In today’s video, I spoke to a retroactive jealousy survivor named Bennett. Not long ago, Bennett was wracked with incessant curiosity and “mental movies” about his girlfriend’s past. At his worst, he couldn’t sleep, eat, or focus on anything other than his girlfriend’s past. Today, he feels like a new man. Listen to our conversation […]

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In today’s video, we’re going to learn more about overcoming retroactive jealousy. I’m going to answer the question: “How long does it take to beat retroactive jealousy?” Zachary Stockill: There’s no general answer to this question because there are so many factors involved. Everyone’s different. Everyone’s dealing with retroactive jealousy to different extents. There’s a […]

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In today’s video, I’m responding to a viewer who is troubled by the fact that his girlfriend did things with her ex that she won’t do with him. Are you wondering why you can’t stop thinking about girlfriend’s previous partners? Today’s email comes from Danny. Danny writes… What would be the ideal way to react […]

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In today’s video, I’m going to share another very strange technique that will help you stop any of the behaviors associated with retroactive jealousy. So, how do you stop asking about your girlfriend’s past? Zachary Stockill: This is a question that I have been getting all the time since I started my blog back in 2013, […]

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In today’s video, I’m responding to an email from Bobby. Bobby wrote a long message, but the basic gist of it is, how do you beat retroactive jealousy for good? How do you know you won’t date someone who will spark your retroactive jealousy going forward? What makes you so confident retroactive jealousy won’t ever […]

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In today’s video, I’m answering an email from Samil. Have you ever asked yourself this question… “Does My Girlfriend Compare Me to Her Ex?” Samil writes… Does our partner compare our sexual performance with their ex mentally? Zachary Stockill: The obvious answer is, I have no idea. Because I don’t know your relationship. I don’t know […]

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In today’s video, I’m going to talk about what you should do if you’re struggling with your girlfriend’s past. Have you ever felt like “My girlfriend’s past gives me anxiety?” I got an email from a guy we will call M. M writes… How do I deal with things that I view as morally wrong […]

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In today’s video, I am answering an email from Rosie, regarding how to deal with retroactive jealousy in social situations. Dealing with retroactive jealousy in social situations isn’t always easy, but it certainly can be done. Rosie writes… I constantly worry that my partner’s friends/family are going to bring up pastimes or people. Or I’ll […]

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In today’s video, I’d like to talk about a dangerous mental pitfall that a lot of retroactive jealousy sufferers fall into. We’re going to discuss why idealizing your girlfriend is so dangerous. Anyone who’s taken my premium online course, Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast, or for those who have my Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy guidebook, […]

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In today’s video, I’d like to talk about the dangers of long-term thinking when you are working to overcome obsessive jealousy or any other challenge as it relates to personal development. In today’s video, I will discuss how to beat retroactive jealousy. But before I do, I’d also like to take this opportunity to remind […]

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