Hey legend,

New episode just dropped and it’s one of my all-time favourites because 1) my little brother Trav absolutely roasts me, 2) he gives the most grounded male perspective on “personal development,” and 3) the convo will make your partner way more open to this world without you nagging or dragging.

Inside the episode:

• The honest male take on the “self-help” world and what actually got him on board (hint: not my TED Talks at family dinner, but results he could see and feel).
• Tony Robbins, state management, and the three levers that flipped Trav from stuck to action.
• Money mindset from a bloke’s lens: separating “wanting more” from “being greedy,” and how that shifted our whole family narrative.
• Dating in your 30s: the reality of apps, why organic connection feels rare, and what men are actually looking for beyond vibes.
• Why schools crush curiosity and what kids really need to learn to thrive in the real world (EQ over algebra).
• Rapid-fire sibling chaos: the dish-soaking debate, my driving, and the song that sums up Trav’s life.

Why you’ll love it:

• If you’ve wished your partner would “get” your growth journey, this is the episode to share. Trav speaks bloke. Zero fluff. Practical, science-backed, and deeply human.
• If you’re single, it’ll make you feel seen. If you’re partnered, it’ll help you connect better. If you’re a parent, you’ll walk away with fresh language for emotional intelligence at home.
• And yes, you’ll laugh. A lot.

If the episode lands, forward it to the person you love, the mate who thinks manifestation is “woo,” or your sister who needs a good belly laugh today.

Chaotic good,

B

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