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Celebrate our 100th episode of "Things You Learn in Therapy" and discover the profound insights from experts like Maureen Clancy on the nervous system and Liz Polinsky's advice for enhancing relationships through monthly meetings. We reflect on impactful discussions with Michelle Benyo about navigating grief, Tara Egan's strategies for coping with divorce, and Danielle Peters and Lindsay Webster's enlightening talks on ADHD. Plus, don’t miss Dr. Michael Alcee's valuable perspectives on OCD and Kelly Savery's fascinating take on the connection between humans and nature.

This special milestone episode emphasizes the power of community engagement. Clinicians and parents, we want to hear from you—share the topics you're curious about by reaching out via [email protected]. Relive some of the most memorable moments of our podcast journey by exploring past episodes that captured your interest. We conclude with heartfelt gratitude for your unwavering support and encourage you to stay safe and well. Join us in this reflective celebration of learning and growth!

This podcast is meant to be a resource for the general public, as well as fellow therapists/psychologists. It is NOT meant to replace the meaningful work of individual or family therapy. Please seek professional help in your area if you are struggling. #breakthestigma #makewordsmatter #thingsyoulearnintherapy #thingsyoulearnintherapypodcast
 
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Can setting smart limits and allowing children to solve their own problems really foster their growth? Join this episode where we explore parenting strategies inspired by the article "50 Easy Ways to Be a Fantastic Parent." Discover how establishing mutual respect in your parent-child relationships and differentiating between discipline and punishment can significantly impact your child's development. We'll delve into the importance of treating discipline as a form of training that promotes understanding and growth, helping children learn from their mistakes through continuous practice and conversation.

Ever wondered how to effectively model social skills and instill gratitude in your children? Tune in as we discuss practical tips for managing emotions, problem-solving, and teaching both verbal and non-verbal communication. Learn how to foster gratitude by encouraging children to appreciate the positive aspects of their lives. Additionally, we emphasize the importance of boosting parental confidence by exploring a variety of parenting ideas and finding strength in shared experiences and community support. This episode is packed with strategies to help you raise socially adept and grateful individuals, all while maintaining a positive and encouraging approach to parenting.

If you, or someone you know, is having mental health challenges and is in need of assistance, please contact 988.


This podcast is meant to be a resource for the general public, as well as fellow therapists/psychologists. It is NOT meant to replace the meaningful work of individual or family therapy. Please seek professional help in your area if you are struggling. #breakthestigma #makewordsmatter #thingsyoulearnintherapy #thingsyoulearnintherapypodcast

Feel free to share your thoughts at www.makewordsmatterforgood.com or email me at [email protected]

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What if you could foster a positive relationship with your teenager instead of constantly expecting the worst? Tune in to our latest episode with Dr. Beth Trammell, where we dive into strategies for engaging with teens. We discuss the importance of offering them the independence they need while helping them navigate their inevitable mistakes. Discover how to provide balanced feedback that encourages growth and problem-solving rather than focusing solely on correction. Dr. Trammell shares invaluable advice on guiding your teens towards becoming capable and independent adults.

Ever wondered how to better understand your teenager's emotional rollercoaster? In this episode, we also explore practical techniques for navigating teenage emotions with curiosity instead of judgment. Learn how tools like a feelings wheel and recognizing recurring themes in complaints can significantly improve communication and emotional support. Dr. Trammell emphasizes the power of a supportive network of parent friends for shared advice and encouragement. Remember, the seemingly unpredictable phases of adolescence are temporary, and maintaining a supportive, understanding presence can make all the difference. Join us for insights that can help you through the rewarding journey of raising teenagers.

If you, or someone you know, is having mental health challenges and is in need of assistance, please contact 988.


