To My Sisters

Navigating dating and relationships seems to be a minefield these days, and identifying red flags can be even more challenging. In today’s episode, the sisters talk about the rising levels of ‘no-good men’, identifying red flags and what to do when we’ve overlooked ALL the warning signs.

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Is Love REALLY blind? What kinky sexual requests are 'too much'? Why do we have so many grown folks playing high school teenagers on Netflix? Is Tyler Perry at it again? Coming to you hot with another episode of TMS Hottakes!

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TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 What is going on on Netflix: Tyler Perry's Mea Culpa, Blood & Water

15:08 Onlg God knows how we got here LOOOOL: Kinks and other things

26:35 Love is Blind Nonsense!

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Join your favourite online sisters in this episode as they share lessons they took from the viral TikTok storytime ‘Who TF Did I Marry?!’ from spotting the red flags to desirability politics and so much more.

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What do you do if your husband buys his sister-in-law a Valentine's Day Gift? Are sending blue heart emoji's enough to repair a broken relationship after infidelity? What to do when your man stays lying? All this gist and a catch-up on all our fun times and trips awaits you in this episode of TMS Hottakes 💫

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TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 Who TF Did I Marry?! - A 52-part TikTok Storytime

08:26 The Girl with the Louding Voice Dilemma

12:07 Your Sister in Law is Your Valentine

18:00 Blue Heart Emojis & Bare Minimum Romance

25:47 How often do you speak to your mother?

28:06 Do we want kids?

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Healing isn't easy. From dealing with generational trauma to the pain we caused ourselves, it seems like the girls are in a season of trying to overcome old wounds that have penetrated deep below the surface. How do we move on in a meaningful way that is authentic and holistic? Prepared for an intense chat on today's episode of TMS!

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TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 Welcome to the conversation!

01:15 What happened to the visuals 👀

09:25 The tea on our trip to South Africa 🇿🇦

22:00 Thank you for supporting our paperback 📚💌

22:48 Some encouragement for the girlies looking to start something new ✨

24:49 🇺🇸 We're heading to New York City!!!

26:52 Ding ding dilemma: My partner and I have a very different approach to finances...

38:24 The non-linear nature of healing is frustrating!

52:29 Learning to be patient and compassionate towards yourself

56:52 Reframing how we think about generational trauma

01:07:07 Cycles are the biggest cause of delay

01:11:52 Breaking generational curses one generation at a time

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In today's episode of TMS Hot Takes your favorite online sisters play a game (badly), discuss the rhetoric surrounding women out-earning men, who would you want to pass first out of you and your partner, and they answer a heartfelt dilemma from a sister trying to support a friend who has just lost their parent.

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TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 Let's play a game...

11:32 Why do people think it's ok to call you randomly?!

14:35 Women are out-earning men as a... "trauma response"?

21:24 Could you live without your partner?

28:38 Ding ding dilemma: Supporting my friend who just lost her parent

38:36 How often do you take out your wig braids?

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Constant body changes are a normal part of womanhood. From your monthly hormonal cycle to rapid weight gain and loss, learning to love your body can be a tough ride. In today's episode, your favourite online sisters share their experiences with body dysmorphia, battling the desire for the male gaze, and learning to love themselves in a society that punishes self-acceptance.

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TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 Welcome & Housekeeping Announcements

07:36 Ding Ding Dilemma: My friend accused me of theft...

19:11 Dealing with insecurity and body dysmorphia

33:04 Feeling undesirable and unhappy

44:45 How sisterhood and community helps you accept yourself

57:15 Divesting from the male gaze

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Getting lost in daydreams is now becoming an addiction according to the girlies - so what do we do when reality just isn't hitting right? From mental escapism to our favourite films, not to mention our travel hacks and 'girl dinners' - TMS is back with another hot-off-the-press episode of TMS Hottakes!

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Sometimes we need to be raw and honest about the ugly - and in today's episode, the sisters are taking on the 'ugly' behind comparison, envy, and jealousy. From our own experiences of comparison and jealousy, to talking about the challenges facing women being pitted against each other, tune into another episode where we go deep into what it takes to 'keep up with the Joneses'.

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So is it true that we're in the advent of 'monitoring spirits'? Are Black Women once again being told to be 'softer' to embrace their femininity? Are we joining what seems like an imminent world war? From bringing back slang words to the Barbie 'snub', it's the latest tea served piping hot on another episode of TMS Hottakes!

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TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 MC RK?

04:43 Are you joining the war?

08:25 If you were in a zombie apocalypse who would you bring?

11:25 The Barbie Snub

17:49 Black women would get more if they were softer...?!

23:58 The truth about Monitoring Spirits

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