Ben and Kae discuss a variety of topics from /r/swingers. Includes: does being in the lifestyle make vanilla things less fun, a tough first encounter and what a big guy should do to be more appealing.

Ben and Kae talk about what they find attractive and what attractiveness means in the swinging lifestyle.

Ben and Kae discuss their relationship fears while engaging in the swinging lifestyle. @thotsandpodcast

Kae and Ben talk about the ins-and-outs of threesomes.

Ben & Kae discuss condoms. Polyurethane versus latex. German and Japanese brands. Particularly, what are the best ever-so-slightly-larger-than-average condoms are the market, in Ben's opinion?

Ben and Kae discussed a variety of body and self-care related topics as they pertain to the lifestyle. We discuss plastic surgery, piercings, managing your period during travel. We also have an extensive discussion on a variety of diets and workout routines we've tried in the past.

Ben & Kae talk about porn, porn's effect on relationships, and the effect of porn in the swinging lifestyle.

Ben & Kae talk about male performance from a lifestyle and medical perspective. Buckle up, it's a long one!

Ben & Kae talk about different ways couples approach the swinging lifestyle that they didn't know about in the beginning.

Ben & Kae talk about their experiences with swinger cruising on Bliss Cruises. Lots of tips for people interested in cruising.