Summary

Adrian, a transracial adoptee, shares his adoption journey from Peru to Canada. He was adopted at two weeks old due to the political unrest and economic struggles in Peru. Growing up in a predominantly white area, Adrian stood out as the only person of color. Despite this, he had a good childhood and was well-liked by his peers. As he got older, Adrian became more interested in his Peruvian culture and took Spanish classes. He made several trips back to Peru to learn the language and connect with his roots. Learning Spanish boosted his self-esteem and gave him a deeper sense of identity. Adrian discusses his experience with language learning and how he has become fluent in Spanish. He also talks about his dating preferences and attraction to Latin girls. The conversation then shifts to Adrian's experience as an adoptee and his relationship with his adoptive and birth families. He shares his journey of reconnecting with his birth family in Peru and the emotions he felt during that process. Adrian also mentions his therapy sessions in Spanish and how it has helped him in his personal growth. Adrian shares his experiences with his biological mother and father, highlighting the challenges and complexities of building relationships with them. He discusses the difficulties of communication and the economic disparities that affected their interactions. Adrian also emphasizes the importance of managing expectations when reconnecting with birth parents and the need to be prepared for various outcomes. He expresses gratitude for the support of his adoptive parents throughout his journey and encourages other adoptees to explore their first culture and heritage.