This podcast is meant to be a resource for the general public, as well as fellow therapists/psychologists. It is NOT meant to replace the meaningful work of individual or family therapy. Please seek professional help in your area if you are struggling. #breakthestigma #makewordsmatter #thingsyoulearnintherapy #thingsyoulearnintherapypodcast

Feel free to share your thoughts at www.makewordsmatterforgood.com or email me at [email protected]

If you are a therapist or psychologist and want to be a guest on the show, please complete this form to apply: https://forms.gle/ooy8QirpgL2JSLhP6

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Feel like you always aim for a "good summer" and then sometimes fall short?? Listen in as we explore intentional goal setting for the summer months. We will share practical advice on how to set realistic and specific goals. Whether you're looking to boost your health, plan unforgettable trips, or finally tackle those lingering projects, this episode is packed with actionable strategies to turn your summer dreams into reality.

Parents, this episode is especially for you too! Dr. Trammell delves into how to balance rest and productivity for your kids during their summer break. She emphasizes the importance of defining chores and responsibilities, ensuring that the season is both enjoyable and structured. Learn how to create a summer bucket list, prepare for potential setbacks, and make the most out of every moment. Tune in to gain inspiration and practical tools for a summer that's both enriching and enjoyable for the entire family.

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I'm your host, Dr. Beth Trammell, and I'm excited to share our summer lineup, which includes essential conversations about caring for aging parents, planning your ideal summer, and embracing the joy of playfulness with insights from our special guest, Colleen Martinez. Plus, get ready to master the art of teaching and practicing rest, navigating life with grown children, and preparing teenagers for the new school year. We'll also unpack a few parts from an article on 50 ways to be a fantastic parent, offering you practical advice on how to implement each tip.

Join me as we explore these topics aimed at both therapists seeking new strategies and parents looking for guidance. Whether you're navigating the complexities of multigenerational living, wondering how to get your teens ready for another academic year, or just trying to infuse more play into your life, we've got you covered. I can't wait to embark on this journey of learning and growing with you. So, grab your headphones, settle in, and let's make this summer both enjoyable and enlightening together. Here's to a fantastic summer ahead!

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Ever wondered why the line at the grocery store feels like a test of your soul's patience? You're not alone. This crossover episode with CEV includes my friend, Leslie Bolser, Creative Director for Core Essential Values, where we reveal personal battles with patience, especially in the throes of parenting. The struggle is real, but so are the strategies we share to help cultivate this virtue in ourselves and in the young minds we're guiding. From understanding the developmental limits of children's patience to the art of maintaining it with temperamental teens, this episode is your guide to nurturing patient relationships that can truly flourish.

Navigating tricky supermarket checkouts is small fry compared to the daily patience needed for effective communication with teenagers—it's a delicate dance we discuss. We commit to spreading empathy and kindness even in the smallest of interactions, because, let's face it, the world could use a little more patience. Join us on this journey of self-discovery and skill-building for the sake of our children's future, our sanity, and the unsuspecting cashier who just ran out of receipt paper.

This podcast is meant to be a resource for the general public, as well as fellow therapists/psychologists. It is NOT meant to replace the meaningful work of individual or family therapy. Please seek professional help in your area if you are struggling. #breakthestigma #makewordsmatter #thingsyoulearnintherapy #thingsyoulearnintherapypodcast
 
 Feel free to share your thoughts at www.makewordsmatterforgood.com or email me at [email protected]

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Have you ever stumbled upon a therapy that speaks to both the intricacies of the brain and the whispers of the body? That's exactly what brain spotting does, and in our recent conversation with trauma specialist Jessica, we uncovered the depths of this transformative therapy. Jessica, with her brain spotting certification, takes us on a journey beyond the confines of traditional therapies and into a realm where eye positions can unlock emotional states. This episode isn't just a discussion; it's an exploration of the therapy's origins in athlete performance enhancement and its astounding flexibility for various issues beyond trauma.

Picture a therapy session where the client is the captain, steering the ship of healing while the therapist sails alongside, navigating by intuition and the principle of uncertainty. That's the empowering approach of brain spotting, and as Jessica shares her personal experiences with the practice, we unravel the differences from the structured protocols of EMDR. With an on-air demonstration, listeners get a front-row seat to the subtleties of this gentle yet profound method, emphasizing the importance of attunement to individual needs and the discovery of eye positions that resonate with the client's internal experience.

