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What does it mean to take up space as a trans person? How do you find confidence, community and joy while navigating your gender identity?

For Trans Visibility Week, Zelah sits down with Koi, a 24-year-old Jamaican trans man, to talk about his experience of being trans, growing into his masculinity, finding belonging in the ballroom scene and learning to exist unapologetically.

In this episode, in collaboration with Not A Phase, Koi opens up about the importance of trans representation, the power of visibility and why simply living your life as your authentic self can make a difference to someone else.

We explore what it means to navigate life as a Black trans man, the intersection of race, sexuality and gender identity, and why seeing more diverse trans experiences in mainstream media matters. Koi also shares how the ballroom community became a safe space for connection, how fitness and the gym helped him reconnect with himself, and how his confidence has evolved throughout his transition.

We also get into trans dating, relationships, masculinity, trans joy and the importance of creating spaces where trans people can feel safe, celebrated and understood.

IN THIS EPISODE:
🏳️‍⚧️ Trans visibility and the importance of representation
🏳️‍⚧️ What taking up space means as a trans person
🏳️‍⚧️ Growing up and navigating life as a Black trans man
🏳️‍⚧️ Race, sexuality, gender identity and intersectionality
🏳️‍⚧️ Finding belonging and chosen family in ballroom culture
🏳️‍⚧️ Trans joy and building supportive LGBTQ+ communities
🏳️‍⚧️ Fitness, gym culture and confidence during transition
🏳️‍⚧️ Dating as a trans masculine person
🏳️‍⚧️ Trans representation in mainstream media
🏳️‍⚧️ Learning to live authentically and unapologetically

ABOUT NOT A PHASE

Not A Phase is a trans-led charity supporting the trans community across the UK. Through community initiatives, resources and inclusive spaces, they work towards a world where trans people can live freely and authentically.

Their Misfits program offers free fitness classes and activities for trans people across the UK, including yoga, Pilates, calisthenics and more.

Find out more: https://notaphase.org/

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In this episode of TRANS CRUSH, we sit down with Caroline Litman, a mother of a transgender daughter, author of Her Name Is Alice, and an advocate for trans rights. 

Caroline shares her deeply personal experience of raising three children and navigating the journey of understanding and supporting her youngest daughter, Alice, when she came out as transgender. She opens up about the early signs of anxiety, the difficulties Alice experienced during puberty, her coming out at 17, and the challenges of accessing gender-affirming healthcare through the NHS. 

We discuss the impact of transphobia in the media, the importance of parental acceptance, bullying, gender dysphoria, puberty blockers and the devastating consequences of making young trans people wait years for the healthcare they need. As a mother and former NHS psychiatrist, Caroline also reflects on her own misconceptions, the things she wishes she had understood earlier, and how her perspective on transgender people has changed. 

This is an important conversation about motherhood, understanding, unconditional love, healthcare and the importance of creating a world where every trans child feels safe enough to be themselves. 

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If you or your child are struggling with mental health or going through a difficult time, please know that you do not have to carry it alone. Help and confidential support are available right now: 

• LGBT Foundation Helpline: For confidential advice and support, reach out to the LGBT Foundation on 0345 3 30 30 30 or email [email protected] 
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What happens when a trans man discovers he's pregnant?

Meet Logan Brown, the first trans man to give birth and share his story on Trans Crush! Logan opens up about his extraordinary journey of pregnancy, coming off testosterone, carrying his own biological child and becoming a father to his daughter Nova.

He also shares what it was like to become the first pregnant man on the cover of Glamour UK, challenging perceptions of gender, pregnancy and parenthood.

We talk about pregnancy, gender identity, body changes, top surgery, navigating the NHS and public reactions, exploring the realities and challenges of experiencing pregnancy and parenthood as a trans man.

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What is it really like to breastfeed as a trans man? Logan gets into the intimate details of his breastfeeding experience, his C-section, the physical realities of giving birth and the public hate he received after his pregnancy became public. We go deeper into the experiences and questions that we couldn't fit into the YouTube episode.

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In this episode of Trans Crush, we sit down with Maximus to talk about his life, his attraction to trans women, and his experiences with dating and sex. 

We talk about his first experience with a trans woman, the conversation with his mum in the car that changed things for him, and the difference between making adult content with trans women and having sex with them in real life. 

We also talk about what holds men back from dating trans women and Maximus's advice for guys who are still hesitant to take that first step. 

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"I looked in the mirror after the reveal and burst into tears. I knew my whole world was going to change." 

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 This week on Trans Crush, Pavie sits down with 60-year-old Gina, who recently transitioned after 22 years of marriage. Gina opens up about growing up feeling different, secretly starting HRT, her late ADHD diagnosis, and the emotional moment in front of the mirror that changed everything for her. 

She also talks about losing contact with her ex-wife and children, learning to set boundaries, and why she believes it’s never too late to finally live as your authentic self.

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Head over to our Patreon Exclusive where we get into the details you won't hear anywhere else. Dylan joins us to talk openly about dating after transition, navigating body dysmorphia, and the physical changes from testosterone (including the surprises like hot flashes and bottom growth). You won't want to miss this juicy and uncensored bonus content! 

