Gay Men Going Deeper

Twinks, Jocks, and Bears, Oh My! The Obsession with Gay Labels

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Today we’re diving into one of the most iconic (and hilarious) parts of gay culture: labels.

In this episode, we unpack why gay men are so obsessed with categories like “twink,” “daddy,” “masc,” “otter,” “guy next door,” and every micro-label in between… and how these identities shape the way we date, belong, and see ourselves.

We explore:

  • Why labels can feel empowering (and sometimes limiting)
  • How they create tribe, shorthand, and community
  • When they become boxes we get stuck in
  • How attraction, identity, and insecurity get wrapped into these roles
  • What happens when you “grow out” of a label or never fit one at all

    • It’s a fun, honest look at the ways we use labels to navigate gay life:  where they help, where they fall short, and why they matter more than most of us want to admit.

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    Today's Hosts:

    • Matt Landsiedel
    • Michael DiIorio

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