Episode #8 Show Notes

Hosts: Kimberly Willess, Warren Lamb

Guest: Kelli Russell

Summary

In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Kimberly and Warren interview Kelli Russell, a leader in Christian conciliation and biblical counseling. They discuss Kelli's journey into this field, the importance of understanding trauma in conflict resolution, and the role of forgiveness in reconciliation. The conversation emphasizes the need for safety, building rapport, and training believers in biblical peacemaking. Kelli shares her vision for Grace Matters, the ministry she leads, and the impact of community education on conflict resolution.

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Warrenism of the Week: “Peacemaking is an ending of hostilities; pacifying is a pausing of hostilities.”

Episode #7 Show Notes

Host: Warren Lamb

Guest: Dr. Steve Swartz

Summary

In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Warren is joined by Dr. Steve Swartz who presents his carefully researched biblical case that verbal/emotional abuse (reviling) can constitute abandonment under 1 Corinthians 7, potentially providing biblical grounds for divorce. Drawing from 25+ years of pastoral ministry and rigorous hermeneutical study, Dr. Swartz challenges the church to recognize that protecting the vulnerable takes precedence over preserving marriages at all costs. His work represents a significant development within Reformed theology, maintaining fidelity to Scripture while expanding the understanding of how God's Word addresses domestic oppression. This conversation challenges pastors, counselors, and church leaders to examine whether their theology truly protects the oppressed or inadvertently enables oppressors. Dr. Swartz's work represents courageous scholarship that maintains biblical authority while advocating for those trapped in covenant betrayal.

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Warrenism of the Week: “All abuse is evil; all abuse is destructive; NO abuse is permissible by God.”

Episode #6 Show Notes

Host: Jinda Reinig

Guest: Connie Lamb

Summary

In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Jinda interviews her mom, Connie Lamb, as she shares her profound journey living with a degenerative disease (Charcot-Marie-Tooth) and chronic pain. She discusses the challenges of maintaining faith in the midst of suffering, the importance of understanding one's identity in Christ, and how understanding God's sovereignty plays a role in her life. Connie emphasizes the significance of community support, the impact of scripture, and the necessity of grieving the loss of life that has been lived. Her insights offer hope and encouragement to those facing similar struggles, reminding listeners that they are not alone in their pain.

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Warrenism of the Week: “Being content in our circumstances does not equal being content with our circumstances. Knowing that God has brought us through other circumstances and He will bring us through these helps us focus on God more than on our circumstances.”

Episode #5 Show Notes

Hosts: Jinda Reinig, Warren Lamb

Guest: Julie Lowe

Summary

In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, our hosts interview Julie Lowe, a biblical counselor, parenting expert, and author, as they discuss her journey into biblical counseling, the importance of play therapy, and the need for individualized parenting approaches. They explore the impact of technology on children, the necessity of involving parents in the counseling process, and the significance of understanding children's behavior. Julie emphasizes the importance of community support and biblical principles in parenting, while also addressing the challenges of structured parenting and the need for flexibility. The conversation concludes with encouragement for parents to seek wisdom and remain steadfast in their parenting journey.

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Warrenism of the Week: “The goal isn't to raise perfect kids; it's to point our kids to a perfect Savior.”

Episode #4 Show Notes

Host: Jinda Reinig, Kimberly Willess

Guest: Warren Lamb

Summary

In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, the hosts discuss Warren's new book on narcissism, exploring its definitions, cultural influences, and the impact on relationships and the church. They delve into the roots of narcissism, the importance of biblical counseling, and how to recognize and respond to narcissistic behavior. The discussion emphasizes the need for healing and hope for victims of narcissism, highlighting the role of the church in addressing this issue.

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Warrenism of the Week: “Narcissism is a spiritual issue, not a personality disorder.”

Episode #3 Show Notes

Host: Jinda Reinig, Kimberly Willess, Warren Lamb

Guest: Dr. Jenn Chen

Summary

In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Dr. Jenn Chen returns for a follow-up interview and shares more of her journey from a clinical psychologist to a biblical counselor. Today, the discussion emphasizes the complexities of neuroscience and the limitations of scientific research in understanding mental health. She highlights the importance of questioning mainstream psychological claims, the role of trauma, and the need for a biblical approach to counseling. The discussion also touches on the intersection of faith and science, the significance of soul-care, and the challenges of navigating mental health diagnoses in a biblical context.

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Warrenism of the Week: “So often we hear what a person was saved from; too seldom do we hear what a person was saved to.”

Episode #2 Show Notes

Host: Jinda Reinig, Kimberly Willess

Guest: Molly Bertles

Summary

In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, hosts Jinda and Kimmy engage in a candid conversation with Molly Bertles about the often-avoided topic of female masturbation within the Christian community. Molly shares her personal journey of struggle, shame, and eventual healing through biblical counseling. The discussion emphasizes the need for open conversations in the church about women's sexuality, the impact of cultural narratives, and the importance of understanding God's design for sex. Listeners are encouraged to seek community, accountability, and spiritual disciplines as they navigate their own journeys toward purity and intimacy.

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Warrenism of the Week: “What you focus on is what you hit. That's why God says 'put off' AND 'put on.' Stopping the wrong isn't enough; you have to replace it with what's right."

Season 3, Episode #1 Show Notes

Hosts: Jinda Reinig, Warren Lamb

Guest: Dr. Jenn Chen

Summary

In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Dr. Jenn Chen shares her journey from a clinical psychologist to a biblical counselor, discussing the challenges and insights she gained along the way. The conversation explores the limitations of secular psychology, particularly the DSM, and emphasizes the importance of a biblical perspective in understanding mental health and highlights the importance of relationships in counseling, the reality of suffering, and the necessity for the church to be equipped to address mental health issues. Dr. Chen encourages listeners to critically evaluate psychological practices while relying on Scripture for guidance in soul-care. The episode concludes with a call for discernment in integrating psychological insights with biblical truths.

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Warrenism of the Week: “’Good’ things can easily become ‘god’ things when honoring God isn't our primary motive."

Episode #13 Show Notes

Host: Warren Lamb

Guest: Conrad Hilario

Summary

In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, pastor and author Conrad Hilario shares his transformative journey from a troubled youth to a senior pastor, emphasizing the importance of identity in Christ. He discusses the challenges younger generations face in understanding their identity amidst cultural crises and the church's role in providing guidance. The conversation highlights the significance of discipleship and mentorship in spiritual growth and the impact of his book, 'Identity: Seeing Yourself Through God's Eyes,' as a resource for believers seeking to understand their identity in Christ.

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Warrenism of the Week: “Our ‘I am’ statements are identity statements. When we proclaim ‘I am such-and-such…,’ we lock ourselves in a view of ourselves  that may be in conflict with what God proclaims to be true about us.”

Episode #13 Show Notes

Host: Warren Lamb

Summary

In this special Christmas episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Warren shares a personal reflection on the theme of repurposing in life and ministry. Drawing from his own transformative experience following a car accident, he explores how God reshapes our lives and calls us to embrace new purposes. Through biblical passages and personal anecdotes, Warren emphasizes the importance of recognizing interruptions as divine invitations and encourages listeners to reflect on their own journeys of repurposing.

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Warrenism of the Week: “Don’t let your past be your prison.”