In this inspiring new episode of Trans Crush, Zelah sits down with Dylan (also known as Dylan and the Moon), who shares his journey of stepping into his authenticity and transitioning as a trans man at 26. Dylan opens up about growing up in Cornwall, using music as a safe space, and learning to honor his past rather than hiding from it. We explore critical topics including: 

• Dylan's early realization of his gender identity at six years old and the struggle of growing up in the '90s without the language to express who he was. 
• Navigating teenage years and the uncomfortable feeling of "cosplaying" femininity before finding the courage to come out. 
• His unique artistic process of creating duets with his pre-transition self (under his former name Lots Holloway) and building a vocal choir using his changing pitch range on T. 
• Filming a four-year documentary detailing his voice transition to create vital resources for future transmasculine people. 
• Winning a BBC music show, collaborating with Jason Derulo, and how stepping into authenticity attracts success and magnetism into your life. 

Join Zelah and Dylan for an uplifting conversation that demonstrates the beauty of finding your true voice.

Dylan is a British singer, songwriter, and musician who transitioned at 26. He creates indie-folk music, writes about his journey, and works on documentary projects to provide resources and visibility for transmasculine people. 

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Bella is back on Trans Crush! We first met Bella in Season 1, and a lot has changed since then. She has moved from London to Perth, Australia, and in this episode she talks honestly about how different her life feels now. She describes what it is like to wake up and not think about being trans every single day, the sense of normality she has found in Perth, and why Australia feels so different from the UK when it comes to how people react to trans people. 

We also talk about some of the harder parts of transition. Gender dysphoria, the pressure to pass, being a 6'1" trans woman, body image, and the ridiculous beauty standards we put on ourselves. Bella also shares her experience with trans healthcare in Australia compared with the UK, including the huge difference in waiting times and how much knowledge doctors have about gender affirming care. 

And we get into something I think a lot of people will relate to: how social media can completely distort the way we see ourselves. Bella talks about why she stepped back from trans activism and started focusing more on simply living her life. There are some really honest moments in this conversation, especially when we talk about dysphoria, confidence and learning to look at yourself with a little more kindness. 

And if you're a parent of a trans teenager, stay until the end. Bella has some really thoughtful advice about social media, comparison and helping young people who are struggling with their bodies. 

Come back to Patreon after the episode for a much more personal conversation about dating, relationships, sex, attraction and what actually makes a trans woman choose a partner: https://www.patreon.com/transcrush/

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In this new episode of Trans Crush, Zelah sits down with Ant, a trans masc creative who challenges everything we think we know about gender, transition, and identity. From breaking free of binary expectations to questioning the idea that there is only one "right" way to be trans, Ant shares a deeply honest conversation about finding peace in the grey areas. 

We explore important topics including: 

• Ant's emotional realization they were trans, crying alone in a workplace bathroom after finally accepting their identity. 

• Growing up as a tomboy, being bullied for not fitting gender expectations, and how childhood experiences shaped their journey. 

• Why they stopped testosterone after six months, and how they realized medical transition wasn't the right path for them. 

• The pressure many trans people face to medically transition, and why there is no checklist for being "trans enough." 

• Dating as a trans masc person in a non-monogamous relationship, and how society perceives queer couples. 

• Why gender stereotypes don't only hurt trans people, but affect everyone, from children in the playground to the mental health crisis facing men today.

 • A refreshing perspective on transition as a journey rather than a destination, and why embracing uncertainty can be one of the most liberating parts of discovering yourself. 

Join Zelah and Ant for an honest, funny, and thought-provoking conversation that celebrates authenticity over expectations. Don't forget to subscribe and turn on notifications so you never miss a new episode of Trans Crush.

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This week on Trans Crush, we sit down with Joëlle, founder of Injectual, to talk about growing up in an all boys school, facing relentless bullying, navigating a difficult relationship with her father, and the moment she realised she wasn’t alone. 

Joëlle shares her journey in the cosmetic beauty industry, how she built Injectual, opens up about how gender affirming care transformed her confidence, and explains why she’s now on a mission to make transition related care more accessible for other trans people. 

We also discuss mental health, family, the realities of being a visible trans entrepreneur, the NHS waiting lists, and what it takes to build a successful business while staying true to yourself. 

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Head over to our Patreon Exclusive where we get into the details you won't hear anywhere else. Chloe is our first guest to talk openly about getting an orchiectomy, and she shares everything about that experience. We also dive into her dating life, what it's like dating men for the first time at 47, how her sexual attraction completely changed after transitioning, and the shocking ways men treat her differently once they know she's trans. You won't want to miss this spicy and uncensored bonus content! 

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In this incredibly moving new episode of Trans Crush, Pavie sits down with Chloe, who shares her inspiring story of transitioning later in life at the age of 47. Chloe opens up about the decades of suppressed femininity, the deep shame she felt, and the ultimate relief of finally living her truth. 

We explore critical topics including: 

•Chloe's lifelong struggle with gender identity, from wishing she could wake up as a girl in the '90s to the profound grief of missing out on her 20s and 30s. 

•The pivotal moment her "egg cracked" in 2023 and the emotional process of coming out to her parents via a heartfelt letter. 

•The story behind choosing her name, Chloe, and why she still goes by Lucy on socials. 

•The differences between moving through the world as a man versus a woman, including the loss of male privilege and the joy of finally feeling connected to her body. 

•Her bold decision to leave a 25-year corporate career to travel, write a romance novel (Transatlantic), and pursue trans femme coaching. 

•A powerful message to transphobes about the painful reality of transition (like electrolysis) and why it is absolutely not a "choice." 

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