The Way You Show Up

The Truth Behind Why You’re Not Reaching Your Goals


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Understanding how to set meaningful goals can transform your self-esteem and overall happiness. This episode emphasizes the importance of intrinsic versus extrinsic motivation, exploring self-concordant goals that resonate with individual desires over societal expectations.

• Discussing personal motivations behind goals 
• Highlighting the concept of self-concordance 
• Distinguishing between intrinsic and extrinsic motivations 
• Introducing the PIES framework for holistic goal-setting 
• Importance of setting achievable and stretch goals 
• Exploring the need for self-compassion in goal pursuit 
• Opening the door for future personal growth and achievement

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I'm Dr. Kimberly Beam Holmes. After a decade transforming marriages at Marriage Helper, I've realized that the greatest tragedy isn't a failed relationship; it's the person who stays stuck and never experiences the fullness of all God intended.

The Way You Show Up is for the high-achiever who is tired of "fine."

We're dismantling the average life to build an exceptional one—using the science of the PIES: Physical, Intellectual, Emotional, and Spiritual health.

If you want to save your marriage, go to Marriage Helper. If you want to master yourself and lead your legacy, stay here.

New episodes every Tuesday.

Don't just exist. Show up.

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