How the church can move from condemning boundaries to redemptive restoration through relational discernment, radical invitation, and the long-haul work of love. Mike, Tim, and surprise guest Seth Erre dive deep into what real church discipline looks like in a centered-set community—and how bounded and fuzzy churches often get it wrong. Part 5 of the Centered Set Series unpacks core differences between boundary-focused, fuzzy, and centered approaches—and how only the last can truly embody the grace of Jesus.

Key Takeaways: • Bounded Church Discipline vs. Centered Restoration – Why enforcing moral or doctrinal rules often leads to shame, exclusion, and hiding rather than transformation. • The Importance of Relational Discernment – Why you can’t truly address spiritual formation without long-term, intentional relationship. • Fuzzy Set Pitfalls – How churches without clear direction avoid conflict yet lack the courage to uphold the call of Jesus in meaningful ways. • Jesus-Focused Invitation Over Religious Control – Approaching accountability as an invitational journey toward transformation rather than a list of checkboxes. • Learning from Painful Stories – Heartfelt listener deconstruction stories reveal the harm inflicted by rigid boundaries and the healing power of centered relationships.

Bonus: Tim shares an Eddie Vedder quote about maturing activism and how it parallels the journey of deconstruction, growth, and center-set discipleship.

Resources Mentioned: • Centered-Set Church by Mark Baker – [Link] • “Repenting of Religion” by Greg Boyd – [Link] • Romans 3:23 and Ephesians 2 (teased as upcoming conversation topics) • Episode Series: Centered Set Series • Book Mentioned: “Joy as an Act of Resistance” by Idles (referenced in passing)

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