Jessica shares insights on how balancing resources and activation is key to not overwhelming those we help. Our conversation illuminates the empowering process of expanding one's window of tolerance for distressing emotions and the gratifying role of therapists who facilitate such intimate work. Join us for an episode that promises to not only enlighten but also inspire a transformation in your understanding of healing and personal growth.

Connect with Jessica here:
Jessica Van der Merwe, LMHC, LPC http://proteacounselingpnw.com

This podcast is meant to be a resource for the general public, as well as fellow therapists/psychologists. It is NOT meant to replace the meaningful work of individual or family therapy. Please seek professional help in your area if you are struggling. #breakthestigma #makewordsmatter #thingsyoulearnintherapy #thingsyoulearnintherapypodcast

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Grief touches each of us in unexpected ways, and when it does, the journey can feel isolating and relentless. In addressing the tender path of mourning, we recognize that it can stem from various losses, not solely the death of a loved one. In our heartfelt conversation, I share insights on the deeply personal and unpredictable nature of grief, urging patience and understanding for those who are navigating its choppy waters.

The art of comforting someone who's grieving is a delicate balance, and during this episode, I share ways to do just that. By encouraging the bereaved to engage in familiar routines, we can offer a comforting sense of normalcy amidst their storm of emotions. Together, we explore how to create a supportive environment for loved ones, emphasizing that the goal isn't to move on from the loss but to live with it. Your stories and approaches to handling grief are invaluable; if you're seeking guidance or have wisdom to lend, I invite you to connect with me. Let's build a community that holds space for grief, anchored in empathy and led by love.

This podcast is meant to be a resource for the general public, as well as fellow therapists/psychologists. It is NOT meant to replace the meaningful work of individual or family therapy. Please seek professional help in your area if you are struggling. #breakthestigma #makewordsmatter #thingsyoulearnintherapy #thingsyoulearnintherapypodcast
 
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No foolin' around here on April Fools' Day! I have a bonus episode for you today!

Have you ever caught yourself glued to your phone while your child tries to share their day? The truth is, you might not realize the impact that undivided attention has on your little ones until you hear us break it down today.
This episode isn't just about eye-opening statistics; it's about action.  It's about leaving with practical tools to weave intentional moments with our children into the tapestry of our bustling lives. From morning questions that kickstart curiosity to bedtime stories that weave dreams, she illustrates how to create lasting bonds in the simplest of gestures. Remember, it's not about filling every second with activity; it's about making those seconds count. Today, you'll be challenged to bookend your days with genuine, focused engagement with your children, transforming your influence and relationships one undistracted moment at a time.

This podcast is meant to be a resource for the general public, as well as fellow therapists/psychologists. It is NOT meant to replace the meaningful work of individual or family therapy. Please seek professional help in your area if you are struggling. #breakthestigma #makewordsmatter #thingsyoulearnintherapy #thingsyoulearnintherapypodcast
 
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Refreshed from a brief retreat and equipped with newfound wisdom, I've returned to our cherished space. Let's unwrap the essentials that are missing from our everyday learning—those crucial life hacks that warrant a spotlight. Discover with me how tweaking your caffeine routine can profoundly affect your sleep patterns and anxiety levels. Together, we'll confront the hidden impact of social media on our self-worth, and reveal the liberating effects of unplugging. And in a candid discussion, I'll stress the importance of educating on the proper disposal of feminine products—a subject vital for both personal hygiene and environmental consideration.

This episode isn't your average listen; it's an invitation to engage with the unexpected truths unearthed in therapy and beyond. As we unpack these topics, your involvement is more than just welcome—it's essential. Share your insights or propose new areas to explore. Looking ahead, we'll dive into the compelling world of trauma, unraveling its many layers and how it shapes our lives. Your voice is an integral part of this journey, and I can't wait to hear from you as we continue to enrich our dialogue and grow together.

This podcast is meant to be a resource for the general public, as well as fellow therapists/psychologists. It is NOT meant to replace the meaningful work of individual or family therapy. Please seek professional help in your area if you are struggling. #breakthestigma #makewordsmatter #thingsyoulearnintherapy #thingsyoulearnintherapypodcast
 
 Feel free to share your thoughts at www.makewordsmatterforgood.com or email me at [email protected]

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