with the Single Life blog, and join us at a Single Girls Club event.

And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE  to stay up to date for future, weekly episode of single life living.

FOLLOW: Instagram // Facebook // TikTok

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RESOURCES:

- Download my FREE Dating Non-Negotiables Guide

- Visit the website: www.chantellethecoach.com

- Follow for more single life content on Instagram: @ChantelleTheCoach

- Follow me on TikTok: @ChantelleTheCoach

And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE to stay up to date for your weekly dose of The Single Spark.

AD | SUPPORT THE SHOW (by purchasing through my Amazon links!):

Check out my Amazon store for single life inspo products (think solo date nights, personal development books etc)

Looking for bargains? Visit Amazon Haul for discount products straight to your door!

** The links provided here are affiliate links through the Amazon Associate programme. Each time you purchase through those links, I get a kickback at no additonal cost to you. By doing so, you help fund the podcast and all the work done to support singles, without you having to spend extra pennies! **

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Music from Ep 110 onwards by Kadien Music. Get your own podcast music here!
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life coaching for singles, how to be okay on you're own, overcoming loneliness, how to stop feeling lonely, single wo...

Taking a classic look back at the hit Rom-Com, Bridget Jones's Diary, this episode of The Single Girl's Guide to life shares the lessons of single life as a 20/30 year old from the film that still apply today.

From classic comments from family members, to thinking finding "the one" will be the end to all the woes, Bridget Jones's Diary remains a relatable film 20 years on.

Chantelle has extracted five key lessons to be learnt about single life that you can still apply today so that you can learn from Bridget's experiences and don't have to make all the mistakes she does!

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If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing community of other single ladies at https://single-life-be-like.mn.co/ and you'll get access to monthly zoom meetings, The Single Girls Book Club and more!

The Single Girl's Guide to Life was created by Chantelle Dyson. Please send your feedback and questions to Chantelle on Instagram,  join our online community for discussion and support, follow Chantelle on TikTok, keep up with the Single Life blog, and join us at a Single Girls Club event.

And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE  to stay up to date for future, weekly episode of single life living.

FOLLOW: Instagram // Facebook // TikTok

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RESOURCES:

- Download my FREE Dating Non-Negotiables Guide

- Visit the website: www.chantellethecoach.com

- Follow for more single life content on Instagram: @ChantelleTheCoach

- Follow me on TikTok: @ChantelleTheCoach

And if you loved this episode, HIT SUBSCRIBE to stay up to date for your weekly dose of The Single Spark.

AD | SUPPORT THE SHOW (by purchasing through my Amazon links!):

Check out my Amazon store for single life inspo products (think solo date nights, personal development books etc)

Looking for bargains? Visit Amazon Haul for discount products straight to your door!

** The links provided here are affiliate links through the Amazon Associate programme. Each time you purchase through those links, I get a kickback at no additonal cost to you. By doing so, you help fund the podcast and all the work done to support singles, without you having to spend extra pennies! **

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Music from Ep 110 onwards by Kadien Music. Get your own podcast music here!
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life coaching for singles, how to be okay on you're own, overcoming loneliness, how to stop feeling lonely, single wo...