They Talk Sex

Clinician and author Silva Neves explains common misconceptions about so-called “sex addiction” and gives help to folks navigating distressing concerns about their own sexualities.

4:00 Lack of sexuality training with sex workers 

7:30 sex addiction type treatment is shaming of people 

9:40 why “sex addiction” is not an accurate term

11:00 your body doesn’t withdraw from lack of sex, and can’t OD on sex

19:00 trauma and attachment 

20:00 non-monogamy 

25:00 sex positivity includes body positivity 

Fetishes, poly, kinky, sex workers, disability, queer, asexual all need to be included in sex therapy

27:00 what sex-positive really means

29:00 asexuality is real 

31:00 conversion “therapy”

36:00 How to share a trauma story with partners

40:00 porn doesn't make people violent

47:00 relational trauma is common 

51:00 what is digisesxuality?

53:00 what is chemsex?

59:00 how to surf your emotions

1:11:00 monogamy is a christian concept

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On loving the work, being attacked by haters, trans man adult performer Trip Richards shares his experiences with pornmaking, dating, and censorship.

8:00 we are a mish-mosh of identities

12:00 perks of the work

18:00 trans porn resources

25:00 trip was deactivated on IG shortly after this recording

28:00 on cis women + trans man porn demand

32:00 most of us can’t be authentic in capitalism

40:00 dating as a performer

43:00 what was the pornhub scandal about?

46:00 there’s more child abuse material uploaded to facebook than pornhub

53:00 shame around desires causes violence

57:00 he’s a cat dad

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